Jidhey1:



She's still a Virgin.

How sure are you?

my guy, the reveren father kondo fit be agbero kondo and your own kondo fit be holy kondo. my brother there is different in the two. don't be holy next time be agbero and rough like Omo ita. by then u may have a shot.

Dear Op,
You did not tell us your life status, neither did you tell us that of your teenager girlfriend. But at 19 years of age, what should be Paramount to her should be how to gain admission and plan for her future.
The reverend father is very right. You started dating the girl when she was 17+. She needs all the advice because she is too young to handle RELATIONSHIP. Plan for your future... Regards.

"... It is not as if you are suspecting the reverend father but you are not just comfortable with him" because he is telling your so called girlfriend the truth_ to abstain from the relationship because she is too young. Young man, your mates are busy pursuing their educational career, you just clocked 19 and you have been dating for a year plus. You need deliverance. Idiot!

this case is simple
if you want to marry her go meet her parents
no rev can allow you date and dump a girl
he is trying to protect her for what has been common
use and dump

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlxnPzUf9to

Papiikush:
Rev father is lowkey banging your woman.

lol......

Rev. Fathers are human.I am not assuming the priest is having any affair with your teenager girl friend, but on the other hand it is also not impossible that the priest has an ulterior motive towards her. Go watch the movie "Thorn Bird" and you will understand clearly my point of view.

Syphax:

Maybe he has seen that she isn't matured enough to be in a relationship coupled with the fact that most relationships nowadays are driven by sex

I don't know if you know the meaning of the word 'experience'.

Papiikush:

Seem you've mistaken me for your father

kai!

222Martins:
I have been in your situation before and i must tell you this: Trust your instinct. I have seen a lot in the hands of these so called Rev. Fathers. Hmmmmm make i no talk, but guy, one thing is for sure: Most priests like to keep and groom young girls, even sponsor them in school and take care of their need; with the ultimate aim of...............**Use your tongue to count your teeth**. I am talking from experience.

you nor lie.

they are phucking

there is gawd o

NevetsIbot:
Dont mind him and those crack heads calling you a paedophile.. inasmuch as the girl is 18+... her decision to go into a relationship is not questionable. 19years is not bad to start dating... just swerve those people aside

Thank you sir.

RaggedyAnn:
This reverend father is probably telling himself one thing: that he's looking after this young girl's interest. But he'll end up achieving something else. There's nothing wrong with playing the role he's set out to play in her life. God knows, an impressionable girl needs all the guidance she can get, with all these predators around. He could advise her on how to behave and all, but to ask for such details as the intimate things you do borders on perversion (in my opinion). He's still a man after all. Is he getting off on that kind of talk?

And then there's you girlfriend. You can't deny that a man who cannot be had presents a certain kind of allure.

You should try getting close to this reverend, if the girl is that important to you. Give him the opportunity to feel you out, so that he's got no reasons to doubt your intentions towards his ward. And you can size him up as well, see if he's interested harboring unhealthy desires.

It isn't sexual perversion to ask those details.

There is something called "spiritual directors" in catholicism, I have one and he should know much about about you. There is nothing strange about those questions.

sexaddict08:


how did u carryout the virginity test?

I don't need to disclose it buh I have confirmed it.

LC14052016:
At age 22yrs I got same advice from my Deeper life pastor, that I'm too young to be dating a girl, he advice I focus on my education and building a good spiritual Base for my future. Same advice goes to your girl. I am not her reverend father, but at that age, dating is not the next agenda. The west are suffering from the freedom they unleashed on their teens right now, their society is failing. Just be a friend. Then give advise only when you observe anything inappropriate in the way the RF associates with your 19yrs old.

The West is suffering due to free choice? LOL. I'm so glad I'm not in Nigeria. There are too many religious nuts there destroying lives.

belcom10:
Ofcourse don't u know.

I don't

sycrocombus:
I don't think d Rev.Fr is into any immoral relationship wt ur girl. U said d priest adviced d girl not to go into romantic relationship wt u as she's too young for such and I also agree wt d priest. Also, if d priest had wanted to take advantage of d young girl u wldn't have met her a virgin. The truth is that some priests are very close to girls in their parishes more than d boys whilst stil remaining disciplined

Ok thanks

LC14052016:
At age 22yrs I got same advice from my Deeper life pastor, that I'm too young to be dating a girl, he advice I focus on my education and building a good spiritual Base for my future. Same advice goes to your girl. I am not her reverend father, but at that age, dating is not the next agenda. The west are suffering from the freedom they unleashed on their teens right now, their society is failing. Just be a friend. Then give advise only when you observe anything inappropriate in the way the RF associates with your 19yrs old.

No qualms!

luggy:
she has been charting with R Father b4 u get to know her

I met her before.

Papiikush:

Seem you've mistaken me for your father

I swear this is why I love nairaland.

Aleora:
Just trust your instinct...am a catholic but on your matter am.speechless......that was how my galfriends parish priest ask her out....she was very close to the priest and things like that dont happen in the catholic church but eventually father asked her out and she was so dissapointed .my brother to cut the long story short my galfriend as stopped going to church since then.she felt if a catholic priest could ask her out anytin is possible..

This is just too bad. That's why I am scared that my girl getting too attached with the revered father.

treach:
So u have no fear in u to suspect an ordained man of God.
U still have guts to abt Ur relationship wit a teenager.

Wat are u afraid of.
I guess, d Rev. Fathers chat will make her stop f**king, kissing and visiting u abi!!!!..

My friend, Go use ur Brain and not Ur Dick....
Before God will punish u......

Lol.. you don't have to be insult me before you advise me now..

Dammytemmy:

How sure are you?

100% sure and confirmed!!

Phemoo10:
Dear Op,
You did not tell us your life status, neither did you tell us that of your teenager girlfriend. But at 19 years of age, what should be Paramount to her should be how to gain admission and plan for her future.
The reverend father is very right. You started dating the girl when she was 17+. She needs all the advice because she is too young to handle RELATIONSHIP. Plan for your future... Regards.

Thanks

kibi:
Rev. Fathers are human.I am not assuming the priest is having any affair with your teenager girl friend, but on the other hand it is also not impossible that the priest has an ulterior motive towards her. Go watch the movie "Thorn Bird" and you will understand clearly my point of view.

Okay

Jidhey1:



Not that.. their friendship is too tigh. They communicate every blessed day.

He told us exactly what they are communicating about. The op never suggested that they are romantically involved.

The Rev gave the right advice.she should focus on her studies.

Funny....

at Op wat are u even doing wit a 19year old girl...u no want make she read book abi?

Jidhey1:


She's still a Virgin.

let penis fall on her.

Papiikush:
Rev father is lowkey banging your woman.

Are you not an idiot..

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Papiikush:
Rev father is lowkey banging your woman.

Are you not an idiot..