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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Generalyemi(m): 8:59am On Jun 28, 2017
subtlemee:
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat


u are wise.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Arccangel(f): 9:02am On Jun 28, 2017
Some mu'fukkers would be here trying to judge the OP or weigh weda the story is true, haba! Take the advice an move on!! Even if the OP na olosho, it probably means she don go that way and e no favor am. So, if you want to go that way and see for yourself, fine! Just know na the stubborn fly the follow body enter ground oo

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by biz2get(m): 9:04am On Jun 28, 2017
Arccangel:


Is der a way I can double like dis post?? Too much sense in it. Let me just use bucket and fetch part of the sense abeg grin
grin
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by chichiana(m): 9:08am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.



Op after reading all this trash and epistle you wrote here and the comments from some amateur and people of shadow minded that doesn't know anything and with limited intelligence and wisdom that always jump in to comment trash and derails thread before the the reasonable people will come and they may feel discouraged to to share their intelligent opinions. From your observation about your first date with Bentley, you just eardrop on his conversation without knowing fully well or evidence of what he does, he may be a CEO or enjoying his father's wealth, or you expect him to be dull with all the wealth around him . don't be deceived again, God blessed some people earlier and they are balling well as a youth,
Your second date, you still don't tell us evidence of him being a fraudster. He told you he works online. He might be a blogger, an online entrepreneur and other online job that requires consistency and hard work. Or because you are just a bitch that has nothing upstairs and ignorant of online business, you don't know 40%of Nigerians are making daugh online, forex and binary inclusive with others. You expect him to suit and be working with biscuit or soap industry for him to be a good person just to date a bitch and liability like you. Am highly marveled about guys comments here, because they are jealous of their fellow hard working, rich guys. They will be here crying with ladies while others are making reasonable money. Fools

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Sonoyom(m): 9:08am On Jun 28, 2017
nice write up
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Kylekent59: 9:09am On Jun 28, 2017
I have fully read the story.
I think the op is trying to give a point which every girls needs to note before accepting a guy. Am gona share 2 experiences I had witnessed.

Date a cultist den know that u are preparing your burial ceremony cus when their rivals comes for him and they didn't see him,just know you will be a replacement.


Also, this was how a yahoo guy carried a gal in his car, they had an accident and the guy survived but d babe died.
The truth of the matter is that most ladies are materialistic,they don't care if they are approaching fire or dating a monster as long as the wealth is there.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by GeneralOjukwu: 9:10am On Jun 28, 2017
biz2get:


I am going to try and ans your questions are clearly as possible

Goto The Wheatbaker Ikoyi, you will spend 300k Only for Lunch and Dinner. - Answered

In my Region, I have Seen 100s of Bentley's Different Colors.. Different Models. Including Other A Class Vehicles - Answered.
You view Bentley like there were only 4 produced in the world... Wrong!!

Sir, Why are you beating Around the bush.? Where in my Reply to your Post. Did I say I Believe this Story.? Pls Go and Read Some More Books. smiley

If you have Snow in Maiduguri, Then I have 3 Bugatti's.

Instead of all the yawn-inducing epistle, simply tell me what the total fraction of vehicles in Nigeria are Bentleys. ..that's what I asked you


Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by holybabayo(m): 9:10am On Jun 28, 2017
Some things I need to address about this post and comments.

That she attracts rich guys may not necessarily mean she has rich taste. There is a beauty, dressing, car, living environment, school, or work and property that a girl can have that makes poor guys to be intimidated. They can't have the balls to approach her. Only rich guys can approach her. You cannot blame her for that. God place her in that social status.

Being very rich and spending your money very well on a planned that is not always a sign that you are a 419er. Some guys that are into contract business can do various line of business that it might be difficult to explain to some girls. Some may not disclose their source of income just to know the girl true heart about them. But it is a little to much to spend 80k on a date. Hope you are really sure of that?

It is a contrasting behavior for a girl to demand for money from a guy he is dating and decline him when he ask for sex. I did not say it wrong for her to accept money being spent on her so long as it is not unreasonable. I said if she is demanding then she put herself in a position for the guy to also make demand and it may likely be sex.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by sonofoluku: 9:14am On Jun 28, 2017
VargasVee:
Shady Story Op


Your thinking spirit refused him but your monetary spirit did not mind


So after you've been enjoying the money and gave it to him, you're now here giving advice

Are you sure there's not other women in the equation that made you ran? Cause I know the lifestyle this people live.


You are very stupid.This babe is one of the few good & non materialistic girls on this forum.I asked her out before.Pls dont insult her.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by VargasVee(m): 9:18am On Jun 28, 2017
sonofoluku:



You are very stupid.This babe is one of the few good & non materialistic girls on this forum.I asked her out before.Pls dont insult her.

Who the hell is this


Now get offa my mention.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 28, 2017
Well most legit guys won't even spend on u...:hope u can cope
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by biz2get(m): 9:21am On Jun 28, 2017
GeneralOjukwu:


Instead of all the yawn-inducing epistle, simply tell me what the total fraction of vehicles in Nigeria are Bentleys. ..that's what I asked you



If as Such; You Are the Smartest Guy here And Have the Answer To your Question.

Then I have a deal for you.

I would give you 500k If Only..


You can Reply this post in 30Seconds. With the Ans to that Question.

Pls find time, and Seek Understanding. You clearly Lack it.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by doskie(m): 9:24am On Jun 28, 2017
Humility017:

then leave the lady I don't think you deserve her
what's left after heavy romance and petting?
sex is not just Penetration
lool
shes just giving only kiss. this girl can kiss for africa. i asked if shes a virgin she said no.....
inshort ..... when people see her coming out of my house they will be hailing me like something interesting has happened... but inside me i know.
ive stopped calling her sha. i only take her calls once in a while.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Hoodfriend(m): 9:45am On Jun 28, 2017
debspauly:
cool I get you ......I don't get you .. who cares.. abeg how much is plantain leaf ?

Bitch please
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by chikazor(f): 9:49am On Jun 28, 2017
girl,u better go for serious deliverance because he has use your stars and destiny already without opening your legs .He gave u money right, bought food for u right and took u out right....ur destiny has b exchange wit those goodies. better go to mfm or redeemed christian church for serious prayers and deliverance
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by nobsalis: 9:51am On Jun 28, 2017
GeneralOjukwu:


Go and read my post again....slowly or give it to someone to read. I just asked questions, I wanted to avoid the places charging 80k for 3 people.

Secondly, since you say Bentleys are so PLENTY, what fraction of the total car population might they be? I would love your answer to this.

Finally, if you believe this story, I have snow to sell for you in Maiduguri.




chai.... Savagery at its peak.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by jrerico1(m): 9:58am On Jun 28, 2017
Super story,, no sane Nigeria man will spend 80k on an unknown b..itch for just food. Even dangote wont. You guys should think na
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by scalpel: 9:59am On Jun 28, 2017
doskie:
tchaiii
what about heavy petting or hot romance?

can a relationship really work without all these stuff co thats whas presently happening to me oh.... and im already tired of the girl cos im spending and getting nothing at all.

Yes,a relationship can and should work without petting,necking and touching,not to talk of sex. Helps you develop other areas of a relationship,like knowing how the other person thinks,what they know,what they aspire to become and all.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by GeneralOjukwu: 9:59am On Jun 28, 2017
nobsalis:








chai.... Savagery at its peak.

grin grin grin

Nice DP...don't mind the judgedredd22 and biz2get guy. I give free education at times wink

They are grateful students tongue
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by gypsey(m): 10:21am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
like what you into,if I find intrest in it we can make out things together,please let talk through email,to avoid derailing the thread
okay no wahala!
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by luvlymabel: 10:24am On Jun 28, 2017
yahoo guys almost every where nawaoo
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by UbChapter(m): 10:24am On Jun 28, 2017
hemartins:

Read my post again, this time slowly. Try to comprehend it. Then point out the difference between my post and yours.

Lol
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Martin0(m): 10:28am On Jun 28, 2017
gypsey:
okay no wahala!
ok
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by debspauly(f): 10:38am On Jun 28, 2017
Hoodfriend:


Bitch please
who is this one ..nigga
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by debspauly(f): 10:38am On Jun 28, 2017
Hoodfriend:


Bitch please
who is this one ..nigga
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by sambisa5: 10:45am On Jun 28, 2017
Nutase:
You are lucky o. But go and check yourself again because I know yahoo plus guys used to have a juju pot under the passenger seat of their cars. Any girl that seats their will either loose her womb, destiny or life depending on what they are after. Its not always till they get in between your legs.

Never enter the car of a guy you know nothing about.

then she should come to DUNAMIS Area1 Abuja. Her womb and destiny will be restored.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by newslifeop: 10:48am On Jun 28, 2017
To the many jobless ladies out there




They will say they don't care
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Ayiibobo(m): 10:54am On Jun 28, 2017
bastien:
na her type they snap inside different cars they upload am anyhow like say she be mechanic!


ta ah aha aaaah ah,..savage response grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by mamawin(f): 10:55am On Jun 28, 2017
hemartins:
Let me call lala.....

On a serious note, some ladies love material things and wouldn't even mind as long as the source doesn't have a direct negative implication on them.
You will definitely find true love for your sincerity soon.
Let's just say " ....as the source doesn't have a direct negative implication on them YET", because eventually it will. Let me just say DO NOT GO ON A JOURNEY WITHOUT YOUR BRAIN!
Kudos OP.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by IRALIFE(f): 11:13am On Jun 28, 2017
It is very important to know the kind of business a guy is involved in before accepting to date him. When on the friendship level, find out as much as you can about him.
It is equally important to know and understand that 'opening your legs' for a guy you are dating or even courting does not guarantee a good relationship. Rather, it diverts the attention of the parties involved from more important discussions & future plans to temporary pleasures. At the long run, females bear more of the brunt. This should be done in marriage.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Ayiibobo(m): 11:18am On Jun 28, 2017
Fabulocity:
Many pained broke asses on this thread grin grin grin
The girl is just simply giving good advise but their balls dey hot because they can never be in that category of rich guys that girls should be wary of grin grin grin
Watch as they quote me to run their dustbin mouths. But I no go reply grin grin grin
olosho self dey form class,.smhw....u give me pussy I no give u better money?..or u think say na only broke niggas dey here,....watermelon fall on that ur head where u dey

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