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For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 10:30am On May 22, 2017
But, how long should sex last for it to be considered fantastic or good?
Generally, stories of sex that lasts all night long tend to impress listeners. However, researchers are saying that in reality, good sex should not last more than 13 minutes!
Some studies, such as a 2005 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, even report a median time of between 5.4 and 7.6 minutes!
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by gab264(m): 10:33am On May 22, 2017
engrMikemd:
But, how long should sex last for it to be considered fantastic or good?
Generally, stories of sex that lasts all night long tend to impress listeners. However, researchers are saying that in reality, good sex should not last more than 13 minutes!
Some studies, such as a 2005 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, even report a median time of between 5.4 and 7.6 minutes!
Forever in hell bro
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 10:47am On May 22, 2017
The optimal duration varies between couples. Ideally it should last until you both climax, so yes, an average of a quarter hour according to research. Redundant humping can be very upsetting. The fifteen minutes is for one cycle though - arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution. But people who speak of going all night, refer to multiple cycles, achieving several orgasms through the entire session.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 10:48am On May 22, 2017
gab264:
Forever in hell bro
hell?
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 10:51am On May 22, 2017
RaggedyAnn:
The optimal duration varies between couples. Ideally it should last until you both climax, so yes, an average of a quarter hour according to research. Redundant humping can be very upsetting. The fifteen minutes is for one cycle though - arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution. But people who speak of going all night, refer to multiple cycles, achieving several orgasms through the entire session.
Sex expert, Tracey Cox, warns that ideally, sex may not last longer than 13 minutes because the natural lubrication women enjoy doesn't​ last for ever.
“Therefore, going for too long might prove painful, especially if the intercourse is in one position,” the sex guru says.
Cox notes that there’s a perception that women crave longer sex, saying, “while some women enjoy uninterrupted, prolonged sex, apparently, the majority really don’t.”

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by tosyne2much(m): 10:54am On May 22, 2017
The duration of sex with the person your truly love shouldn't exceed 10-15mins, if it's awoof sex, na one hour things cheesy
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by BlackDBagba: 10:55am On May 22, 2017
Here to read comments grin

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 11:05am On May 22, 2017
tosyne2much:
The duration of sex with the person your truly love shouldn't exceed 10-15mins, if it's awoof sex, na one hour things cheesy
u mean u can control the duration.

besides awoof dey run belle
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Beverages: 11:08am On May 22, 2017
Mtcheew!
Laaro kutukutu monday.
Na wa o
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Grabbeast: 11:11am On May 22, 2017
engrMikemd:

Sex expert, Tracey Cox, warns that ideally, sex may not last longer than 13 minutes because the natural lubrication women enjoy doesn't​ last for ever.
“Therefore, going for too long might prove painful, especially if the intercourse is in one position,” the sex guru says.
Cox notes that there’s a perception that women crave longer sex, saying, “while some women enjoy uninterrupted, prolonged sex, apparently, the majority really don’t.”

In short use lub to prolong sex with your partner for optimal satisfaction.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 11:25am On May 22, 2017
Grabbeast:


In short use lub to prolong sex with your partner for optimal satisfaction.
why will you want prolonged sex?
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Grabbeast: 11:29am On May 22, 2017
engrMikemd:

why will you want prolonged sex?

Because most women will not cum in fifteen minutes, unless the guy is jackie chan.

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 11:44am On May 22, 2017
Grabbeast:


In short use lub to prolong sex with your partner for optimal satisfaction.

No, it's not about supplementing with lube. Unless you're referring to the man's pleasure now, or women who require the help due to hormonal changes (after menopause or other pre-existing conditions). In normal scenarios, the woman's excitement will stimulate vaginal lubrication, it shows that she's in the mood for it, and it would serve her better if you pay attention to what her body is doing. It's like riding a wave - timing is key. The 13 minutes is not a recommendation, it's an average time that has been observed. Some women may require less time and some may require a longer time to climax. But what ever time is germane to any woman should not be ignored. Pay attention to her reaction to see when she's on the verge of the orgasm. Communication is important. I'm not referring to verbal communication now, but reading the varying degrees of wetness, breathing rate, tension in the muscles, et al. If she begins to get dry, the moment has passed. You may want to give her some time before trying again. From the beginning.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by sexybbstar(f): 11:46am On May 22, 2017
tosyne2much:
The duration of sex with the person your truly love shouldn't exceed 10-15mins, if it's awoof sex, na one hour things cheesy

undecided undecided
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 12:10pm On May 22, 2017
Grabbeast:


Because most women will not cum in fifteen minutes, unless the guy is jackie chan.
Sex is more than just intercourse, and the time couples allot to it should include the time to generate arousal both mentally and physically, says sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist, Dr. Ian Kerner, author of
She Comes First.

That can mean lots of touching and pre-intimacy, sharing a fantasy, reading erotica, watching porn together, or roleplaying some sort of kinky scene.
With long pre-intimacy is the probability of getting fully aroused, which can help you achieve orgasm more quickly — an attestation to the possible short duration of real act of sex
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by engrMikemd(m): 12:12pm On May 22, 2017
RaggedyAnn:


No, it's not about supplementing with lube. Unless you're referring to the man's pleasure now, or women who require the help due to hormonal changes (after menopause or other pre-existing conditions). In normal scenarios, the woman's excitement will stimulate vaginal lubrication, it shows that she's in the mood for it, and it would serve her better if you pay attention to what her body is doing. It's like riding a wave - timing is key. The 13 minutes is not a recommendation, it's an average time that has been observed. Some women may require less time and some may require a longer time to climax. But what ever time is germane to any woman should not be ignored. Pay attention to her reaction to see when she's on the verge of the orgasm. Communication is important. I'm not referring to verbal communication now, but reading the varying the degrees of wetness, breathing rate, tension in the muscles, et al. If she begins to get dry, the moment has passed. You may want to give her some time before trying again. From the beginning.
what a terrific contribution!

fôreplay is the key

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by darbeelicous(f): 12:20pm On May 22, 2017
eternity and a day after... grin grin

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by KINGOFJAPAN: 12:24pm On May 22, 2017
darbeelicous:
eternity and a day after... grin grin
Na so

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Funlord2(m): 12:50pm On May 22, 2017
RaggedyAnn:


No, it's not about supplementing with lube. Unless you're referring to the man's pleasure now, or women who require the help due to hormonal changes (after menopause or other pre-existing conditions). In normal scenarios, the woman's excitement will stimulate vaginal lubrication, it shows that she's in the mood for it, and it would serve her better if you pay attention to what her body is doing. It's like riding a wave - timing is key. The 13 minutes is not a recommendation, it's an average time that has been observed. Some women may require less time and some may require a longer time to climax. But what ever time is germane to any woman should not be ignored. Pay attention to her reaction to see when she's on the verge of the orgasm. Communication is important. I'm not referring to verbal communication now, but reading the varying degrees of wetness, breathing rate, tension in the muscles, et al. If she begins to get dry, the moment has passed. You may want to give her some time before trying again. From the beginning.




Hmmm....i like what I see! wink

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by 1StopRudeness: 12:57pm On May 22, 2017
darbeelicous:
eternity and a day after... grin grin

Haaaaa... na so u like this thing??

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by tosyne2much(m): 2:59pm On May 22, 2017
engrMikemd:

u mean u can control the duration.

besides awoof dey run belle
That kind thing cheesy
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by darbeelicous(f): 4:23pm On May 22, 2017
hehehehe..... Are u a learner? wink wink wink wink
1StopRudeness:


Haaaaa... na so u like this thing??

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Mckayzee(m): 4:48pm On May 22, 2017
wonder why ladies are hardly commenting...... would have loved to hear from the horse's mouth, cause na them we dey try satisfy hence the extra millage undecided
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by 1StopRudeness: 5:00pm On May 22, 2017
darbeelicous:
hehehehe..... Are u a learner? wink wink wink wink

I don't know if am learner oooo... but, but, but....1hr is okay for this thing naaaaa.... shebi we go still do another one naaaa...

Eternity too mush ooooo
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Dexema(m): 6:10pm On May 22, 2017
RaggedyAnn:


No, it's not about supplementing with lube. Unless you're referring to the man's pleasure now, or women who require the help due to hormonal changes (after menopause or other pre-existing conditions). In normal scenarios, the woman's excitement will stimulate vaginal lubrication, it shows that she's in the mood for it, and it would serve her better if you pay attention to what her body is doing. It's like riding a wave - timing is key. The 13 minutes is not a recommendation, it's an average time that has been observed. Some women may require less time and some may require a longer time to climax. But what ever time is germane to any woman should not be ignored. Pay attention to her reaction to see when she's on the verge of the orgasm. Communication is important. I'm not referring to verbal communication now, but reading the varying degrees of wetness, breathing rate, tension in the muscles, et al. If she begins to get dry, the moment has passed. You may want to give her some time before trying again. From the beginning.
Where you from ann? You seem to know a lot of stuff about a lot of things. I suspect you are quite old or you just have an old soul in a young body.
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by 1StopRudeness: 6:23pm On May 22, 2017
Dexema:

Where you from ann? You seem to know a lot of stuff about a lot of things. I suspect you are quite old or you just have an old soul in a young body.

Oga u don't need to have an old soul or be old in years to be a pro in these things...I don jam babe wey no pass 23 years old but have 36years straffing experience...when I say experience..i mean all round experience....
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Dexema(m): 6:24pm On May 22, 2017
1StopRudeness:


Oga u don't need to have an old soul or be old in years to be a pro in these things...I don jam babe wey no pass 23 years old but have 36years bleeping experience...when I say experience..i mean all round experience....
Hahahahahhaaa!lwkm
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Nobody: 6:25pm On May 22, 2017
Dexema:

Where you from ann? You seem to know a lot of stuff about a lot of things. I suspect you are quite old or you just have an old soul in a young body.

Lol! Yes, you're quite right, dear, I am very old. But still of an age where I attend more weddings than funerals. wink
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Lalas247(f): 6:26pm On May 22, 2017
Minimum 12 hours grin
Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Fuckshiit: 6:30pm On May 22, 2017
Till her fûçkiñg pûssy becomes RED

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Re: For It To Be Good, How Long Should Sex Last? by Dexema(m): 6:30pm On May 22, 2017
RaggedyAnn:


Lol! Yes, you're quite right, dear, I am very old. But still of an age where I attend more weddings than funerals. wink
Grandma Ann,
Don't worry, I know what to do.

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