tohpahz:

I'm amazed.. At ur stupidity

free2ryhme:



I sometimes wonder if you don't do a deep thinking before making posts?

Your post also encourages girl go stay with men who they already know their source of wealth and status ( most esp married). And fvck dem steady.


Why encourage such? check out Evans wife a more recent case study.

MhizzAJ:



I am not understanding
Every lady should know the source of their boyfriend/spouses source of income. It's applicable to men too. .its necessary..am not encouraging ladies to go after made men...just know the source

Maybe u misinterpreted me

OrireSA:
I really think some people are judging fastgyal ( mostly guys ), 80K is like R32000± so for ordinary people that amount is ludicrous to spend on one date but for some of us its a norm. My bank alert beeps every day not just at month end so I can afford to spend large sums of money on a date as I know I will have it in my account again by the end of the week so I believe fastgyal

fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

Ayiibobo:
. Bro don't speak speak for 'some' 'people',..and don't come here and be forming boss,because some people critized the fact that she went on a 80k date doesn't mean we are not rich,me inclusive,..if u work hard for ur money u can't spend 80k on a date for one useless girl,..no reasonable man will do that,unless u are into illegal hustle,I'm not judging cos a man gat to do wat needs to be done to put food on his table,..I can only spend up to or more than that if my dudes are around,and it's not every day,80k on a date?,Neva,it's not about been poor,but about been responsible

henryhemon:


Only your nose will make poor guys even run away from you aunty no guy man with class will even say hi to you.

Luvdk:
You see your life

BigIyanga:
Typical Naija gold digging mindset. Why not say " dont let a guy spend money on you without knowing the source of his income?

What does opening leg have to do with a guy's wallet? So it's ok to dine and wine you, but you grow some conscience when it comes to sex?

TheLordIsGr8:


Wait ooo. Na my baby this guy dey talk to like this....

No mind am. I know where him farm dey make I go tell some headsmen to go locate am.

How you dey baby?

Luvdk:

Lol
I am fine

TheLordIsGr8:


Me n u com discuss finish d oda day u just come lock up like dat... bt y na?

Luvdk:
Cos I don't date poor men

henryhemon:


Only your nose will make poor guys even run away from you aunty no guy man with class will even say hi to you.

TheLordIsGr8:


How you know say I poor sef?

Abi e get spirit wen una take dey recognize una sef.

Luvdk:
you can easily recognize poor men through their comments
E no too hard
Even on their face...
Just like urs

jfleece:
And if the guys in question were broke ass niggiz, u would be the first to complain, u tink it's easy to get a decent paying job in Nigeria Lemme ask u a question if u ask a guy what he does for a living and he told u he was jobless would u accept to date him? Pls be honest. Going to school for four years and staying jobless is nobody's fault.. We just looking for ways to put food on the table.. It's not easy abeg.. Shout out to all Street hustlers.

doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.

sekem:


Exactly my thots!!!

Thank you so much for your power of reasoning

I just can't understand what opening legs has in connection with a guy's source of income.

We can date, you can spend all my money, you can even bring your stupid and equally hungry girls to 'eat' my money but once it comes to opening your damned legs, you remember that you need to know my source of income

What a poor mentality

Nne, you are nothing but a big for nothing old fool

That's it.

MAN,

EVERYONE IS ANGRY IN THIS COUNTRY!

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...I absolutely agree with you. But there's really something in that saying that " you attract who you are". This isn't to say you are also a fastgal like they are fast guys o, they must have seen something in you that keeps drawing them to you.


I remember meeting a guy with the biggest dog I've ever seen in my area. His dog has the biggest fiercest looking head ever yet soooo adorable. The dog was drawn to me,so was he. After all gbogboreferefe, we exchanged contacts. Dude was too posh speaking for me to hear at once sef. Anyways, when I did a little digging about him, I realized the guy with the cute dog calls himself Pablo... That's all I needed to know . Need I say more...may God Himself keep wahala from our paths.

HungerBAD:


And what exactly did Pablo do for a living?

fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.