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Re: Advice Needed by naturalwaves: 11:31am On Jun 29, 2017 |
debspauly:I mean the man that is 20 years older than you. Is he 33? |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 11:34am On Jun 29, 2017 |
naturalwaves:yes ...but the age gap is actually 15 ...he lied b4 about his age. |
Re: Advice Needed by Emary(f): 11:46am On Jun 29, 2017 |
debspauly: Age is but a number, dear. if you find someone you flow with like that, don't hesistate. |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 11:48am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Emary:and he is not extremely wealthy ..but the little he has he shares with me without hesitation. |
Re: Advice Needed by naturalwaves: 11:50am On Jun 29, 2017 |
debspauly:I see. I think 33 is not too bad if you genuinely love him but my fear is that you are still a bit on the young side being 15 years older than you are which means you are still a teenager and based on that fact, marriage should be a No No for you for now because you should focus on education and setting a good career path for yourself. By the time you focus on all these, the probability of you two being together is very slim. To be frank with you, I honestly think he is basically playing on your financial weakness and age. You can start by withdrawing what he feels or things he feels his cash and care make you do. I mean things like sex because I am sure a lot of water has gone under the bridge as well. Moreover, you still need to verify his age based on the lies. Try and check his driver's license or something more authentic so that you won't be told another lie subsequently. Cheers! |
Re: Advice Needed by Dicedpineapple(f): 11:54am On Jun 29, 2017 |
debspauly:Okay,its much,bt not dat much..So d decision is left to you,u no wat u want |
Re: Advice Needed by Emary(f): 11:56am On Jun 29, 2017 |
debspauly: Are you in school or doing your own business? That is the only thing I would like you to make sure you accomplish before getting married. Now is not the time to be overly dependent on a man. If you pray and you are comfortable with him, go ahead. 15yrs is not too much at all. It will be very difficult for you to find a boy of under 20 who wants to get married unless his parents are forcing him. |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 11:58am On Jun 29, 2017 |
Emary:but ..I wanna get an education first ..like get more aware of my environment ..b4 ..I consider him. |
Re: Advice Needed by Funky123(f): 2:25pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
debspauly:U don't need anybody to direct ur path here,u know where ur happiness lies....ideally 15 yrs is nt a joke but if its from God then sis continue but don't do anything dat will make u regret |
Re: Advice Needed by SEEDORF441(m): 3:50pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Wen he is 100 years u are 80yrs, not to much sha. |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 4:34pm On Jun 29, 2017 |
Funky123:am so confuse now.. |
Re: Advice Needed by Emary(f): 10:30pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
debspauly: The choice is yours, dear, but he might not wait for you to finish school. Just put it in prayer and make sure you meet his family first. They can be a big deciding factor. |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 1:00am On Jul 01, 2017 |
Emary:well his family is OK ..but his mother hates me . |
Re: Advice Needed by Fourwinds: 7:11am On Jul 01, 2017 |
u are still a teenager...u are suppose to be concerned about ur education or have a hand work...Nigeria now is terrible...depends on what he has...after marriage he may not be able to cope with what he bring to d table ...so u can see where u support may be needed now....so watch ur back before someone helps u to watch it |
Re: Advice Needed by Emary(f): 7:36am On Jul 01, 2017 |
debspauly: Hmmm! Red flag. Try and get close to her and find out if it's something you are doing that is annoying her. It is really not advisable to marry a man whose mother hates you but you can work on the relationship with her. In your case, I would say, give it some time. Don't get married right away. Being a teenager is not an issue. At 18, you are old enough and can have your kids early while still having a career. The issue is just that you need to be careful who you marry because it sets the tone for your whole life. |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 8:37am On Jul 01, 2017 |
Emary:she just hates me for no reason and I have tired my best to please but no changes .....am not gonna kill my self right! |
Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 10:25pm On Jul 06, 2017 |
debspauly: |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 1:54am On Jul 09, 2017 |
MrCork:so you still exist ..hmmm...thought the devil had eaten your cork. |
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Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 4:44am On Jul 09, 2017 |
debspauly: ....the good news is I wud like to mate with u....the bad news thou, u will have to wait yorrrr turn..THANK ME LATER!! |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 3:26pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
MrCork:I rather go nuts than hang out with you so wake up from your dream ..silly dickhead. |
Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 5:40pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 6:14pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
debspauly: .. somebody from nairaland have juss bein instructed to fart near yorrr mouth...THANK ME LATER.. eddddiot girl |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 12:05am On Jul 11, 2017 |
MrCork:haha haha haha haha haha haha haha this one sink in well....... and you ain't my type so just leave me alone abeg. |
Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 12:41am On Jul 11, 2017 |
debspauly: |
Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 12:44am On Jul 11, 2017 |
debspauly: ^^this one is a ilitarratte!! |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 4:57pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
MrCork:lolzzz pained ass nigger. |
Re: Advice Needed by MrCork: 5:13pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Re: Advice Needed by imitateMe(m): 5:19pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
I refuse to marry a liability. |
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 06, 2017 |
debspauly: How far with this ? |
Re: Advice Needed by debspauly(f): 9:33pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
KreativGenius:what is your own |
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:55pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
debspauly: T-T dey scratche yu abi |
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