JeffreyJamez:
Yeaaah, it's always about the female victims. The male Victims can go to hell and burn.

HannahHitler:
Thanks God for social media.

it has exposed all the hidden ills of our society.

God bless these women for their dedication to the girl child that has no where to turn.

Abused by our uncles, neighbors, friends, brothers, boyfriends, husband's and even our fathers that gave birth to us, when we turn to God, our imams and pastor's are right there waiting to even do more damage. The girl child needs all the help she can get.

Make that call today and get it off your chest.

JeffreyJamez:



Men are raping Children, agreed. And you know this because of the media. Now ask yourself why has there never been a news of young male boys being raped by their maids, neighbors and aunties?.... because non of you would believe the boy child...or would try to cover it up. ..90% of Sexually active boys today are victims of child abuse...but nobody is talking about that and the perptrators are shining teeth Everywhere...it's always about the female child....Even if a group of guys gather to help, it is you same women that will use your devious and evil means to bring it down....

burakado17:
who have ever raped a man? Enjoyment lo ba wa.

naijaboiy:


You just spoke my mind bro. Who should the male victims speak to?

All these biased misandrist hiding under the cloak of feminism to champion their hate for men. If they really wanted to fight it they should not focus on one gender alone.

These ones will end up brain washing the victims and make every man look like a devil in their sight.

There should be equality for all rape and abuse victims, whether male or female. Simple

cococandy:
If men are so concerned about each other? What's stopping you people from looking out for male victim of rape or forming your own rape prevention organizations instead of trying to come in the way of help being offered to females?

It Shows it's not about getting help for men but about preventing women from getting help. You guys never remember anything until women want to do it for themselves then you're all like 'what about men?'
All in a bid to derail the course of women's wellbeing.

Pocohantas is right though. Where did the thread specify that it's all about females? But your wickedness towards women will never let you see that. You saw help and women in the same sentence and your vile nature couldn't let it be.

Stupid things.

tomdon:



Who's abusing who??

naijaboiy:


You just spoke my mind bro. Who should the male victims speak to?

All these biased misandrist hiding under the cloak of feminism to champion their hate for men. If they really wanted to fight it they should not focus on one gender alone.

These ones will end up brain washing the victims and make every man look like a devil in their sight.

There should be equality for all rape and abuse victims, whether male or female. Simple

JeffreyJamez:


Yeah right!....abeg carry yourself back to your coven.

pocohantas:


Which women use their devious means to bring it down?

Do you know how many times I have gotten into arguments with your fellow males on this issue on NL. Majority of them claimed the guys enjoyed it. I remember telling them it's statutory rape.

What did the dumbfukcs tell me? They said the average guy fantasises having sex with an older female. You guys are the ones that trivialise the topic!! Stop lying!!!

The only time they get defensive is on threads like this. Say the truth!! No mother would hear her child, be it male or female was abused and let it go!!!

pocohantas:


Which women use their devious means to bring it down?

Do you know how many times I have gotten into arguments with your fellow males on this issue on NL. Majority of them claimed the guys enjoyed it. I remember telling them it's statutory rape.

What did the dumbfukcs tell me? They said the average guy fantasises having sex with an older female. You guys are the ones that trivialise the topic!! Stop lying!!!

The only time they get defensive is on threads like this. Say the truth!! No mother would hear her child, be it male or female was abused and let it go!!!

KingTom:

Bros J you get time to dey reply mumus o

Futureberry:
this is false,does that joke with male victims are not here right now,as you can see from most post, try and go through your post and cross check with the poster here,rape shouldn't be joked with

JeffreyJamez:


Doc, I'm.bored jare....e good to engage them once in a while

ibkayee:

The only thing that was 'specific' about that writeup was this part in regards to the first counsellor

Her work earned her an appointment with the Abia State Governor as an SA to the governor on matters related to the girl child.

And it's talking about her previous works, not necessarily that only female victims are welcome to be helped.

The rest of the writeup only refers to survivors as 'victims', coming across as gender neutral

pocohantas:


I will find that thread. You'll read it and see the reactions of your fellow men on this issue. Some were even saying they're looking for women to rape them. That the location should be given...

I was disgusted!

You would never see women react that way to rape issue.

And that's what pains them, the fact that women come together to fight this cause.

KingTom:

You dey follow person wey dey cross RED SEA argue? Hmmmm you get power o

pocohantas:


No, stupidity won't be tolerated.

I always heard men were the logical gender, the sentiments I see from most NL males proves otherwise. Only someone bereft of basic logic would twist an innocent post.

There are topics that shouldn't be joked with, this is one of them.



None was specific. They only said she has held a post on matters pertaining to the girl child. She advices teens, is it only females that are called teens?

JeffreyJamez:


If e dey cross red Sea, Omo na for e backyard o... ...na me.be Oracle!!

JeffreyJamez:


..and have you ever spoken to any guy who has actually been a victim?....

Let me tell you something, most guys have been damaged psychologically from being abused as kids that they don't even see the wrong in it any more. That's how damaging it can be for the boy child.

Piiko:
which teens have sexual and reproductive health issues more??

JeffreyJamez:



Men are raping Children, agreed. And you know this because of the media. Now ask yourself why has there never been a news of young male boys being raped by their maids, neighbors and aunties?.... because non of you would believe the boy child...or would try to cover it up. ..90% of Sexually active boys today are victims of child abuse...but nobody is talking about that and the perptrators are shining teeth Everywhere...it's always about the female child....Even if a group of guys gather to help, it is you same women that will use your devious and evil means to bring it down....

Bridgetania:





you talk about equality?...

Is there equality in the number of girls raped on a daily basis compared to guys?

How and when last did u hear that a boy or man was raped?
But u can bear me witness that aleast every two days on NL we read different news about young girls being raped..and this happens on a daily basis.

Btw..u dont expect a female who was a rape victim to come and be campaigning on behalf of both sex. She has to use her experience and how she pulled out successfully outa the mess to help her fellow girls..a method which may not be suitable for the male gender.
By the way...its always difficult for a lady/girl to talk about embarrassing sex ordeals such as rape with a man...and that applies too for the men.

What you should be concerned is...for men who has undergone the terrible ordeal and still survived and pulled through..this men should be the ones coming out to campaign for the boys/men victims too.

There are some matters,so intricate and delicate,that are reserved for the same genders to handle..so that they can be a free flow of communication.

Finally...you are all entitled to your own ideas...but i suggest, if any man who has been a victim to sexual abuse needs who to talk to,and there seems to be none concerned..he should get up,take the mantle of courage and be the first masculinist or male gender rights activist,make himself available and known,hereby forging and setting a pace others would gladly follow.
,................
Bri.

burakado17:
who have ever raped a man? Enjoyment lo ba wa.

pocohantas:


I have spoken to guys that were victims, majority said it was nice!!! That they touched big boobs.

I remember watching BBN, Bassey and Kemen said they were touched intimately by helps. Bisola said, that child molestation, they said which molestation...we enjoy am! On international TV!!!!

I have even dated a victim and I know how it affects (ed). He is the first guy that has ever admitted it hurts him. So, I would be the last person to trivialise such, sadly...majority of guys don't see it that way.

naijaboiy:

I don't really have the energy to argue on sensitive topics like this, especially this night.

I'll say some of the points you raised are valid but not all. I don't see the reason why we should have separate fights against abuse. Everybody should come together to fight it and not divided.

And the reason why men are having problems with this one sided fight against abuse is that these activist end up sending the wrong message to the victims. They don't tell them the right things sometimes. I've read books and listened to some seminars online and all I see are these activist spreading hate in an indirect manner.

Should men also start championing the fight against abuse and then begin to spread hate against the female gender?

Well I never wanted to talk too much. You just made me.

Piiko:
Are you part of the men are scum brigade, male harassment is definitely lesser but it does happen nowhere in that write up is it explicitly stated that young males can reach out to seek help, lucky me that my childhood wasn't traumatic, getting help for depression is what gets the least attention these days and that's where my interest lies

JeffreyJamez:



Men are raping Children, agreed. And you know this because of the media. Now ask yourself why has there never been a news of young male boys being raped by their maids, neighbors and aunties?.... because non of you would believe the boy child...or would try to cover it up. ..90% of Sexually active boys today are victims of child abuse...but nobody is talking about that and the perptrators are shining teeth Everywhere...it's always about the female child....Even if a group of guys gather to help, it is you same women that will use your devious and evil means to bring it down....

Obalende:

They trying to replicate exactly wat they've done in North America. ... making most girls hostile to guys and teaching dem all sorts like safe space, wat and wat is comfortable and comfortable, consent legalese, older guys are freaks and pedophiles etc.

Yao Biatch niggaz listen..... commercial sex dolls are now available.

Woman no b God. God and God only shall I worship not woman.

Lai Lai o!

Nobody fit be God..