For some years now I was just taking it easy, not looking to date, and just went out just to grab a drink and chill. My anti social personality contributed to this though.

After this years, I was ready to defy all odds to find a girl of my own But one issue I am repeatedly running into is that many girls i ave talked to don't trust me,especially when expressing my feelings to them. They expect me to be unfaithful, sleep around, etc. and I am not like that at all.

One of the main issues I encounter is when girls "lock up" when I try talking to them. Any sort of "daygame" approach has this potential, as girls sometimes freeze and can't really act normally around me.

This can sometimes happen even when I've seen the girl a second or third time, and they still can't quite relax.

I have gotten slightly discouraged by this.

One woman in particular was a) angry with me at first, b) then very nervous then c) ignored me completely the third time I spoke to her.
It is just discouraging.
Girls why do u tink all guys cheat ,or that some guys are really playboy even when it's is clear that the guys feeling is definitely a sincere one.

Just relax. The right girl will come around.

Cheats think every one Cheats

Faithfuls think others are also faithful


Players create players.....

Xway:
For some years now I was just taking it easy, not looking to date, and just went out just to grab a drink and chill. My anti social personality contributed to this though.

After this years, I was ready to defy all odds to find a girl of my own But one issue I am repeatedly running into is that many girls i ave talked to don't trust me,especially when expressing my feelings to them. They expect me to be unfaithful, sleep around, etc. and I am not like that at all.

One of the main issues I encounter is when girls "lock up" when I try talking to them. Any sort of "daygame" approach has this potential, as girls sometimes freeze and can't really act normally around me.

This can sometimes happen even when I've seen the girl a second or third time, and they still can't quite relax.

I have gotten slightly discouraged by this.

One woman in particular was a) angry with me at first, b) then very nervous then c) ignored me completely the third time I spoke to her.
It is just discouraging.
Girls why do u tink all guys cheat ,or that some guys are really playboy even when it's is clear that the guys feeling is definitely a sincere one.

greatnaija01:
Cheats think every one Cheats

Faithfuls think others are also faithful


Players create players.....

With ur views,i think am always tryin to hook up with the wrong girls.

you need naive girls whom u can be faithful with n grow together.... they are scarce but they exist.... change your circle...

Xway:
With ur views,i think am always tryin to hook up with the wrong girls.

haven't you heard people saying that all beautiful girls and handsome guys cheat?

why?
that I do not know!
but one thing I am sure of is that when a guy knows he is handsome like really handsome he starts misbehaving. they see themselves as superior to other males! lil by lil they start cheating till they become a PRO!

to me that's what I think

hunniebun:
haven't you heard people saying that all beautiful girls and handsome guys cheat?

why?
that I do not know!
but one thing I am sure of is that when a guy knows he is handsome like really handsome he starts misbehaving. they see themselves as superior to other males! lil by lil they start cheating till they become a PRO!

to me that's what I think

Dear it's absurd to base ur judgement on trust,cheat because the guy is cute or handsome. Even when it obvious the guy don't have such an intention.
It's true that one can develop or have the zeal to cheat. But every one is guilty of this both guys and girls,I don't knw why am experiencing this discrimination from girls.

Keep on searching op, the right one dat wld love u truely is on d way

na yahoo boyz dem like

cerowo:
Keep on searching op, the right one dat wld love u truely is on d way

you can actually be the right one for Op...what do you think?

There are two types of good looking men.
1. The ones that are good looking and know it. The ones that get very upset if you reject them - the sense of entitlement is unbelievable with this type.
2. They are very good looking but are quite modest about it. They are alarmed by any female attention their are the ones you hardly come across. If you do thank your lucky stars.

akintho:

you can actually be the right one for Op...what do you think?

Nah, i am nt d one 4 op, am taken already... Your sister will do

I am a victim of this so I perfectly understand. you have to keep convincing them .

cerowo:

Nah, i am nt d one 4 op, am taken already... Your sister will do

taken where??...married??..except that..though nothing is wrong if Op crosses my sister's path..

akintho:


taken where??...married??..except that..though nothing is wrong if Op crosses my sister's path..

Married! Nah...buh taken...lols...
Op wld b more better 4 yr sister

hunniebun:
haven't you heard people saying that all beautiful girls and handsome guys cheat?

why?
that I do not know!
but one thing I am sure of is that when a guy knows he is handsome like really handsome he starts misbehaving. they see themselves as superior to other males! lil by lil they start cheating till they become a PRO!

to me that's what I think

This your theory is applicable to women too

cerowo:
Married! Nah...buh taken...lols... Op wld b more better 4 yr sister

you're not taken sister...until you're married accept.lol

akintho:

you're not taken sister...until you're married accept.lol

Everybdy is entitled 2 his/her meaning of taken, so let my 'taken' be..lol

1 they are cheat 2 they are proud and arrogant 3 all the girls even married woman are always after them 4 they are so insensitive and thinks they are doing you a favour by dating you 5 in fact all this fine bobos know themselves.

I believe you are not meeting the right ones. Or Maybe you need to change your circle. There must be something they see in you that makes them perceive you as a cheat. A good girl know a good guy when she sees one and vice versa. You are leaving out an important information Sir

Xway:
For some years now I was just taking it easy, not looking to date, and just went out just to grab a drink and chill. My anti social personality contributed to this though.

After this years, I was ready to defy all odds to find a girl of my own But one issue I am repeatedly running into is that many girls i ave talked to don't trust me,especially when expressing my feelings to them. They expect me to be unfaithful, sleep around, etc. and I am not like that at all.

One of the main issues I encounter is when girls "lock up" when I try talking to them. Any sort of "daygame" approach has this potential, as girls sometimes freeze and can't really act normally around me.

This can sometimes happen even when I've seen the girl a second or third time, and they still can't quite relax.

I have gotten slightly discouraged by this.

One woman in particular was a) angry with me at first, b) then very nervous then c) ignored me completely the third time I spoke to her.
It is just discouraging.
Girls why do u tink all guys cheat ,or that some guys are really playboy even when it's is clear that the guys feeling is definitely a sincere one.

, so what you guys are trying to tell us now is, "because a guy is fair,makes him automatically good look and must be accepted by every lady,abi"??.. ok oo, God help us, we the "dark and Un fair guys".

I have been there too.. when i tell a lady that i am single she will look at me like she seen a ghost..
.
but start going for ladies you truly love and not just because you want to beat the odds and get a girlfriend

Debbiepaul:
1 they are cheat 2 they are proud and arrogant 3 all the girls even married woman are always after them 4 they are so insensitive and thinks they are doing you a favour by dating you 5 in fact all this fine bobos know themselves.

Calm down...

My Guy...no be ur pix i de see like this so?

4get that tin bro...U na badt Guy....
maybe not now...but later in d future...

Ok...Mr Op...it is what it is...d same way most guys see d pretty girls (girls with good fashion sense) as d unserious/philandering type.. (with more dan 2 or 3 boyfriends... most times true)..d same way de look at d cute brothers as players(brothers with good dress sense)....sometimes true also..because when u r cute d opposite sex usually find u very attracted...WHO NO LIKE FINE THINGS?...expecially wen u got d Game...

SO DON'T BLAME THEM...IT IS WHAT IT IS...

Nowadays u don't need to be very cute 2 b considered a player...just get small money..n u come sabi package urself....dem don de see u as a player b that (that's what most girls think)...They all see me as a player...i don't know why..they normally say i got d player's look...d way I dress...d way i walk n talk...i mean i just don't get it...but it is what it is...so i just don't care anymore...because what dey say doesn't stop me frm getting d kind of girl i wnt...so i think it's up to u...e de ur hand bro...

being handsome wouldn't stop u frm getting a nice pretty girl as girlfriend...WHEN U GOT D GAME....U GOT D FAME....being cute its a big plus n not a minus...maybe u r missing something....I'm just sayin'