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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by midehill(m): 12:27am On May 07, 2017
auntysimbiat:
Good girl like me oo... I need a good guy too oo
.m a good guy...let's start from here
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:35am On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


Be a classy decent proper woman outside, but when you get to that bedroom, you must take care of BUSINESS and become that LovePeddler (to him)... Yes!
Be all he desires, without being fake like these pornstars.

Keep his attention on you, and renew your bedroom antics ever so often. He wants a dirty LovePeddler then become that animal and dress up like one, before sex. He wants to be handcuffed and roughed up, then ho buy tools and whips to deal with him.... WHATEVER IT TAKES.
Its not easy to diScover it all as many men rather be freaky with strangers and keep their loving wife in the dark.... But all women must find ways to unlock that secret place.




You sound so innocent... Ok, I suggest you keep praying for that good man that will stick with you, whether sexually miserable/satisfied or not. But remember that if you don't satisfy your man sexually, someone will.
Thats where people get it wrong,does my philosopy and perspective make me innocent. Its just what i believe in and a lot of people believe in something but does the opposite.
And yes i pray i find that special somebody if i havent already, lol. Marriage is not all sex ,its just part of it and yes a lady who wants to keep her home should keep her hubby sexually happy but thats not even a guarantee that he wont cheat on u

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 12:37am On May 07, 2017
Nawao....
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by donJ2(m): 12:41am On May 07, 2017
iamadonis2:


Dey dia Na... If every other guy were like me, you'll stay single till your village people feel you're old enough to be an Ancestor.

Who ur forming epp?

Chisos shocked shocked shocked, Guy, this Ur comment yaff killed me with lafta....chai u wicked gaan.... grin grin grin

Was wondering if u r a comedian grin grin grin grin

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by arrestdarrester: 12:46am On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
Aunty A got married because she is highly skilled in the bedroom and was able to fulfill ALL of that man's fantasy. Anal, she does it; 3sum, she is down for it; lick his aasss, yes daddy; dress as Catwoman while dangling from the chandelier, she is down for it. WHY?! Because as a wh0re, fukcing is her job and she is DAMN good at it... And the best part of it all is that, aunty A will never dare to stop this man from having mistresses, as she knows the game!

Now, aunty B certainly shouldn't make herself more absent, but instead, she should become the freak that her man desire, without bringing BS excuses (in the bedroom) when he wants to do all the dirty sexual stuff that is in his mind. Anyone who don't want to abide, will just open the door to their union to all the aunty A out there, who will gladly satisfy your man. If you want a man by your side, then become the freak that he desires!
MBJ

The guy with the primary story must have nailed it for all the ladies who do not consider God a factor. I advise all the God-fearing ladies out there to neither be Aunty A nor Aunty B. Be Aunty C, the one with the God Factor. In Christ you have a blanket cheque: if you ask anything in my name I will do it. This is fact if you will believe.

Remember, God said after all these things do the gentiles seek. Your Heavenly Father knows you have need of these things (e.g husband). But seek first the kingdom of God in your purpose. Seek next His righteousness in your personal life. And all these things shall be added unto you. This may sound foolish, but remember God uses the foolish things of this world to confound the wise.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:49am On May 07, 2017
dupsyluzy:

Thats where people get it wrong,does my philosopy and perspective make me innocent. Its just what i believe in and a lot of people believe in something but does the opposite.
And yes i pray i find that special somebody if i havent already, lol. Marriage is not all sex ,its just part of it and yes a lady who wants to keep her home should keep her hubby sexually happy but thats not even a guarantee that he wont cheat on u

I mean look outside, some of these desperate women are sharks, and unless you have you man's attention 110%, you will easily lose your man.

Praying has nothing to do with it all, you pray before going to bed, and then turn into that freak in the bedroom.
Again.... Be a decent lady in the street and a freak in the bedroom.

Of course, with all these freaky stuff your man could still cheat..... But that doesn't change the fact that you must become that freak he desires in the bedroom, so that YOU fulfill all his freakness.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:55am On May 07, 2017
arrestdarrester:


The guy with the primary story must have nailed it for all the ladies who do not consider God a factor. I advise all the God-fearing ladies out there to neither be Aunty A nor Aunty B. Be Aunty C, the one with the God Factor. In Christ you have a blanket cheque: if you ask anything in my name I will do it. This is fact if you will believe.

Remember, God said after all these things do the gentiles seek. Your Heavenly Father knows you have need of these things (e.g husband). But seek first the kingdom of God in your purpose. Seek next His righteousness in your personal life. And all these things shall be added unto you. This may sound foolish, but remember God uses the foolish things of this world to confound the wise.

Aunty C is miserable because she repress her sexual desires and satisfaction, in the name or religion. Her bedroom activity is BORING, because she is holding her natural desire due to religion.
Anyone who only have sex for reproduction is doomed!

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by thexzy(m): 12:57am On May 07, 2017
The CROSS-MULTIPLICATION of Life brings about Compatibility.... in that, the Bad guys matches those Good faithful unhurtfully looking little Angels callied "Good girls" while my Good nice faithful brothers are matched up with those motherfvcker Bitches called the "Bad girls" ofcourse you know "KARMA is Always a B!TCH". Such is Life and that'§ how it was designed to be! You'll always see that the good2good matches can be so fvcking boring while the bad2bad matches will always be very brutal. That'§ why that CROSS came in for peace to reign.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by discman2k2(m): 1:01am On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
Aunty A got married because she is highly skilled in the bedroom and was able to fulfill ALL of that man's fantasy. Anal, she does it; 3sum, she is down for it; lick his aasss, yes daddy; dress as Catwoman while dangling from the chandelier, she is down for it. WHY?! Because as a wh0re, fukcing is her job and she is DAMN good at it... And the best part of it all is that, aunty A will never dare to stop this man from having mistresses, as she knows the game!

Now, aunty B certainly shouldn't make herself more absent, but instead, she should become the freak that her man desire, without bringing BS excuses (in the bedroom) when he wants to do all the dirty sexual stuff that is in his mind. Anyone who don't want to abide, will just open the door to their union to all the aunty A out there, who will gladly satisfy your man. If you want a man by your side, then become the freak that he desires!
MBJ

the plain truth is that men simply live the hard to get woman. If a lady is always available due to her insecurities and all the lucky guy she's giving all her time to will not see much value in her and thus there wouldn't be any rush to out the ring on it.

Girls, please wisen up & play the Hard to get game with ypur dream man when he comes after you.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by BoosBae(f): 1:16am On May 07, 2017
Alezy:
u are 110% wrong.

its not how far but how well. aunty A will only attract her kind and later learn the hard way. reason why we have so many failed marriages. smh

You're 120% wrong. I wasn't talking about who gets married first, I was only making reference to being available. Only the wise will understand my statement and they know themselves.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by sellyjeffery: 1:20am On May 07, 2017
There is one thing that these girls don't understand. Guys no dey pursue girls again now. They are 1million+ girls in these world, any guy chasing you now is just deeply inlove with your pussy. If you can't be a good girl in these generation then be ready to follow RITUALISTS and die by enjoyment.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 1:23am On May 07, 2017
I'd rather stay good let people assume I'm bad and make peace with my maker there's no rules for marraige if the foundation isn't Holy Matrimony I'm not interested
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by acc001(f): 1:34am On May 07, 2017
Safiaa:
Absolute nonsense.

I only agree with the ' dont make yourself too available'

That's very true.
My dear it doesn't mk any difference,
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by acc001(f): 1:48am On May 07, 2017
TinaAnita:
I always tell whoever cares to listen that what you see in a relationship is what you will get in a marriage. If you marry a girl who hardly stays at home then don't expect her to change to Aunty B all of a sudden. If you marry a girl who can't lift a finger to assist you with one domestic work or the other don't expect her not to employ the services of a maid when she becomes a wife.


If a guy takes a girl for granted simply because she is always available it only means that the love is one-sided because if a guy truly loves a girl he would always want to be with her plus he would never take her for granted or take her constant availabilty for granted.

What's the guarantee that a guy won't take the lady who played hard to get for granted after he marries her? What's the guarantee that he won't get tired of living with her?

Any guy who chases after you simply because you are not always available is only obssessed with your absense and not you as a person. Why not make yourself available every now and then let's see if he will continue the chase? A guy who is truly interested in you will never take you for granted.

Getting married is not the issue but staying married. Whoever can't maintain a good relationship will definitely have a terrible marriage as a faulty relationship can't produce a good marriage.

Aunty B rocks I'm sorry..
It pays to be a home girl

U r on point,nice write up
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 1:48am On May 07, 2017
I can strongly relate to this Lady's post. Most of my friends from secondary sch are Aunty A's,they drive flashy cars, expensive clothes,first class ticket to fly to exotic locations and are always getting married every weekend while some of us are here struggling to secure a six figure salary job.

I don't envy or judge them because I'm n no position to, but sometimes I just wonder how/what it is they do.

To all the decent girls out there, keep the hustle clean and legit. May God Almighty grant us our heart desires at His own convenient and stipulated time. Amen

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 1:52am On May 07, 2017
She claims she's a good girl, but that she's mostly attracted to bad boys. ..lol Gfoh! No good girl's attracted to bad boys, you're just another o in denial grin

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 1:59am On May 07, 2017
She gave no tangible reasons at all.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Duru009(m): 2:21am On May 07, 2017
This ur style will not never work....

Ask Tonto dikeh and toke makinwa n rest!!!

Marrying earlydest guarantee a happy home or a long lasting marriage!! !!
.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 1234IKECHhukwu: 2:24am On May 07, 2017
U think by making ur self less available 'll make me value u .U are indirectly asking for another chick to replace u.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by sayovart(m): 2:41am On May 07, 2017
Aunty A lost it, Aunty B missed it, infact the writer has no Vision of what a virtuous woman is.
Infact Aunty B is not a Good girl at all ...why should you have sex with someone you're not Married to, or stay in His house, wetin do your Papa house? 8yrs? you no good at all, you be slave, self trafficked.
Playing hard won't work, you've bn used already.
Guys who take ladies love for granted needs help.
And ladies who play hard yet intrested also need help.
Love is not boastful or selfish.
A man of honour will honour you, no matter how avaible you seems and will appreciate you every seconds.

All you need is God and you can Trust His Peace not your Brain.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 1234IKECHhukwu: 2:51am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.
Giving men little or no attention doesn't change anything ,yes they 'll run after u just to bleep u & after that ur are on ur own.playing hard to get 'll not make any man marry u b/cos they believe that once they get married to u that is what u 'll continue to do in marriage.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by delivryboy: 2:53am On May 07, 2017
I have seen more good girls get married to great guys, it only makes news when a seemingly bad girls married a 'rich guy' and it seldom happens. There's more to it than what meets the ordinary eyes, being a bad girl, she won't find it too hard walking with her into a juju man's house and getting the man do her bidding, it's all part of being a bad girl. Lastly, she may go back to the waste bin she dumped her bad side and dust her 'bad girl' monkey jacket and wear it again if life goes rough for the rich dude, because they are hardly loyal in the first place, they are only loyal to cash and if it stops raining, they move and fast too. My suggestion is don't go into marriage with a bad girl, girls please continue to be good, it will always come back around to help in life.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Klington: 3:18am On May 07, 2017
MissCuppy:
She nailed it.


If you give these men much attention, they take you for granted, that's why I give them little or no attention, they come running like little baby.
,,,, one AuntyA spotted...........
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Klington: 3:32am On May 07, 2017
It's better to be an AuntyA rather than the so called pretending AuntyB who's nothing but,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 1234IKECHhukwu: 3:36am On May 07, 2017
djkall:
On the contrary, not bragging though. I have three women in my life. One good girl according her description, who has always been available to right from the day she said yes I'm ur girlfriend. Doing what a wife should do to her husband to me as a boyfriend. And the other two that are off and on, only come around either they are in need or hungry for sex. To cut the long story short I just proposed to my good girl and she said yes. We are tying the knots by December this year because I don't want rain to disrupt my marriage to the good girl of my life.
One thing I know is most men always go for what they want not what they need and at the end they look for the devil to blame.
The pix u see is my good girl
M happy 4 u ,I pray that 'll found one just like u did 4 now I don't even have any.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 3:44am On May 07, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
An apparent Nigerian lady has shared detailed reasons why good girls dont marry first. In the write-up that seems to be from her perspective, she talked about women being toys to men and how a woman should act so as to be valuable in the eyes of the opposite sex.

Everyone who read her writeup, Women and men, were all concurring to it...Read below

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http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/nigerian-lady-explains-why-good-girls.html


It is not how early that determine a lasting marriage. Aunty A will 'rush in' then 'rush out' of marriage

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Juliearth(f): 3:45am On May 07, 2017
dingbang:
Aunty B where are you? kiss kiss


Pm me Aunty B...

Ah ahn!!! Another one again?? I thought you have a lady in your life already who is "lazy"
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 1234IKECHhukwu: 4:01am On May 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


So you mean to say you were cheating on this seemingly good babe?! Here is my question: if she indeed brought you all you desire in life then why the need to cheat with 2 other women?!

Your choice of marrying her is out of desperation to be married and NOT because she is THE one. If she ever was, you would have never cheated on her (which you will NEVER stop doing, whether married to her or not)
No I don't believe he cheated on her, he only made his chances open b/cos he didn't know what stuff they were made off ,now he has been able to decipher the good from the bad egg & now he's doing what an honourable man 'll do by taking her to the alter come December. Even the lady in question might have other guys by the side too,just that on the contrary this guy was the first to propose.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 1234IKECHhukwu: 4:09am On May 07, 2017
Miss cuppy don get mention tire today I pity her doo.they'll always think they know better.
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Sike(m): 4:29am On May 07, 2017
PapiSmith:
Because Aunty A married earlier doesn't mean she will have a happy home.

Ask Toke makinwa.
chai

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 4:29am On May 07, 2017
auntysimbiat:
Good girl like me oo... I need a good guy too oo

I'm a good guy ooo, let's talk!

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