I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

na u fall hand... u no try at all.

Ur bored of her of being saint, isnt it?

U have to tell her or even teach her to spice up ur relationship..Unless there is someone u fantasize sha...

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return. But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because iv realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don kno wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful, how should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in ths situation.

Bullshit, you are cheating on her...that's why you feel ths way. Geraaaraaa here man!

StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

The emboldened got me laughing
Which one is mungwongoti again, na SA shekpe

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return. But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because iv realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don kno wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful, how should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in ths situation.

ok.

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return. But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because iv realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don kno wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful, how should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in ths situation.

.. STORY...my nigggga..I beg.. if u don't wanna smash....let me smash!

Thinking ......................

Bashnigga:

The emboldened got me laughing
Which one is mungwongoti again, na SA shekpe

Yes!

though i might not have spelt it correctly but i lived there for some years....


When it comes to Hips, Bro they got it... But when they get older, they suffer rheumatism due to the heavy butt load..

So to the OP, think about the pains she will put you through when she gets older and stick to your Naija Wife ok

See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

Awon girls south africa yii bad oo

Abeg I dey find wife, give her to me ASAP.

Long distance relationships are hard especially when you are young and in your case it's worse you live in two different corners of the continent and only see each other two times a year ? Wow. Why did you rush to Marriage when your affairs aren't in order yet, if they were and you were truly ready you would be living together now right?. I hope you didn't marry her because she has a "good character " in the community because that alone can't make a relationship survive. What has really made you fall out of love with her , did your goals or hers change ? You can't just fall out of love , or maybe you realized you never truly loved her it was infatuation or you admired that she was such a good person .

Bros you sure no be wetin you c before the wedding, you no longer De c am again.

Hmm this one hard

Lionessza:
Long distance relationships are hard especially when you are young and in your case it's worse you live in two different corners of the continent and only see each other two times a year ? Wow. Why did you rush to Marriage when your affairs aren't in order yet, if they were and you were truly ready you would be living together now right?. I hope you didn't marry her because she has a "good character " in the community because that alone can't make a relationship survive. What has really made you fall out of love with her , did your goals or hers change ? You can't just fall out of love , or maybe you realized you never truly loved her it was infatuation or you admired that she was such a good person .

Don't mind us'bali , he's probably too ashamed to admit that he's seeing someone else down South, hence the sudden change of heart. Which is unfair on both women if my suspicions are true. His life, the ball is on his court. A person shouldn't stay in a relationship out of obligation imo. I think he should just be honest, set the lady free, so she can go find a man that'll love & appreciate her.

StephDamielola:


Yes!

though i might not have spelt it correctly but i lived there for some years....


When it comes to Hips, Bro they got it... But when they get older, they suffer rheumatism due to the heavy butt load..

So to the OP, think about the pains she will put you through when she gets older and stick to your Naija Wife ok

LMAO.... Very funny
I hope the OP listens to ur advice .
For me, I think the problem is distance.... U know the saying "out of sight, out of mind"

Bashnigga:

LMAO.... Very funny
I hope the OP listens to ur advice .
For me, I think the problem is distance.... U know the saying "out of sight, out of mind"

Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

Lionessza:
Long distance relationships are hard especially when you are young and in your case it's worse you live in two different corners of the continent and only see each other two times a year ? Wow. Why did you rush to Marriage when your affairs aren't in order yet, if they were and you were truly ready you would be living together now right?. I hope you didn't marry her because she has a "good character " in the community because that alone can't make a relationship survive. What has really made you fall out of love with her , did your goals or hers change ? You can't just fall out of love , or maybe you realized you never truly loved her it was infatuation or you admired that she was such a good person .

Yes it could be distance or he met someone much more exciting and is afraid to come clean. I see y'alls hips are being blamed already

StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

LOL your comments have been making me laugh..you are an interesting lady..by the way what does nakupenda mean?is that what Southafricans say when they are climaxing?

ZarZar:


Don't mind us'bali , he's probably too ashamed to admit that he's seeing someone else down South, hence the sudden change of heart. Which is unfair on both women if my suspicions are true. His life, the ball is on his court. A person shouldn't stay in a relationship out of obligation imo. I think he should just be honest, set the lady free, so she can go find a man that'll love & appreciate her.

Hahahaha i suspect the same but wanted him to come clean . Akaphinde agoduke lo . Yeah it's unfair worse for the one who is truly into him lol.



How was the lunch d?

torqque7:


LOL your comments have been making me laugh..you are an interesting lady..by the way what does nakupenda mean?is that what Southafricans say when they are climaxing?

It means "I love you"

And yes, when they want to climax, they scream NAKUPENDA

Tuksgrad:








Yes it could be distance or he met someone much more exciting and is afraid to come clean. I see y'alls hips are being blamed already

Lol yeah. Yeah let's blame the South African hips they are the problem here

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

Not true..we only want crazy girls for sex and fun but a good girl to wife..don't get it mixed up..the fact that we say good girl and Virgin doesn't mean when we marry her she would not fvck us good cos that's where they get it wrong..you should be a good girl but a freak in the sheets with your husband..the secret is knowing how to balance the two,once you do that then we will be fine and loyal to you. But a lot of good girls and Virgins tend to misbehave when married,they will be forming I don't like giving bj or I am too shy and not comfortable to explore sexually with my husband.

StephDamielola:


It means "I love you"

And yes, when they want to climax, they scream NAKUPENDA

Hahaha..OK thanks for the lessons on South African climax ..I'll remember that when I meet a Girl from SA..

Oya I want to come and meet you so you can teach me more of the weird SA lingua ;Dil make a great student o promise lol

Tuksgrad:








Yes it could be distance or he met someone much more exciting and is afraid to come clean. I see y'alls hips are being blamed already

The hips thing is just ridiculous. Most Nigerian guys here are not married to ladies with big hips. Big personality & big brain, yes, but not big hips

Here's a homegirl of mine & her Nigerian husband...

torqque7:


Hahaha..OK thanks for the lessons on South African climax ..I'll remember that when I meet a Girl from SA..

Oya I want to come and meet you so you can teach me more of the weird SA lingua ;Dil make a great student o promise lol

You are welcome always... Just that our lesson hall will be at Domino Pizza Wuse, Abuja...

ZarZar:


The hips thing is just ridiculous. Most Nigerian guys here are not married to ladies with big hips. Big personality & big brain, yes, but not big hips

Here's a homegirl of mine & her Nigerian husband...

Show us her Butt Please?

If she has a moderate hip, then she has bogus and conspicuous Butt

StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

I totally agree with u on the sex ish.

Hahaha, U've concluded he's seeing someone else already.

U know u'd make a fine comedienne

StephDamielola:


Show us her Butt Please?

If she has a moderate hip, then she has bogus and conspicuous Butt

She has moderate butt. Wait, I'll check if I have any photos of her showing her butt