logica:
Do you mind sharing the love story?

Miggs:
Let me simplify that sentence..Males on Nland and other social networks "like" female dps because they are naturally interested in females but females hardly,if ever 'like" male dps because they arent really interested in males.They are much more interested in other females
P.S.Realistically,there is no such thing as 'love" on this planet.Its all about INTERESTS

ikp120:
Bros, I can't believe there are people who still reason like you.

Just wait for a better guy to come around, toast her like agege bread, and watch how all the feelings she has for you will vanish into thin air. If you offend her at that moment, bro you WILL turn to an EX!

Bros,that's the way they are.

spiritedtete:


Your dad was matured enough to see in between lines ... He loved his wife despite her flaws. However your mum might even be the perfect one too... But your dad was able to apply wisdom even when he often makes mistakes.

Bro...I didnt say don't trust your wife... But please you don't need too much of emotional investment. What you need is wisdom to grow. So that she will see you as a model, which will make you unique to her. Thus she stays with you for as long as God wants.

imustsaymymindo:


Do we "like" their images because we love them? And dont forget, guys are more attracted in what they see as the popular quote goes.

ikp120:
Bros, I can't believe there are people who still reason like you.

Just wait for a better guy to come around, toast her like agege bread, and watch how all the feelings she has for you will vanish into thin air. If you offend her at that moment, bro you WILL turn to an EX!

Bros,that's the way they are.

Miggs:
We 'like" their images because we are much more interested in them.You can try an experiment yourself by putting an "F" on your monicker and placing any female photo as your dp.Find a topic on the frontpage and post "ok"and see what happens

pressplay411:
God punish the wicked girl that did this to your heart.

pressplay411:
God punish the wicked girl that did this to your heart.

Miggs:
Women really only "submit" to men when they are getting something from him.If the river from the man runs dry,they begin to act up.The only women that can truly love a man are maybe his daughter and sometimes his mother.Women dont really love men.They only love the idea of a man.There is no need to speak too much about this issue.For instance,online,look at Nland for example and see how males always "like' the photos on females dps and see how many "likes" females give to men.Offline,how many women offer males 'lifts' in their vehicles and how many men offer women?You see ...no comparison

pocohantas:

It wasn't really a lesson sha. He was a very nice guy, I guess he was only being a man...let me put it like that.

Even babes no get mercy, no be babe do OP this thing?

hensben:
Women naturally are scared of men so if you are not their brother , husband/boyfriend, pastor or father they won't give you life for fear of been raped or killed. Women don't hate men rather admire men and you don't expect them to walk to men rather it's the other way round. Whereas, men naturally have soft spot for women(love).

tosyne2much:
But I don't think that's enough reason for you to become a partial feminist, or what do you think?

pocohantas:

I'm far from being a feminist...definitely not the NL definition of feminist. You guys should stop throwing that word around, except if the lady in question identifies herself as one.

It isn't very smart to give people labels, just because they share views different for yours. If it's like that, you would have gotten several labels for your numerous threads

pocohantas:

It wasn't really a lesson sha. He was a very nice guy, I guess he was only being a man...let me put it like that.

Even babes no get mercy, no be babe do OP this thing?

veraiyke:
Argument convincing. Especially that part that they act mostly on emotions and not reason. They keep hurts and keep acting on it and from it. All the same one got to live a life of love no matter what

ajog1:
I love the sarcasm

pocohantas:

It wasn't really a lesson sha. He was a very nice guy, I guess he was only being a man...let me put it like that.

Even babes no get mercy, no be babe do OP this thing?

pocohantas:


I believe there are more playboys acting out of hurt than females doing same. Take it easy... women might whine and whine, men act it.


LOL! Men will always be men hah? Reading this thread and wondering if men actually love women that much

Melonny:
Haha! girl no do me anything. I was just inspired by the type of men I discussed in the last two paragraphs, videos on YouTube and some random posts on Nairaland..
Maybe men who wants good wife ain't praying right? Maybe men should pray for a submissive wife instead of a wife that will love them.

pocohantas:


Out of love comes submission. Any other submission that isn't borne out of love is definitely conditional and susceptible to change. If a woman loves you, every other would be added on to it.

The problem is, we have people like you...teaching partners to be unnecessarily defensive. As you're teaching your fellow guys, some ladies are somewhere teaching themselves too.

Then two people would marry, the man would be hoarding his love and the wife would be hoarding submission. Next place is in family meeting, then Igando court... another marriage gone.

Pray for a woman who loves you effortlessly and unconditionally.
When a woman loves, she loves for real...

I am not overly religious, so...I can't say it's all about prayers. It's more about being discerning and open to love. You can't appreciate what you don't give or understand.

imustsaymymindo:


I am 22 by the way.

Melonny:
Mynd44,RoyalRoy, Lalasticlala c'mon buddies, let's focus in on this with wisdom. let men know their fate.

sonofLuci:
True OP, even if you are super cute, all still the same shit, they leave their boyfriend just to be with you because you are cuter and more fun than previous boyfriend, they tell you they love you but it is all a lie, they don't even know they are lying, because it's who they are.

this world is bleeped up

I don't even know if I should proceed with my plans to get married next year.

sexybbstar, what do you think about this write up from op?

hensben:
Women naturally are scared of men so if you are not their brother , husband/boyfriend, pastor or father they won't give you lift for fear of been raped or killed. Women don't hate men rather admire men and you don't expect them to walk to men rather it's the other way round. Whereas, men naturally have soft spot for women(love).

Benita27:
Don't worry, someday you'll be loved by a lady.

I've always been. I just don't give a flying Fück.

Miggs:
Not all mothers' love are unconditional.The American rapper EMINEM mother had no love for him

A mother will either love you the wrong way and do many hurtful things or love you the right way and be responsible. Even Eminem had to apologize to his mother later on after the fame.

One bad mother cannot stain the rest who are good.

Rossikki:
You are wrong. Women will never stop and give a lift to a man, even if the man is a cripple. It has nothing to do with fear. Even their fellow women they cannot give a lift. How many times have you seen a woman give money to a beggar on the street?

hensben:
hmmm

Rossikki:
It's true...Women in general lack Empathy. It has to do with the way their brains are wired. It is natural. The reason a woman cannot give money to a beggar on the street is because she has nothing to gain from it.