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Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:33pm On May 16, 2017
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by DivinelyBlessed: 9:35pm On May 16, 2017
The way you present yourself?

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Lewaluv(f): 9:36pm On May 16, 2017
Are they only beautiful girls?

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 16, 2017
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Softorgasm(m): 9:38pm On May 16, 2017
Hmmm op its not your fault..

That your friend is lucky because a larger percentage of ladies in Nigeria are only after the money.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:39pm On May 16, 2017
Lewaluv:
Are they only beautiful girls?

Yes o

That's my compulsory criteria

I find it difficult to move with worwor gals

I always go for naturally beautiful ones

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:41pm On May 16, 2017
kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Evablizin(f): 9:42pm On May 16, 2017
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by cerowo(f): 9:42pm On May 16, 2017
Keep on searching op

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 9:42pm On May 16, 2017
Dis girl dey make me High E I, High E I smiley

U no go believe, she looking at me shocked

My temperature dey Rye E Eyes, Rye E Eyes embarassed

If u see dis baby tell am say...

angry

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Tklabelle(f): 9:43pm On May 16, 2017
26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Probably how you carry yourself

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:44pm On May 16, 2017
Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Thank God you are joking

Lovely sense of humor u got

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 9:45pm On May 16, 2017
Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols

Hiaaaaan!

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:46pm On May 16, 2017
cerowo:
Keep on searching op

For how long

I mean I suffered to get a job

Now I must also suffer to get a gal

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:48pm On May 16, 2017
Softorgasm:
Hmmm op its not your fault..

That your friend is lucky because a larger percentage of ladies in Nigeria are only after the money.

I don't want to believe your statistics

It's scary

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 16, 2017
26andsearching:


To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​
The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing. grin

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:49pm On May 16, 2017
Tklabelle:


Probably how you carry yourself

Am trying to be real

I can't pretend

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Evablizin(f): 9:50pm On May 16, 2017
EnigmaticEnigma:


Hiaaaaan!
lols current chaki chen well don ooo,u've suceeded in kickin me out 4rm my sit.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Basildvalour(m): 9:50pm On May 16, 2017
Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols
Are you related to Pastor Jerry? You've got his looks facially.
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by cerowo(f): 9:50pm On May 16, 2017
26andsearching:

For how long
I mean I suffered to get a job
Now I must also suffer to get a gal
Double yr searching the right one is on d way

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Evablizin(f): 9:53pm On May 16, 2017
Basildvalour:
Are you related to Pastor Jerry? You've got his looks facially.
nope
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Tklabelle(f): 9:54pm On May 16, 2017
26andsearching:


Am trying to be real

I can't pretend

I know that feeling sad. Problem here is that men are like that. Maybe I should move to Naija grin
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 9:54pm On May 16, 2017
Evablizin:
lols current chaki chen well don ooo,u've suceeded in kickin me out 4rm my sit.

U kicked us all with that comment

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:55pm On May 16, 2017
kimbra:
The impression you create matters. That's what they act on. So put off how much you could take care of a girl or how rosy your life is when wooing. grin

I rarely speak of myself or status when wooing

U ladies are just too complicated

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Dshocker(m): 9:57pm On May 16, 2017
26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
t
Thanks

the way you present yourself in the first place
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 9:57pm On May 16, 2017
Basildvalour:
Are you related to Pastor Jerry? You've got his looks facially.

Guy this your strategy eh

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Nobody: 9:59pm On May 16, 2017
You are what you eat grin

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by 26andsearching(m): 10:06pm On May 16, 2017
Tklabelle:


I know that feeling sad. Problem here is that men are like that. Maybe I should move to Naija grin

What will you gain moving here
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Basildvalour(m): 10:07pm On May 16, 2017
26andsearching:


Guy this your strategy eh
Sorry, nothing more than that question intended.

I am a married man

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by Basildvalour(m): 10:09pm On May 16, 2017
Evablizin:
nope
But l believe you know who l am talking about.
Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:09pm On May 16, 2017
kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

0.03 balance.

hope you get?

Didn't hear from you.

How are you na??

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Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies? by whitebeard(m): 10:09pm On May 16, 2017
Evablizin:
Chai sowie,i hav a solution 2 ur problem,cum nd date me i'm nt materialistic i wil even pay ur house rent 4 u,in short i wil turn ur life around.lols
U

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