Lets be sincere because this is a sensitive issue please.

follow your heart

and she couldn't tell u all that at the beginning of the relationship

So even after you proposed, she wasnt lady enough to tell you? Wow.

Yea i know , it must have been difficult to relate that to u. But for u to find out from other sources is just terrible on her part even after the proposal.
For one, i know she isnt a baby anymore n putting tots to words shldnt be much of a freaking hard thing to do especially one u r planning a future wit. How r u gono trust her to tell u critical things hereafter?

How wud u be so such she isnt gono go bedding d baby dadda after u marry her n keep it clandestine?
Whether you like it or not, he wud always have a special place in her heart n looking @ that baby is a constant reminder of him.



Solution:

ONly u can really tell. If u did proposed, there are qualities u saw in her.
You just need to ask her some critical life defining questions b4 u stick in any further.


@ all, Been a single parent isnt a plague. If anything @ all, it shows u admitted a mistake n decided to live wit d blessing/consequences n as such, should be commended. If she has good xta.

Yours truly wud pick a single momma that he is sure is fertile over a single lady that has comittted multiple abortions in time past.

TOLULOPEMIDEAR:
follow your heart

This thread wouldn't have been created if i should follow my heart, btw thanks for your contribution

torres89:
and she couldn't tell u all that at the beginning of the relationship

yes, she didn't

A mother had to hide the identity of her child
Terrible

Who am I to judge

You have proposed to a woman and you never knew she has a child. What were you discussing during courtship? That you had to find out the information from an external source shows the sort of person she is and you WILL NEVER KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THIS WOMAN as she will continue to hide crucial things from you. If she goes to visit her baby father or they talk constantly, she will hide it from you. She said the baby father is married now abi, ask her WHY HE DID NOT MARRY HER. The answer you get will help you decide whether to stay or RUN.

Maybe. Let it hit front page first

But u can dip ur d1ck in her pvssy ?

What is wrong wth her?

Y did u mention where she is working?

Please call it quits with her; she isn't faithful. She has many skeletons in her cupboard. Believe it or not, she's still seeing her ex.

Would you want to be sharing your woman with another man?