Papiikush:
You'll get over it.

Perfect response. No need to quote OP..

Move on with your life

we just ended ours! she's 25, i'm 28! together for 7yrs. Have planned all my life with her! she left cos my job is on 60k salary! she wants to live large always! cheated so many times on me but hard to leave her! I always see myself as single married guy! she earns 48k! our story no be here but she said I should work out of her life some weeks ago and I gladly did! Do I tell you I know over 7men she's slept with including a friend? Most are sugar daddies! do I tell u I once found a used condom in her purse? Do I tell she once engaged in lesbianism? Do I tell you she once masturbated beside me on bed cos I refused a sex! Above all I am glad I'm heartbroken now cos I will be mended soon. All I wrote is just 40% of what I encountered with her

To be sincere with you, just thank God for ur life. I understand ur feelings bcoz I've experienced same.

Forget everything about her even delete her from ur profile in any social media in order to erased the past.

Those people that are deceiving her will soon leave, I'm sure you will later hear her story without having a serious and responsible guy again.

As a victim, I'm thanking God for my life, right now I'm legally married with kid, someone that are 100% better than her in everything, and she's still single, her toasters has dropped her.

I'm sure she will be regretting what she did.

jhudit:

I asked you a simple question and you're talking another thing.

Give this advise to your sister who is 25 and has ben dating and sleeping with one guy for 4yrs with no hope for the future to stick with him. Nothing will catch up with her simple!!

OK MA

Benita27:
Your assumptions that you noticed she possessed things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that.

if ur bf buys u a range rover sport car will u still be ashamed to put him on social media?

Listen to the bitter truth. Talking from experience, your girl has moved on, you should too. It is hard, I know, but you'll get over it.

It's OK to cry, you'll be empty and sad, but trust me, it's for the best. The earlier you know that, the better for you.

You'll find love again, one that you can never believe is real.

Above all, have a relationship with Jesus, He'll never break your heart!

let her go and enjoy the new life she feels is better bt I hope someone will tell her wen she leave love, she can get it back no matter the worth of richness she gets

na wa ooo....why are girls acting like they buy sense.....giving bad names to the good ones among them

Heineken:
badt guy. Me Don repent now sha.. No more nacking for now. Lol

What is Mumu button

• You do not go into a relationship with the mindset of marriage when you are yet to settle down - it is a " white elephant project " and it might be quite an unfriendly one at the end.

SpencerM:

i kno ds person�

She might be over 25. Most ladies don't disclose their real age for some reason.

Bro u have to be very strong, i really know how u feel right now, just let her go, that's a girl for u, they are all thesame, they cant stay when things are tough, just try to get her off your mind, i know it would be hard, do things that would distract u from remembering her, just fight it, trust me in less than a month or more, u will get over her., and try and focus more on being successful, so that she can regret she left u,

pocohantas:
You see, some of these ladies would have loved to remain with the love of their lives for however long it takes him to be ready...but, you people will not stop putting pressure on them. You have dated her for 4years? 4 years of constant testing and tasting. Now she is 25...Very soon emusmith will remind her she is 28 and single.

Don't worry bro, it's not your fault that things are this way. One thing you should understand is, most ladies don't have that patience of dating one guy for years. It's a risk in this Nigeria where they keep reminding you of biological clock and the guy can change his mind.

I know how you feel, i'll advise you channel your time into lucrative ventures. Don't go begging with catarrh falling out of your nose. That'll spell desperation and would turn her off, you'll lose your respect. Don't bug her with calls, call once and let go. If she deems it necessary to call, fine. If she doesn't...life goes on.

Wow...this stuff coming out from a 9ja Lady...wow....it means there's till hope for 9ja men...
i like u already...i for begin drag u with ur boo...but i ain't d relationship type....
buttom line...u are very sweet...love ur advice...pls do keep it up

doyinbaby:
smart girl..I will only flaunt a guy on social media a day to our wedding

slayers

Collyno82:
slayers

yes o

bigcp:


Wow...this stuff coming out from a 9ja Lady...wow....it means there's till hope for 9ja men...
i like u already...i for begin drag u with ur boo...but i ain't d relationship type....
buttom line...u are very sweet...love ur advice...pls do keep it up

why not come out straight

doyinbaby:
yes o

hahaha slay remain ooooh

Xclusivedaniel6:

abi ooooooo
so u imagined how dumb dey r

lol.. oga i no talk ooo before we start 3rd world war here.

Abdul3391:
lol.. oga i no talk ooo before we start 3rd world war here.

lol bad guy

valnelly:
As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret.
My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me.
I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25.
During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?

I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice!

#mumu instead make you dey thank God say olosho erase her filthy sef on time from your brighter future. Go and do thanksgiving!!!!!!!

kill yaself because of gurl u cant maintain. u better move on

Papiikush:
You'll get over it.

ok...