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Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 8:00am On Jun 25, 2017
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by hemartins(m): 8:03am On Jun 25, 2017
Let me call lala.....

On a serious note, some ladies love material things and wouldn't even mind as long as the source doesn't have a direct negative implication on them.
You will definitely find true love for your sincerity soon.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by nddydamzi(f): 8:09am On Jun 25, 2017
nice writeup op...but man must whack...

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by MhizzAJ(f): 8:11am On Jun 25, 2017
I think the last point u raised is very important.

Girls shouldn't open their legs for any man like that without knowing them properly.

What a world ...
Some guys don't have any legal source of income but they drive the latest cars in town and use the most expensive phones
God shouldn't allow someone jam Evans gang one day..Look before u leap

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:21am On Jun 25, 2017
I hope they learn.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:29am On Jun 25, 2017
VargasVee:
Shady Story Op

So after you've been enjoying the money and gave it to him, you're now here giving advice

Are you sure there's not other women in the equation that made you ran? Cause I know the lifestyle this people live.

Nice obsevation. Op is greedy and lustful...

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by VargasVee(m): 8:34am On Jun 25, 2017
Shady Story Op


Your thinking spirit refused him but your monetary spirit did not mind


So after you've been enjoying the money and gave it to him, you're now here giving advice

Are you sure there's not other women in the equation that made you ran? Cause I know the lifestyle this people live.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:43am On Jun 25, 2017
1. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

2. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off

3. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite
restaurant just for food and drinks

Can you see that you are the one with problem not the guy?

Thank God my spirit never accepted him
Leave God out your filthiness

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by kaeycea(m): 8:54am On Jun 25, 2017
You attract the kind of person you are... materialistic and lustful

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by midehi2(f): 9:01am On Jun 25, 2017
Na so i enter one motor recently, na only head skull image full the motor.....run for ya dear life shocked

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nutase: 9:01am On Jun 25, 2017
You are lucky o. But go and check yourself again because I know yahoo plus guys used to have a juju pot under the passenger seat of their cars. Any girl that seats their will either loose her womb, destiny or life depending on what they are after. Its not always till they get in between your legs.

Never enter the car of a guy you know nothing about.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by subtlemee(f): 9:11am On Jun 25, 2017
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by konkonbilo(m): 9:44am On Jun 25, 2017
Hmmm! So you mean non of those guys reach the PROMISE LAND?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:47am On Jun 25, 2017
As if girls will listen.
As if you will even learn from this experience yourself

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Ab025(m): 11:32am On Jun 25, 2017
But how come you only date these guys that are well to do financially, have Bentleys, 7cars etc, then leave them when you discover they are 419ers?

Can't you hook up with that young guy in ur street or out there that has an average job, doesn't have a car, is responsible and will really love you for who you are...

I think the financial worth of the kind of guy you date is also a reflection of your financial taste.

#Lady, reduce your taste...

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Sierusvirus(m): 12:35pm On Jun 25, 2017
Very hard for a girl to turn down sex offer seeing good things or.............. Not possible at all

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 1:24pm On Jun 25, 2017
Ab025:
But how come you only date these guys that are well to do financially, have Bentleys, 7cars etc, then leave them when you discover they are 419ers?

Can't you hook up with that young guy in ur street or out there that has an average job, doesn't have a car, is responsible and will really love you for who you are...

I think the financial worth of the kind of guy you date is also a reflection of your financial taste.

#Lady, reduce your taste...
I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 1:24pm On Jun 25, 2017
subtlemee:
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat
I'm not new on NL abeg.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 1:28pm On Jun 25, 2017
OrestesDante:






Can you see that you are the one with problem not the guy?


Leave God out your filthiness
Read carefully please. I didn't ask him to do all that. He did it willingly and when I tried to talk, he began asking me if I was the one spending the money. Abeg, a responsible man who worked hard for his money can't spend it foolishly. These things don't get to me. I've seen other people's experience and I've learnt to be wise.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 25, 2017
fastgyal:
Read carefully please. I didn't ask him to do all that. He did it willingly and when I tried to talk, he began asking me if I was the one spending the money. Abeg, a responsible man who worked hard for his money can't spend it foolishly. These things don't get to me. I've seen other people's experience and I've learnt to be wise.
Not that i'm insulting you.
But I want to believe the whole story didn't happen in just a week?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Rukkydelta(f): 3:21pm On Jun 25, 2017
Nice advice

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jun 25, 2017
With the kinda people coming after you as a lady, I kinda figure out the kinda person you are.

I ain't criticizing but responsible guys go after responsible ladies. If those stories are true, check and recheck yourself. No insult intended.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by dubemeagle(m): 4:44pm On Jun 25, 2017
fastgyal:
I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by rawpadgin(m): 4:56pm On Jun 25, 2017
biitches won't learn

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by doris4u(f): 5:20pm On Jun 25, 2017
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Victornezzar: 5:35pm On Jun 25, 2017
Op next time be careful
go after ur heart
i mean wat is dere saying NO
just because u saw Bentley nd Range rover
if u con see private jet nko.....wetin u go do

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jun 25, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.
There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.
When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.
I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.
The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'
The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.
when I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.
And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.
let this get to front page please mods.
mynd44
lalasticlala

There is a reason why u keep attracting such calibre of guys. There is something you should correct about your lifestyle and mindset.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by wristbangle: 5:42pm On Jun 25, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.
There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.
When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.
I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.
The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'
The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.
when I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.
And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Edited*

Good to know we still have reasonable ladies in the society who are quite considerate but then one can point out from your story that something is not right.

With time you will get a guy of your choice which ofcourse you want him to be rich like bill gate and be God fearing like baba Adeboye.

My question go does that why do you fall for the kind of guys you mentioned in your story? I feel you easily get attracted to materialistic guys without having a second thought when you meet them initially.

Not all that glitters is gold mehn!

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by debspauly(f): 5:43pm On Jun 25, 2017
cool I get you ......I don't get you ..
who cares.. abeg how much is plantain leaf ?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by debspauly(f): 5:44pm On Jun 25, 2017
cool I get you ......I don't get you .. who cares.. abeg how much is plantain leaf ?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Victornezzar: 5:46pm On Jun 25, 2017
debspauly:
cool I get you ......I don't get you ..
who cares.. abeg how much is plantain leaf ?
fastgyal see 1 of dem here
dis is wat ur talking about

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Cholls(m): 5:47pm On Jun 25, 2017
my brother's listen carefully to my advice ...whatever a woman says must be received with caution cuz "A woman's talk heat from grass"












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