Papiikush:
You'll get over it.

Benita27:
As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that.

jessejunior:



seconded

we learn from everything happening to us, so we could be better... bt I think the ultimate thing now is to be successful

Success has always been the antidote for heartbreaks

Papiikush:


Sometimes you speak the impossible in a casual way

Benita27:


How is that "Impossible?" how many guys will she flaunt on her social media page before meeting Mr right?.

Benita27:
Your assumptions that you noticed she possess things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that.

Papiikush:

You don't just flaunt random people on your social media everytime you are in a relationship. You take your time with person before tagging them as "boo/bae/fiancee" etc..

By the way your question should be "how many relationships must she go into before finding Mr right?"

CROWNWEALTH019:

Aunty you too like support bad thing as far as na woman

Benita27:
It's wrong to go about tagging boyfriends on social media, the only exception should be a fiancé and fiancée relationship. BTW, no one knows how many relationships they'd get into before finding Mr right...it's like being in a circle.

Lol and you are certain all fiancé and fiancée scenarios are different from the random boyfriend/girlfriend issues?

No one knows how many relationships but you have to take your time before calling it a relationship in the first place. The signs are always out there to see.

Don't just say it is wrong to flaunt your lover. You are not a robot are you?

pocohantas:
You see, some of these ladies would have loved to remain with the love of their lives for however long it takes him to be ready...but, you people will not stop putting pressure on them. You have dated her for 4years? 4 years of constant testing and tasting. Now she is 25...Very soon emusmith will remind her she is 28 and single.

Don't worry bro, it's not your fault that things are this way. One thing you should understand is, most ladies don't have that patience of dating one guy for years. It's a risk in this Nigeria where they keep reminding you of biological clock and the guy can change his mind.

I know how you feel, i'll advise you channel your time into lucrative ventures. Don't go begging with catarrh falling out of your nose. That'll spell desperation and would turn her off, you'll lose your respect. Don't bug her with calls, call once and let go. If she deems it necessary to call, fine. If she doesn't...life goes on.

Papiikush:


Lol and you are certain all fiancé and fiancée scenarios are different from the random boyfriend/girlfriend issues?

No one knows how many relationships but you have to take your time before calling it a relationship in the first place. The signs are always out there to see.

Don't just say it is wrong to flaunt your lover. You are not a robot are you?

Benita27:
What I stated is relative, and that was why I said "Silly girls" indulge in such, 'cause no matter the love both parties are professing to each other, anything could go wrong which would bring you back to square one. So in a situation you tagged him/her as boo/bae with all sorta flattering comments which your social media contacts are well aware of, then suddenly there is a breakup, you delete his/her existence, answer questions as to what happened, and the next time you're in another...you repeat the same rubbish. How will those who want to take you seriously do so?, obviously, you could be sending 'Mr right' far away with your activities. Personally, I don't even us "I'm in a relationship".

You are a whole new level of weird.

Though ladies are the ones who do the flaunting around (silly girls according to you)

SmellingAnus:
The earlier you remain happy and free yourself from depression , the better for you.... If you have really loved her well, she may most likely come back to you no matter the number of dicks she ends up fuckin...Lol...

Anyway, get busy with school, work or join a department in your church and become very committed if you are a Christian

Papiikush:


You are a whole new level of weird.

Though ladies are the ones who do the flaunting around (silly girls according to you)

Benita27:
I have never followed a boyfriend on any social media platform beside whatsapp which seem private. Never used a bf's pic as dp, and that doesn't mean I double-date.

Whether I'm weird?, I don't think so...I think certain things should be kept private till a ring is on the finger.

Papiikush:

I hope you are aware the "ring on a finger" is a new skill used by Fuckboys to trap that ass down for a little while longer

Benita27:
Fùckboys are very easy to spot in the game, and I don't pay a blind eye to their activities around me. How do one know he's serious if he comes with the "Ring" proposal immediate?, use the "No sex before marriage" tool, and he'll disappear. No fùckboy would stick around if he isn't getting the pussy.

Pussy ain't the only thing Fuckboys long for you know...Yeah you can spot the easy ones. Lol,

Chibydinho:

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Like one of my fVck mates joined church fellowship when I tore the heating sessions..lol... Op, God can help too!

Chibydinho:
To say you're hopeless is the height of stupidity as a man, sorry I said that. But Boss, this is not the time to count losses.
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Learn one thing today about ladies, too much attention dey blow their head even if na she fall for you first. That is why even if you no be fvckboy, you need a side chick always as a way to deflect the whole attention from ya main babe.
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Finally, on ya case, you've got to be a man. Love doesn't beg, so don't beg her. Try and find ways to improve yourself and be happy. To be happy will drag babes to you and don't forget, you need to learn how to handle them or you fall victim again.
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I wish you well on ya recovery journey but sin no more.. Oh! You said was it coz of sex? Like you dey deny am the stuff.. Chai.. Be a slay guy and enjoy as long as it last coz more of these relationship are just medium term.