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Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by RB007: 9:12am On May 16, 2017
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Mujaheeeden: 9:19am On May 16, 2017
Yes. Happiness is in you. Find that which makes you happy and you tell sadness goodbye forever




If an Arsenal Fan can be happy why should you ever be sad

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by RB007: 9:28am On May 16, 2017
smiley
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by mickey70(m): 9:32am On May 16, 2017
Remember your old age

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by UncutSk(m): 10:07am On May 16, 2017
Not in this country

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shinarlaura(f): 10:11am On May 16, 2017
At ur old age, that's when u will know how it feels like.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by RB007: 10:15am On May 16, 2017
shinarlaura:
At ur old age, that's when u will know how it feels like.


There's Money

I can adopt too...

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by FelixFelicis(m): 10:35am On May 16, 2017
shinarlaura:
At ur old age, that's when u will know how it feels like.

lol
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Lionessza(f): 12:05pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley






Nothing and no one can make you really happy but yourself , the rest are accessories . They can either enhance your happiness or add to your misery.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by RB007: 12:15pm On May 16, 2017
Lalasticlala
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Lanceslot(m): 1:30pm On May 16, 2017
Interesting question.
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by EmekaBlue(m): 1:30pm On May 16, 2017
Yes Na...if Money dey
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by maverickdude(m): 1:30pm On May 16, 2017
chijioke0056:
still wondering how it is possible?
call or whatsapp the number bel
I don't know why you can't play these games yourself and hammer angry

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by sod09(m): 1:31pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley
yes...but not in nigeria
family and friends will frustrate your life

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by julimax(m): 1:31pm On May 16, 2017
angry GROW UP PLS

Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by obataokenwa(m): 1:32pm On May 16, 2017
No one alters nature and becomes happy at the long run. Ask Aunties that rejected men at young age

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by morereb10: 1:32pm On May 16, 2017
of course u can


anu mpama

when the time comes u go still ask - can someone who decide to be married as 4th wife be happy?

NL - nothing wey person no go see

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 1:32pm On May 16, 2017
grin
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Josmila(m): 1:32pm On May 16, 2017
Thank God for choices life offers us as humans.

You can choose to live as you so want, how best it suits you.

What rocks my boat can sink yours.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by SuperBlack: 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
Yes!

Ask Rev Fathers,

Ask Arsene Wenger

Ask Rev Sisters

There are so many things that makes Life worth living apart from Getting married and Bearing Children.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Deepfreezer(m): 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
I will advice you adopt. Guess u made this decision cos u dont want women wahala. To svoid boredom in ur old age

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Artorius(m): 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
Every one must define for themselves what the meaning of happiness is.

Happiness is fulfillment, the one cannot be obtained without the other.

If a person according to the dictates of their heart decides that childlessness or perpetual singleness is the way to go, who are we to judge?

If being married with children is a necessity for life happiness, what can we say about widow/ers, or people who are biologically incapable of reproduction, are they then doomed to forever be unhappy? Certainly not!

Jesus, Paul, Oprah Winfrey, Isaac Newton, are examples of people who lived what we may consider to be happy and fulfilling lives, but were never married, on the other hand Maria Curie, J. F. Kennedy, Prophet Muhammad, etc. did, and they left their legacies.

Happiness is personal, even more so it is internal. Please do not let anyone or society impose their definition of happiness upon you .

Should you seek happiness by following public opinion, therein will you find your deepest unhappiness and waste your years in regret.

Above all, know thyself

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by maryjan8(f): 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
Happiness is a matter of choice

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Goldenheart(m): 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
cool

Them plenty for LAG.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by ajalawole(m): 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
Make i book and pay for my seat jejele a observe sha 8-) 8-) ....... Try that and ur village people will be after ur life for having no kids sad
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 1:33pm On May 16, 2017
NOT IN NIGERIA... UNLESS YOU USE THE EXCUSE OF BEING A NUN cheesy

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Laple0541(m): 1:34pm On May 16, 2017
Even animals in their kingdom know the importance of procreation, your parent did a lot of chemistry, stressed and laboured to bring you to this world so bring someone too so that your lineage history will not be terminated with you.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Emmahunk(m): 1:34pm On May 16, 2017
Sure you can be veryyyyyyyyy happy . Only wish your parents didnt come together to give birth to you and nurture you to adulthood.
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Tokziby: 1:34pm On May 16, 2017
Its highly impossible. The reason is simple, human are social animal meaning that we cannot survive without being around people. Human are easily bored especially when u live alone. Living alone is dangerous cos u can develop illness at any time and when there is no one to call, u are as good as dead. Majority of people that live alone surfer in silence, they are never happy either because they are not married or childless. Living alone also has psychological effects causing the person to be a saddist, get upset easily or over thinking.

In the developed countries where old people live alone, they usually die of depression. That is why they have old people home where they can interact with their fellow mate and live a longer life. In places like Nigeria, u will discover that they are the nicest of people, this is because they want to lure people around them and always have someone to chat with. That is why they prefer to live in the village where they have friends than to live in the city where their children will leave them at home doing nothing and nobody to interact with.

In case u are planning to do that its never the best thing to do. You might enjoy it when u are still young but the moment u reach ur forties expect something different.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by ademola964: 1:35pm On May 16, 2017
chijioke0056:
still wondering how it is possible? call or whatsapp the number bel

Are you for real ??
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Mosseuirdoctore(m): 1:35pm On May 16, 2017
I don't think so..
Won't you be jealous and feel bad when u see your friends with their families?
I understand its sometimes scary these days with the whole series of divorces going on,but I just think its what we've got to do..
There is some form of inner joy and fulfillment watching your child grow..
Nothing should take that joy away..

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