Dude it will help in future, listen to your parent advise. I left my parent house at the age of 33,now don't have them again. what I have left is their advice.

Wats d side busines u doin$g that u don$t wan$t u father to $knw. Hope is nt bet9ja sha

Lool its only in Nigeria that people see "moving out" as a sign of being a man.

If there's no concrete reason for you to leave, stay and channel whatever resources you have into investment, build up your business to a very good level if you can afford to buy a land and build a house pls do.

But if you are staying its their house, their rules and try contributing something to the upkeep shikena .

icehot:

Yes, I already know that, but in order to do the business, I will need to go out and meet people, right? It is in going out and meeting people that the problem lies. I cannot go out, stay too long is a problem. I can fend for myself, maybe they think I cannot.

discuss with your people by presenting them evidence of the so called biz u wanna do at odd time and assure them of your safety. Unless it's illegal, if it's illegal do not relocate, else u regret.

adewumiopeyemi:
Wats d side busines u doin$g that u don$t wan$t u father to $knw. Hope is nt bet9ja sha

Nah, its not 9jabet

babythug:
Why not give yourself a time frame for moving out and work towards it? You can use an age say 30 or say another year of freebies and you move out!

There are advantages and disadvantages to both options! Whilst enjoying freebies at your parents place you will save yes or maybe not since you will contribute at home anyway! Like someone also said once you move out and perhaps sleep hungry once it'll also help shape you more and mature you as well!

In the meantime to avoid being seemingly stifled by your folks why not be accountable in your waka waka for eg dad/mum I'm headed to xyz for xyz purpose ( you can be vague if need be) I will be back early or late! Whilst you're out call to check on them and reiterate that you're fine but will be home late or otherwise! It's better you learn that now anyway because your spouse too may have such expectations!

Cheers

Thanks a lot

NoToPile:
Lool its only in Nigeria that people see "moving out" as a sign of being a man.

If there's no concrete reason for you to leave, stay and channel whatever resources you have into investment, build up your business to a very good level if you can afford to buy a land and build a house pls do.

But if you are staying its their house, their rules and try contributing something to the upkeep shikena .

Thanks a lot

OP ,I'm sorry to say, at your big age, they are still monitoring you kws?
But really its up to you, not them. If you want to stay, fine. You even get to save your money, but warn them to stop the monitoring haba, a lot of people your age are living alone far far away from their parents na
And if you choose to move out, its okay, but be a man bruh, make them see that you can stand on your own