DarkRebel69:
Let's get this straight, he was fully aware that his brother - your husband, that is - was in the house at the time. I don't think anyone with all of his marbles intact will deliberately barge into a woman's room with the intention of sizing up her näked body even whilst knowing that her husband is only a room away. Even if he meant to see you in the buff, common sense would suggest that he take to subtler means, like poking his eye through the keyhole while you're taking your bath.
We can safely assume you brother-in-law was none the wiser when he came into the room.

If truly your husband acted as you said he did, then he's a very wise man. I know many a man that would have acted differently, prompting shït to the fan. It's not like we all don't tend to be less mindful of ourselves and our surroundings sometimes.
In as much as we occassionally forget where we placed our car keys or cannot remember for the life of us whether we shut the window blinds when we left the house, so also are we not immune to contretemps of this sort. It could happen to anybody.

@OP, this thread is unneccesary. The deed is done, the offender apologized... Move on!

Abagworo:
There's nothing wrong with that as it was an error. Only a bad wife will take it serious. For me I consider my sister in-laws as family and I won't be moved if they see me unclad.

bukatyne:


I haven't said the BIL did it deliberately... that's another discussion; It is the fact that

1. The husband did not scold his brother especially in front of his wife to ease her embarrassment and asking her why she is making a issue out of nothing ----- Disrespect

2. The BIL barging into his brother's marital room without knocking ---- Disrespect

The apology is not enough... the fact he never does it again.

Joel3:
people don't normally sees woman unclothedness well enough. outside of the breast if from the front as their pussy is downward. if from the back then only the yansh. he can only see your skin if there is stretch marks. you should not be worried except you have kro kro for yansh.

HaneefahRN:



You weren't there, it is her story so you saying you won't agree with something doesn't mean it didn't happen.
I am certain the woman would have gotten quickly over the embarrassment if he had said 'I'm sorry' while immediately leaving the room upon seeing she was naked, immediate turn out of the room. He can nau come back later to apologize after she is covered. And let's assume he was shocked and his brain couldn't process he was supposed to leave, the husband should have spoken up, 'leave and do not barge in like that next time without knocking'.
And the case would have died there.
I think the op is more shocked the husband took the matter with such levity.

I get and understand your point too though


About me contacting you or the other way round, sorry, don't bother.

NevetsIbot:
so peoples sisiter still stand unclad before their brothers


I and my sisters started hiding from age 12.

Organs:



Haneefah: Nope you did not understand the guys point. You're still in the "he has to pay for it mindset" He clearly said the husband in that scenario knows and understands his brother. Remember they most likely grew up in the same household and most probably have the same ethical values . Females find it difficult to forgive honest mistakes. Also, immediately i read the story i knew immediately that he couldn't have stood there apologising like she'd stated, think about it how come she that was busy trying to cover herself up how did she know or judge time and what he was doing? Also, you hear and see these things a lot when you listen to cases of this nature, females for the most part will always exaggerate and make it look worse. I have two younger brothers and if this should happen, i will do the same thing the man did, cos i know my brothers well also these are brothers.

ImaIma1:
Too many woman haters on NL. So much that it has twisted their objective reasoning.

Me i don't talk too much. My husband cannot just keep quiet in a situation like that but if he does keep quiet about it, it might take days, weeks or months...but he will definitely come back to address the issue without as much as a word from me.

Anextin:

Sorry to ask, but is that what ur sisters and female relatives would do In a case of rich brothers? Just asking cos u seem to speak from bitter experience

NevetsIbot:
so peoples sisiter still stand unclad before their brothers


I and my sisters started hiding from age 12.

iyaayi:
I am Victorian my live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.

He stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
The most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
When I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

Caustics:
what do you want him to do? kill his brother? What is done is done. No need making a mountain out of a mole hill. Escalating it will only make you feel more ashamed. By the way how old are you? cuz after a certain age people seeing you naked shouldnt bother you this much.

Caustics:
what do you want him to do? kill his brother? What is done is done. No need making a mountain out of a mole hill. Escalating it will only make you feel more ashamed. By the way how old are you? cuz after a certain age people seeing you naked shouldnt bother you this much.

nahzyla:

Every houseguest and even the house kids are supposed to knock when entering a married couples room. thats their domain for private activities so a sensible person would knock first whether door is locked or not.

johnson232:

What are u hiding from your brother in-law sef?
Do u know if he will be the one to save u in the future regardless of your dress state?
God forbid you had an accident & all your clothes are torn off....will u be talking of being unclad...

The dude has apologized & your husband has already told u that....U want your brother in-law to kill himself because he saw u unclad?
What do u want to redress again....Guess u are looking for a way to cause trouble between your husband & his brother, so he can send him packing....because since the dude has already apologized, i see no reason for creating this thread....other than to cause trouble....