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| My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Otexdog: 8:28am On Jul 09, 2017 |
I've been a guest member for years and I created this account because I need help with what has been bordering me for weeks. I will be as brief as I can. First I've been married to my wife for 2 years and we've been trying to conceive. Secondly, we've been enjoying great sex life prior before these weeks of nightmare. My wife doesn't seem to turn me on lately. It was once during our first 6 months of marriage that my wife initiated intimacy and I wasn't aroused, my body didn't just respond and I thought to myself that it was because I was not in the mood. It never happened again until sometime in June that I initiated it and I wasn't even getting sėxually aroused or hard eréction . We tried for 3 consecutive days in that week of June and nothing. This time, I thought stress, fatigue etc. I went to the bathroom to see if I can ejáculate by másturbation . I did by help of pórn and I was convinced it wasn't Erectilé Dysfunction (ED). I visited a pharmacy and spoke with the nurse and she prescribed Adam's Desire. I have been on the medication and I think we have been doing fine with the intimacy until this weekend (our 2nd year anniversary). I initiated the sex because she was supposed to be ovulating and we've been advised to have more sex during the time of her ovulation. I couldn't get hard around my naked wife and it broke our hearts. I had to excuse myself to watch some porń to aróuse me and I came back into the room to complete the sex with her. It happened again last night and I don't what to get help from pórnography to stimulate my sexual desire for my wife. My question is: WHAT DO I CALL THIS? HOW CAN I BE HELPED? Note: I can get séxually aróused by a lady I'm lusting for in the streets of my neighborhood Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, rocktation, farano |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 8:30am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Support Buhari and you will be alright 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by harbjar(m): 8:34am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Otexdog:maybe u dont love her, or she isnt as beautiful as ur taste would desire.... its a big problem but i think u can work on yaslf to bring about some changes.. try seeing her in a diff way, try picturing her as u picture those gals u re lusting over in ya street... i hope it works and again i dnt buy that idea of her bn unclad, let her get sexy cloths in the market nd tell her to wear it when u re indoors,, it helps better than bn naked 8 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by WizAkzy: 8:35am On Jul 09, 2017 |
You are used to getting aroused by those ladies in the porn you keep watching. Maybe you should stop watching it. 35 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Otexdog: 8:36am On Jul 09, 2017 |
buharichild: This is not really a joke. I need some serious response. Thank you 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by pat1612(m): 8:44am On Jul 09, 2017 |
U need to see a psychologist  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by AngelicDamsel(f): 8:46am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Before any advice from me. Op, HAVE YOU PRAYED ABOUT IT  From what I read from your post, PRAYER is missing!!!7 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 8:49am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Why would you excuse yourself to go and watch porn, why not watch it together with ur wife? Anyway, lemme give you a tip, memorize ur favorite porn scene in ur head. So whenever ur wife comes around just close ur eyes tight and replay the scene in ur head, ur erection will be explosive 12 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 8:51am On Jul 09, 2017 |
AngelicDamsel:pray for what na? Is it God that will give him hard on? Is it ur preek? 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by oshe11: 8:52am On Jul 09, 2017 |
hmmmm....... Perhaps too much pressure frm trying to gt her pregnant..... Just free ur mind 24 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by dingbang(m): 8:56am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Is she fat? 1 Like |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by GeneralOjukwu: 8:59am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Erectile Dysfunction (ED) most of the time has psychological roots. Let me give you one odd advice...make sure she doesn't expose her nudity too much while in the house. Restrict the unclothedness to sex, i have noticed over exposure is common in ED cases. Goodluck! 15 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Otexdog: 8:59am On Jul 09, 2017 |
dingbang: No she is not fat and she has not undergone physical changes that I don't like. The funny thing is that I love and care for my wife 1 Like |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 9:01am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Otexdog:Y would I be joking, Support Buhari den ur problems will be okay 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by AngelicDamsel(f): 9:01am On Jul 09, 2017 |
lofty900: Is it not God that gave him in the first place? Is it not him that asked for advice? 12 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by dingbang(m): 9:02am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Otexdog:what are the things you fantasize in sex that you want her to do to you that she hasn't done? 1 Like |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by mrwonlasewonie: 9:03am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Go and meet all this local Yoruba women that hawk all this herbal sexual stimulants and herbal aphrodisiacs e.g afato etc tell them how it's doing you,they'll sell the right dosage for you Then stop the porn.porn is not for arousal it's to teach you sex styles used on prostitutes not your wife then stop having sex with the expectations of having a baby. Just have it naturally and when you least expect baby will come But this life is funny.all this parent less and dysfunctional teenagers walking around my streets aimlessly will be getting pregnant anyhow like a pig.just one rape from agberos,they're already pregnant abi just one afternoon of come and eat chicken in my house will lead to unwanted children but the ones that have sex everyday of their lives that need children are the ones that the sperm will not catch the egg.nawa o 12 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by lilmax(m): 9:08am On Jul 09, 2017 |
your wife is a woman right? and you no longer aroused seeing her? oga divorce her and follow the Babe you are in lust with again divorce her and your problems are over |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 9:10am On Jul 09, 2017 |
AngelicDamsel:Which kain wahala be dis on a Sunday morning? 1 Like
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| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by mrwonlasewonie: 9:11am On Jul 09, 2017 |
lofty900:abeg rain dey fall.respect yourself 1 Like |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nobody: 9:12am On Jul 09, 2017 |
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| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Splinz(m): 9:17am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Hmm. Ahem! You see, what is happening is that the little infatuation you had for your wife is beginning to fade away gradually. As proof that it was lust, your own confession has confirmed so- you're still lusting after other women. Also, it seems watching too much porn is taking its toll on you, as you now derived your arousal from it and not your wife unclothedness. Why? Because you're fixated about porn! In all, it's all in your mind. Deal with what goes in there. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by torres89: 9:19am On Jul 09, 2017 |
am guessing her boobs and shape generally out of proportion especially her boobs since that's the first thing a man notices on a woman pick out sexy lingerie for her do the buying yourself and to your taste then let her take care of her face and body well then try having sex on lingerie there are times we get tired of women sexually no matter how much love we have for them also make your sex life flexible. stop doing the same act and using the same scenario every time. 1 Like |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by gidjah(m): 9:43am On Jul 09, 2017 |
lofty900:hmmm,, fair advice, try having a mental pics while on it, that helps too, then work on distractions of the mind and stress coupled with fatigue, your mind must really avoid distractions please, both of you should work on such areas too, do more fore play, learn to touch, visualise and then start gradually, daddys r not finding this areas funny again o!, so so many distractions these days 2 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by infogenius(m): 10:16am On Jul 09, 2017 |
The truth is that she is no longer sexually attractive to you. She is now a bore to you sexually. The reason is not far fetched. You and your wife no longer make passionate love because u're believing God for the fruit of the womb. There is nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly OK. Here is what you can do to improve libido. 1. Maybe you will need to stay off her for a few days or weeks. This is to give you time to refresh so that you can enjoy excitement from her presence. 2. Lovemaking should not be looked at as a baby making chore. Look at it as an opportunity to demonstrate your love to your wife. This means you need to start thinking differently. My two cents 10 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by femi4: 10:21am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Otexdog:Seems you are the one that need help not your wife. Stay away from Porn.......you need the best of your sperm inside your wife's vagina. Stop spilling them away though masturbation Stop porn Stop masturbation Appreciate your wife emotionally and physically, that's the recipe your body need to respond to her sexually 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Otexdog: 10:53am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Is it a medical problem? 1 Like |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by hayboss: 11:16am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Stay clear of porn. It's a bedroom killer. Be warned before its too late! Don't wait till your wife realise you are your enemy. Good luck! |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by Nutase: 11:20am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Pray for erection to fall on you when next you do the do. |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by VampireeM(f): 11:22am On Jul 09, 2017 |
I think you should quit trying for a baby now, watching porn or using sex enhancer. work on how you can improve your sexual intimacies with your wife. What are your fantasies? What are those things you wish your wife should do sexually she ain't doing? What turns you on turn sexually? These are the things you need to discuss with your wife with a sincere mind cause I believe it will help you achieve maximum erection and sexual fulfilment with your wife when both of you are in sync sexually. 5 Likes |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by empressteemah06(f): 12:39pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Uhm.. This is serious.. Maybe you don't love her.. Maybe you ain't inclined to her sexually.. Maybe she isn't sexy as you want.. Maybe you need to go for counseling ..maybe sha |
| Re: My Sexual Problem With My Wife by keenn: 1:16pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
it has nothing to do with u loving or not loving your wife, neither does it relate to watching porn or masturbation, please disregard any post that state otherwise. u mentioned u had difficulty having erectiob with your wife nudity. u didn't state if she her self is making effort to make u have an hard on. u would be surprise what a Mouth Gig/ handjob well giving could do. why not change the environment where the sex could happen- go vacation or visit a hotel. and yes, why not u guys give yourself |
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