I will be 30 years of age by November of this year. I have a good job with a multinational company and planing on settling down soon to my girlfriend of two and a half years who is currently serving with a New Generation Bank @ Ibadan. I called her as usual last night and asked if she was in bed already and was shocked by her response. That she was passing the night in another guys house who is also a corp member. Her reason was that there was no light at her place. Please, NL, I need your advise on this one before I go crazy as I intend walking down the aisle with this girl on completion of my Duplex which is 99% complete.[/quote

HERE IS OUR LIKELY SCENARIO.
We will refer to miss 'NO-LIGHT-NO-SLEEP-IN-HOUSE' as Almondjoy or AJ.


AJ : baby these flowers are beautiful. You bought them for me ?
KC : Yes angel, there are for you. You know i can do anything for you.
AJ : oh! KC , there would never be another guy in my life but you. I am going to miss you when i go back to Ibadan.
KC : i am gonna miss you too baby. Just hang on a little longer. I will be coming to see your parents as soon as possible.
AJ : thats sweet of you but we have to wait, i have to get finish my service first and get a new job. You know, we dont have to be in a haste. i am for you.
KC : Yes i know but we are OK, i have a good job already. We can manage , You can always get a new job after we are married.
AJ : No no, dont rush things, things will happen when it will. Just wait a little longer OK.

Miss Fear NO-LIGHT goes back to Ibadan where she serves with a bank and goes straight back into the arms of her lover.

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Lover : How was the visit to your mums place yesterday ?
AJ : It was awesome. do you know that mum bought a new car ? she even made me a powerful meal. Oh i love my mum.
Lover : Thats good. I will test her meal someday soon.
AJ : Sure, I will go back there again sometime soon. I forgot something there Plus she always wants to see me.
lover : I would like to come with you.
AJ : NO NO, You know my mum doesnt like me to stay with strangers. You will have to wait. MAYBE SOMEDAY.

All of a sudden, AJ's phone rings and the screen registers as mum{camouflage for mr KCs name}. she shows it to loverman, and takes permission to answer the phone in the toilet.

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AJ : Why didnt you call my house phone KC ?
KC : I called it, your housemate said you are not home yet. I am worried, thats why i called your mobile to see if you are ok.
AJ : {suddenly realises she is not at home} Oh . The Nepa people took our light, our apartment is dark i couldnt stay there.
KC : but your housemate is there baby, where are you exactly ?
AJ : I am at a friends house . He has light in his apartment.he is a fellow corper, But baby dont worry, he is just a friend. a fellow Corper.

OUR NIGGA IS NOT SATISFIED WITH SUCH NEWS AND RUSHES TO NAIRALAND TO GET A SECOND OPINION.

VENUE : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-393143.0.html
TOPIC : Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House?

SAM MILLA : ITS TIME TO RUN NIGGA. YOU MAY CALL ME PRIMITIVE GUY OR BACKWARD GUY OR OLD SCHOOL.
BUT THE ISSUE IS , JUST BECAUSE THERE IS NO LIGHT IS NOT ENOUGH REASON FOR ME. YOUR GIRL IS MISS 2FACE

Kunbee:

For

don't mind me. . . i had nothn to say

Mhismole:

Ok,
Sam milla, u just made my night
if i laugh ny more my ribs wud hurt
wish there was a subscribe button i cud click.
thanks.

I am facing the most difficult moment of my life. My girlfriend of two years got pregnant for her secret lover. All these happened while I was away for an official trip/training.

I discovered her duplicity when I recently came back home and was making love to her. While romancing her bosoms, I noticed I was taking in a substance with soured taste in my mouth. I pretended not to notice it at first, being not exactly sure what was coming out of her bosoms but when it kept coming, I stopped to investigate what precisely I was sucking only to discover that it was coming from her unmentionables.

When I asked her what kind of liquid was coming from her bosoms, she initially denied knowledge of it, but I pressured her to know what could have prompted the bosom milk. I kept mounting pressure on her to confirm what my suspicions were. From my experience I know a woman lactates when she is pregnant and during bosom-feeding.

When she kept maintaining her stance, I asked her to leave my house that night; so, she started shedding tears and later confessed that a guy she started dating when I was away got her pregnant. Up till now, I am still in a state of shock as I find the whole episode still so confusing and disturbing. Please I need your candid advice please.

We had been dating right from School and we had smooth relationship for almost 5years until last year that things went soar. She started avoiding me, which I knew but pretended as if I didn't know. This year May ie May, 2010, she told me she can not continue with the relationship which I took with pleasure and three months after ie August, 2010, she got married to her ex-boyfriend.

1) What do u think happen with the above scenario? Don't u think she had been seeing her ex-boyfriend while we were still dating?

2) If u were Her ex-boyfriend ( now husband), will u still marry her after leaving u for someone ( in this case me) for 5 years?

3) Why do ladies think they are wiser than guys when actually they are not?