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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by linearity: 4:54am On Jun 24, 2017
BabaCommander:
A man that was caught cheating by his partner, is that one even a man? wink

Same goes for a thief....A thief caught stealing is not a correct thief, else he/she would have covered all his/her bases.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by elfico(m): 5:00am On Jun 24, 2017
leksmedia:
My first cheating experience was dated as far back as 2007 , I used to be very close to my phone then I went to study computer science , so my phone realised I've been giving my laptop a lot of attention that was how the phone packed up, I lost all my contact, ever since then I learnt the greatest lesson of my life never to cheat again.
Anyways I guess I loved my computer better , so I became a web developer , you can call me up for your website designs and development , winks
Don't just cheat on your laptop. They may be loyal, but if it suspects you are cheating, it might just format itself one day. grin

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by techlorddsblog: 5:14am On Jun 24, 2017
AreaFada2:

This is the truth people refuse to accept.

A guy with enough time and money gets many girls if he wants.

A girl with plenty of time, little money & at least averagely pretty if she wants can get many guys, even if just to make ends meet.

Guys that are contented with that one babe are few.

Guys that can meet the majority of the needs of a girl are VERY few.

So the stage is set for cheating to flourish in 9ja environment.



It is simply a market place nowadays.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Fummylola: 5:15am On Jun 24, 2017
[quote author=IloveMoney post=57794572]Didn't catch her but i intentionally set her up with a playboy friend who i knew was very good with ladies to test her and she fell for him. Infact the next day she was already in his room.

when i asked her, she denied it until we went mountaineering some days later and on the mountain i brought up the topic again, seeing the anger in my eyes and it was only both of us on the mountain, i guess she feared that i may beat the shiit out of her sense,so she started confessing and crying. She even called her mum to tell her all that happened and how she F*ed up.(well she tells her mum everything)

I eventually i didn't do anything. Because i later found out that the guy actually was the one who forced her because she refused and the nigga only ended up masturbating. But my anger was why she followed him to his room in the first place and again that quick after meeting him a day before. That was the day she lost me and became my fuc.king toy instead of GF, till i threw her to the bin. No tym

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If I were to be the girl , and eventually know you set me up , imma strangle you to the wall pheeew
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Nobody: 5:27am On Jun 24, 2017
SheldonCooper:
What is cheating?
cheating is:
You are in a serious relationship yet you give out your phone number to guys like it's the pamphlet guide to heaven. Are u a marketer?
You chat with guys and you use all forms of endearments,"honey, sweety, dear, buttercup" blah bah blah.
When your boyfriend is with you save his number with Honey but when you are away... you save it with his name. Continue be deceiving yourself sister.
You find it difficult to receive calls in his presence. Nne na Killer number dey call you?
You store names on your phone as A,B,C,D,E,F,M.....Z, ABA, Jay, Kay, KALA..... Sister. We know you know your alphabets.
You allow guys flirt with you. Sister, what are you selling?
Your boyfriend mistakenly touches your phone and then you start having hypertension. Na you know wetin you dey hide.

My ex cheated on me emotionally and i called it quit. I was loyal. She came back crying n begging but we know how difficult it is for a cheat to stop. So, i played with her and let her find her way herself. She aint loyal.

You won't want to know what a friend told me when he found his babe with all these properties, lo and behold, he snooped on her chat and found his girl telling another guy he loves him and the girl has numerous guys who flirt with her. This is a girl my guy has spent much on, body and soul. What my guy did was to vex with the babe for some time and he concluded to seek revenge while still going out with the girl. This my friend is now a bad marafecking Player. He is still in a relationship with the girl. The girl still lies abut everything He told me he will break up with the girl when he is done. in his mind,he is done with her.

The other friend became damaged for a some weeks. The guy cried like a baby outside.

Nothing hurts more than giving ur trust loyalty ,body and soul to someone and later got cheated on. Most guys can relate to this. That's why we have more bad guys than good guys. Most of these bad guys were once good guys. So it is for girls too. Love is trust and loyalty even against all odds.

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Patheos, you might want to read this and learn how to think in the 21st century. Love is trust and LOYALTY. There you have it. If you think you have the liberty to cheat like an animal under the control of his reptilian brain stem, then your wife has every right to hurt you in equal measure. What is good for the goose, is also good for the gander. Guys like you are the reason many ladies are afraid to get married, while many have ditched the very prospect into the trash bin due to lack of interest and enthusiasm towards it.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by faithchubby93(f): 5:38am On Jun 24, 2017
That was how I paid him a surprise visit and found him in lala land. I waited outside the room for him to finish, guess what the idiot said next He said he was teaching the girl Bible study that he has converted the girl to a christian. He didn't know that I already saw both of them through the window. I started laughing like a mad person

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by mfm04622: 5:39am On Jun 24, 2017
IloveMoney:


it was important i did that because i personally, have trust issues with ladies and for real, i have dated 3 girls all my life and have never cheated on any of them.To reassure myself that my girl really loves me and wont cheat on me, i had to test her cos i was hoping i would settle down with her but......story enter the matter.

Don't ever test anybody like that. It is wrong
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by merits(m): 5:42am On Jun 24, 2017
keypad1:
Its normal i didnt feel bad after all toto is meant for preek and preeek is meant for toto. So nothing to worry there jare
see your life,so you prefer to cater for another person child and not yours,dont you know from cheating pregnancy can comes in,a bastard will be your child that will give you serious problem in future.guy wake up!cheating is bad dont ever wish to experience it.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by CocoMilian(f): 5:48am On Jun 24, 2017
emmayayodeji:


thats good

you dint break up with him instantly..
thoughtful!

Yes it was hard but I'm glad we got through that.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by CocoMilian(f): 5:50am On Jun 24, 2017
mfm04622:


Don't ever test anybody like that. It is wrong

True. The truth always comes out. But I feel like sometimes its necessary to do so.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Nobody: 5:59am On Jun 24, 2017
AreaFada2:

This is the truth people refuse to accept.

A guy with enough time and money gets many girls if he wants.

A girl with plenty of time, little money & at least averagely pretty if she wants can get many guys, even if just to make ends meet.

Guys that are contented with that one babe are few.

Guys that can meet the majority of the needs of a girl are VERY few.

So the stage is set for cheating to flourish in 9ja environment.

It is simply a market place nowadays.
Man has the luxury of sampling as many puzzays as possible while not yet committed. The moment you enter into an emotional contract, you've got obligations and stictly defined bounderies and restrictions and must adhere to them with the last drop of blood in your vein. Marriage is not a must, it is a matter of choice, and if you choose marriage, then stick with your choice! You can't eat your cake and have it. You have to sacrifice something for another. It's better not to get married at all and keep gratifying your reptilian impulses at every opportunity that comes your way than marry and breach the contract, betraying your partner. That's heartless and every shade of despicable. Remember marriage is not by force. You can go your days without going down the aisle with any soul on the planet, but the moment you choose to marry, keep the obligations attached in mind. Don't be a beast!

I find the argument ridiculous and dangerously stupi_d, that men are, by NATURE, polygamous. What is nature? Nature is the jungle! Man is all about TRANSCENDING nature, not succumbing to it. The strong trampling on the weak and taking what they can is NATURE. Yet men founded civilizations, societies with rules and regulations to check such impulses, even though they're natural. That's what differentiates us from the beasts of the field. Being human is not about how much we can give into our bestial impulses and limitations, but how much we can rise above them - that's what the history of human progress and advancement has been all about. If you can't control your animal instincts, what differentiates you from a baboon? There's no excuse for a cheating man, for he knew what marriage is all about before going into it, and should have stayed single if he knew he couldn't handle it.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by VERON01: 6:00am On Jun 24, 2017
Abeg we dey FAST o
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 6:06am On Jun 24, 2017
i have always got this well that's life kind of attitude. am always quick to move on.but vowed never to love again.no woman never.maybe exception of my future wife.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Lecturebidz(m): 6:17am On Jun 24, 2017
BabaCommander:
Coward! There are billions of men and women on earth, one person can not turn you away from humanity. To love is to live and a soul without love is dead.
Who be this!

Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by dingbang(m): 6:17am On Jun 24, 2017
saaedlee:
I cried, not because of the betrayal, but the time wasted, loving the wrong person. But the experience never made me stop loving, I just continued.

I have done so much for the wrong person and I am just imagining what I'll do for the right one.
its a choice. When dating, we should apply all wisdom..


First.

Not all that glitters is gold.

Second

Gold don't appear in its original state when seen.

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by sisisioge: 6:19am On Jun 24, 2017
Sheet really happens...when promises aren't made, hearts should not be broken.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by iyke649(m): 6:20am On Jun 24, 2017
youngbelieve:


you know right!!! mine is 60% sha
Can I get d 60% from u? wink
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by dingbang(m): 6:21am On Jun 24, 2017
Nma27:
Walked out like a boss... No time
lol but you created a thread about it.. Shows weakness cheesy
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Kennitrust(m): 6:27am On Jun 24, 2017
[s][/s][i][/i]ur place in my
ur place in my
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Kennitrust(m): 6:31am On Jun 24, 2017
dingbang:
lol but you created a thread about it.. Shows weakness cheesy
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dingbang:
lol but you created a thread about it.. Shows weakness cheesy
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dingbang:
lol but you created a thread about it.. Shows weakness cheesy
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Ruler2: 6:34am On Jun 24, 2017
saaedlee:
I cried, not because of the betrayal, but the time wasted, loving the wrong person. But the experience never made me stop loving, I just continued.

I have done so much for the wrong person and I am just imagining what I'll do for the right one.
Word!
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by rosieluv(f): 6:35am On Jun 24, 2017
Well I caught him red-handed, I didn't need no explanation, I ended it and walked out on him. Then I changed my number so he couldn't reach me
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by anny268(f): 6:37am On Jun 24, 2017
NwaNimo1:
I said the woman pounced on my Dick when I wasn't looking just as she was walking in.....

She believed me the first 3 times.... grin
The first 3 times? Is she for real? I'll never believe such stupid excuse for once.
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by TheRealestGuy(m): 6:50am On Jun 24, 2017
Complicated.

I'm still buying time, waiting for the right moment to drop the nukes on her.

Just that breaking the emotional attachment is proving difficult and I've not really been a saint myself.

I need someone else to take her place so I can rest easy...
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by SmellingAnus(m): 6:55am On Jun 24, 2017
obataokenwa:
I became good man and houseboy for some time with enough quietness and I used character to show remorse. She was just staring at me and I was so ashamed and I felt so sorry with my actions and she forgave me. I took her to a quiet place and asked her to forgive and she kissed me and said "I love you"
still dating in a relationship with her?
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:57am On Jun 24, 2017
I was laughing and asking him, he said he was amazed the way I was handling it not knowing I was just trying to pull myself together cos i had told myself I won't shed a tear for him again after he cheated twice,but when he started apologising, I just couldn't hold the tears ,from laughing i started crying, that was the moment I made up my mind i was leaving the relationship

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by zephyblaze(m): 7:03am On Jun 24, 2017
BabaCommander:
It's possible you were the wrong person... If you can't meet up with your responsibilies, your partner may seek solace in another arm.
so what if in the scenario were you are doing your best for her and yet she sees it not enough, you been in a relationship with a woman isn't the more reason why she should impose all her needs on you alone, must she flirt with some other dudes? why don't she seek for something doing that will help both she and her spouse?
Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Johnson5258: 7:05am On Jun 24, 2017
This actually a great topic. Cheating is not until you have a combination with the strange partner but what about admiration, sexuality conceived in heart and going emotional? Mathew 5:28 Jesus said 'whoever that looks at a woman to lust after has committed adultery in his heart' I was once in that kind of cheating which almost led to physical combination but God intervened, my fiancée just kept on calling until the strange woman got angry and I had to leave that corner, though I confessed to her but with packaging. It actually not a good act, so don't let us try indulge in it. May God bless us!

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Junny04(m): 7:11am On Jun 24, 2017
Was like wow...it was on her birthday. All tanks to WhatsApp, it blew her cover..she said she was going out with a frnd to celebrate bday buh it ws d oda guy.....showed her a pic of them and the words beneath it...( I love you bla bla bla). Asked her if she was cheating, she said no... And I showed her d pic, she turn deaf and dumb straight......girls sha

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Re: What Was Your Reaction When You Were Caught Cheating Or Caught Your Partner? by Fourwinds: 7:30am On Jun 24, 2017
Nma27:
Hnnn but she didn't go through with it. She didn't do anything though I fault her for going to his room... So fast for that matter. U never know d story ur friend fed her for her to visit him...
no matter d story she has no excuse.... .



many of u don't know what loyalty means.: d u know Rose in Titanic never got married again....do u know members of Spartacus team fought to death because of what they believe....do u know 300 Spartans died for what they believe even with sweet promises from their adversary.?

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