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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by debspauly(f): 5:50pm On Jun 25, 2017
Victornezzar:

fastgyal see 1 of dem here
dis is wat ur talking about
victornezzar that's not the answer to my question...or are you confused.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Oyindidi(f): 6:27pm On Jun 25, 2017
wristbangle:


It's good to know we still have virtuous ladies like you in the society because of recent some ladies don't even care whether their boyfriend is earning his source of income legitimately or not but as long as money flows, she is satisfy.

With time you will get a guy of your choice.

But why do u fall for these kind of guys? I feel you easily get attracted to materialistic guys. Not all that glitters is gold
Praise singer, the op is worst than the girls she's advicing here.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by wristbangle: 7:01pm On Jun 25, 2017
Oyindidi:
Praise singer, the op is worst than the girls she's advicing here.

My last sentence in my comment has addressed her biased view cool
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jun 25, 2017
doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.
If you ain't sleeping with him then be ready to only tell love stories and count the stars in heaven with him, no monetized hangouts. You can't eat your cake and have it. grin

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Oyindidi(f): 8:09pm On Jun 25, 2017
wristbangle:


My last sentence in my comment has addressed her biased view cool
okay, I didn't see it earlier
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:26pm On Jun 25, 2017
Nutase:
You are lucky o. But go and check yourself again because I know yahoo plus guys used to have a juju pot under the passenger seat of their cars. Any girl that seats their will either loose her womb, destiny or life depending on what they are after. Its not always till they get in between your legs.
Never enter the car of a guy you know nothing about.
Lol! So where should she go to check if her destiny or life has been compromised? Nigerians are so superstitious cheesy

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by LEAFLET(m): 11:08pm On Jun 27, 2017
Nice story though... Me and you OP know say you made this up but nice skills though.. When's your first comic series coming out

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Afam4eva(m): 11:09pm On Jun 27, 2017
Bleh!!!

Why won't you be attracted y criminals when you're so obsessed with materialism that it beclouds your common sense to initiate a romantic relationship like a normal human being. You are what you attract.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jun 27, 2017
Cc Iamkingzlee
Read the first story. Like I said, there's no way you won't know or at least suspect something. The signs would be too obvious and it's up to the girl to give herself brain.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by tydi(m): 11:11pm On Jun 27, 2017
mtcheeew nonsense post!


what if he tells you he is into OIL &GAS or i"m into STOCK EXCHANGE


tell me @the mention of the above, the ladies won't fall for his publicity stunt.


a lady gats be a lady... period
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by burkingx(f): 11:13pm On Jun 27, 2017
And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn. [b][/b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by lepasharon(f): 11:13pm On Jun 27, 2017
OP why you dey pretend say only rich guys dey approach you? tongue

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:15pm On Jun 27, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.



How can you say it was hard to let go of him after all you had seen and known about him

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by burkingx(f): 11:15pm On Jun 27, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by BrightDeGea(m): 11:15pm On Jun 27, 2017
no girl wants to know the kind of job you are doing as long as you splashing serious cash on them they will seal their lips
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by AdeMavrodi: 11:16pm On Jun 27, 2017
Stop it please
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by hucienda: 11:16pm On Jun 27, 2017
Dis fast gyal tori dey one kind.

NwaAmaikpe. Over to you.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by BiafraBushBoy(m): 11:16pm On Jun 27, 2017
lepasharon:
OP why you dey pretend say only rich guys dey approach you? tongue

That was the reason for this her thread....
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:17pm On Jun 27, 2017
lepasharon:
OP why you dey pretend say only rich guys dey approach you? tongue


Single bad belle

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by dinggle: 11:17pm On Jun 27, 2017
Shouldnt guys also know the kind of work a ladies do before we follow them?...

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by aktolly54(m): 11:18pm On Jun 27, 2017
SirJeffry:
If you ain't sleeping with him then be ready to only tell love stories and count the stars in heaven with him, no monetized hangouts. You can't eat your cake and have it. grin
you speak my mind bro
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by exlink10(m): 11:18pm On Jun 27, 2017
hmmmm


dey no go hear that one


One the Pe.nis big .... na oh God oh God dem go dey shout

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Godsage(m): 11:19pm On Jun 27, 2017
doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.
whether u sleep with him or not, D guy will always find a place to rest him John Thomas..u arent doing yasef any good cos he is

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by menwongo(m): 11:19pm On Jun 27, 2017
make i hear! for 9ja once you have the cash. na ladies go opon legs call you to come see am

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by MrMcJay(m): 11:19pm On Jun 27, 2017
You made a guy spend 80K for food and drinks alone! Are you an IDP?

You open mouth and they put food of 80K inside. The next thing is for you to open legs. You're not even advising ladies to close their mouths and stop eating about like dustbins.

You're a greedy, vain, empty headed and hungry babe with nothing to offer. If you did, you won't let a man spend 80K on you without knowing what he does.

You're going to be the downfall of any unfortunate man who eventually gets into any form of relationship with you.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jun 27, 2017
Good advice.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by vikstandon(m): 11:21pm On Jun 27, 2017
I feel this guy is broke now...Op dissed him for another ready to spend guy.
Op, please just tell us the truth...You've digged out all the gold! And remember I didn't call you a gold-digger, I just said you exhumed all the gold in the dude's mine leaving him bare.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by aktolly54(m): 11:21pm On Jun 27, 2017
@op you must be slay-queen, that is why you attracted such type of guys, and ignore average guy because you think they are not in your class. Smart slay -queen I must say

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 27, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

See advert.

You forgot to advise ladies not to visit guys of questionable characters in their homes.
Whatever happened to outdoor dating.

And your world, as a girl, revolves around your pvssy and your body parts. I pity you. Your post stinks of degeneration of your values and morality. Anyways, it's your worldview.

I give you 3/10

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by free2ryhme: 11:21pm On Jun 27, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.


but u will open your legs for someone whose source is legit, abi undecided


well guess what, prostitutes do same

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by bastien: 11:22pm On Jun 27, 2017
We they ever listen? NO




But OP wait oh, na as goat take stand for market, them go take price am oh.... cheesy grin

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