Then change your moniker; orare youdondeymad?


quote author=Youdondeymad post=56272445]Ok nobody is mad.


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Youdondeymad:
God bless you ma.




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Oga em not ma em only 20+ old pls just call me Mzjin(Mz) means Miss not Mrz.....tnks

justmenoni:
Then change your moniker; orare youdondeymad?


quote author=Youdondeymad post=56272445]Ok nobody is mad.


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I have another monicker,just using this one for the main time.Cheers


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MzJin:



Oga em not ma em only 20+ old pls just call me Mzjin(Mz) means Miss not Mrz.....tnks

Ok noted miss...


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Ok but youdondeymad or not?

I swear your moniker na fire!


quote author=Youdondeymad post=56274665]I have another monicker,just using this one for the main time.Cheers


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Youdondeymad:
Good morning peeps, I have been pondering about this issue since last week.

I was chatting with my nephew on whassapp few days ago,while we were chatting, I observed something strange. He is planning to settle down with his fiancee very soon, I was surprised when I saw the picture of his fiancee but I pretended as if I don't know her. I have dated this babe before (to be honest), I dated her after I broke up with my first love few years ago. We dated for 2 years and 3 months, I don't really know what to do. I don't want to burst my nephew's bubbles because he is so much in love, I don't have any problem with their union but I'm planning to avoid the marriage.

Am I right or wrong, please no bashing or insults, thank you all.

Keep quiet about d matter past is past since nobody knows about d matter. Try to keep proper gap between u n d lady. I understand your thought but keep it to yourself n keep proper distance. God bless u

The danger of premarital sex on point.....

justmenoni:
Ok but youdondeymad or not?

I swear your moniker na fire!


quote author=Youdondeymad post=56274665]I have another monicker,just using this one for the main time.Cheers


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Lol,if you can't beat them,you join them.I joined nairaland some years ago as a gentle guy but the heat is too much and unbearable so I changed my style to flow with the current system.I'd mention you at any time with my old monicker but don't ask me when...
Goodnight



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Barigaboy:
Keep quiet about d matter past is past since nobody knows about d matter. Try to keep proper gap between u n d lady. I understand your thought but keep it to yourself n keep proper distance. God bless u

God bless you too,thanks for understanding my point,some "self acclaimed moralists" on nairaland believe I'm doing this because of jealousy and idleness(lol).Thank you once again for your maturity,goodnight.


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Kondomatic:
I can't marry someone that my sibling or relation dated and if I see them with my ex, I will tell them the truth. Whatever they decides to do with the truth is entirely their business.

The reason I cannot marry the woman is because feelings can be rekindled. They can have sex again if they have had sex before.

Well said! Okafor's law works!!

jagugu88li:
Yes you!!!

WHat have i done to your heart now that u r screaming like that?

Cant u just admire me secretly without calling my attention?

Btw, how does one pronounce dis ur cognomen? Tried it n lost my pitch

People saying leftover.abeg which one be dat?
Lyk u dnt keep food in the freezer and rewarm and it taste better thaN when it was cooked
abeg what is leftover?leftover men or women.too much wahala in this world

Ok, I won't ask you again...ok mention me anytime...


quote author=Youdondeymad post=56276365]Lol,if you can't beat them,you join them.I joined nairaland some years ago as a gentle guy but the heat is too much and unbearable so I changed my style to flow with the current system.I'd mention you at any time with my old monicker but don't ask me when...
Goodnight



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What God has joined together let no one put asunder! you affairs with her is dead n buried

I cannot marry such my brother!
is better you tell him before it is too late.
you don't need to worry about their relationship, worry about your relationship with ur brother. Wife or girlfriend can go but ur family remained life.
if later the guy knew, he would believe u pp are still fucking behind him. and u will break his heart totally. we are all human. pls tell him in a strategical manner.

Kondomatic:
I can't marry someone that my sibling or relation dated and if I see them with my ex, I will tell them the truth. Whatever they decides to do with the truth is entirely their business.

The reason I cannot marry the woman is because feelings can be rekindled. They can have sex again if they have had sex before.

Okonkwor's law states: Once you've had sex with a woman you can still have sex with her over again.

The only thing that can make you not to attend is what led to your breakup with her. If its something your can handle there's no big deal.

Youdondeymad:
I don't have any problem with their union but is it normal to tell my cousin about our past escapades.
We are very close and I'm afraid he might not forgive me if I ignore his invitation.


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You need to tell him because if he get to know later might get mad..

Abbeynomics:
Ask your nephew dis same question, nd hear him out, den u can now deside what to do through his reply

Op, this says it all. Asking him the same question using an imaginary friend as a case study. Then observe his view with rapt attention and make your decision stresslessly.

Youdondeymad:
I don't know what to do,he has my pictures in his phone,I don't know what the lady would tell her about me.You know love is crazy,I don't want family wahala.


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You need to tell him and also tell you mum and your uncle to avoid family wahala in future..

Youdondeymad:
Thanks,I shouldn't tell him or attend the wedding?



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Don't just walk away oooo, Tell him everything and also tell your mum and your uncle for future..

ISTANDWITHBUHAR:



Don't just walk away oooo, Tell him everything and also tell your mum and your uncle for future..

Hmmmm! Bruh,I can't do it,the reason why I brought this issue to nairaland is because I want to know if it is right or wrong to ignore his invitation.I'm doing this because I care about them,I don't want to cause commotion on his wedding day,I won't forgive myself.I broke up with this lady because of genotype,she didn't offend me.I don't want her to remember her past on her wedding day(that's all)


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Youdondeymad:
Hmmmm! Bruh,I can't do it,the reason why I brought this issue to nairaland is because I want to know if it is right or wrong to ignore his invitation.I'm doing this because I care about them,I don't want to cause commotion on his wedding day,I won't forgive myself.I broke up with this lady because of genotype,she didn't offend me.I don't want her to remember her past on her wedding day(that's all)


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Bro if you have ever had sex with her then you need to tell them, No matter how you hide secret it will be exposed.. You cousin on't even forgive you and he might believe you guys will continue seeing each other and have been seeing each other behind his back..

You won't be free when you are around them anymore..

How can a lady you have once have sex with be your sister inlaw? How about those time you remember the times you spend with her..

I can't do such.

Dat can't work for me oo
Wich ear fit hear say my nephew Don yarnsh my wife?
D truth is anytime u n dat girl see eachoda
Ur memory will refresh n u will act in such a way dat will b suspicious to ur nephew and if ur nephew come to knw latr dat u ve dated her, he will feel disappointed.
D best ere is avoid seeing dem......