#SexEducation - By Abubakar Muyiwa

Sex! - Emotion! - Intimacy!

I have come to a realization and concluded that every young people have Sexual urge issues, irrespective of maturity, exposure, religious status male or female. Some may not understand why, but this actually shows that reproductive maturity is increasing in such person and this is normal.

Having understood that sexual urge is normal, it is also important to say or know that any sexual relationship outside Marriage is Immoral or Sinful. Although it’s not until you had sex before you commit sin; Jesus said " But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart - Matthew 5:28", this implies that think of having sex with someone is like the deed is already done.

There is another major Issue Confronting Youth/Unmarried these days and that is #Pornography, yes even so called Christian Single Bro/Sis, you see them performing well in their religious activities, they will always claim to be #BornAgain but an opportunity to check their phone, you will be disappointed. This is not limited to guys alone, ladies too are guilty of this sinful habit but I believe after reading this you will get your Deliverance in Jesus name.

Why Do Youth/Unmarried Watch Pornography?
Remember I said, the sexual urge is normal and it shows reproductive maturity. These are few reasons:
(1) For Pleasure: Some think is fun to watch people engaging themselves and it’s pleasant to the eye but it’s sinful.
(2) Relieving Sexual urge or emotional excesses: I will define Emotional excesses in this is a state whereby an individual had an overwhelming or unmanageable strong feeling toward opposite gender especially someone very close (i.e. friend), hence porn makes them feel
(3) Human Depravity and Sinfulness: This means every human being has that natural tendency to commit sin or do evil, those watching porn are under the influence or sin.

It could have been possible that pornography could be avoided at first sight but for the reason above, people fall for it even having known that it is sinful. Whatever reason why people watch pornography, there is no Justification for it before God "The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God - Psalms 9:17"
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Colossians 3:5-6 - (5) Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; **fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence**, and covetousness, which is idolatry: (6) For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:

From Colossians above, all but one are sexual sins "fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection(bad sense or affection), evil concupiscence (strong sexual desire or lust)" and if you watch porn*** and claimed its not in the Bible hence it’s not a sin, don’t be deceived here is what Bible called it read Colossians 3:5-6 again.

Well, I don’t want to spend all time of the Problem but The Solution. If you are guilty of the sin of Porn*** and have tried but could not get out of it, be it know to you that you are not Born Again Yet and that is the Biblical truth:
"Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, *because he is born of God* - I John 3:9"

"We know that whosoever is born of God sinneth not; but he that is begotten of God keepeth himself, and that wicked one toucheth him not. - I John 5:18".

If you are #BornAgain you will be guided by God's Spirit from sinful habit.

What is the way out? The way out is simple

1=> Repentance: Repentance is turning away from your sin and asking God for forgiveness,
2=> Removal: Removing all object of temptation to pornography from you
3=> Renouncing/Rejecting/Rebuke: You have to pray Renouncing/Rejecting/Rebuke every spirit of porn*** in your life
4=> Renewal of Spirit: Now you need to pray that God should restore your spirit and renew it
5=> Renew of Mind: Take Bible reading serious and memorized key verses that remind you about sexual sin

Lastly, Change your association, if it's your friend that introduce it to you and they have not repented, it's high time you give them distance, and daily Pray for *Sanctification*.

If my English is badly constructed pardon me, I put the writing down in a rush to quickly pass a message to a Facebook friend. Before the weekend I will elaborate how you can be totally free.

#AmTheCounselor

The children of this world love darkness rather than Light.
Keep it up Bro

shadeyinka:
The children of this world love darkness rather than Light.
Keep it up Bro

Thank You Sir.

I was inspired to write on the Topic when A lovely Christian Sisi gave me her phone to configure Skype for her. When am done, I decide take a look maybe i might see those funny skit, that was when I saw the little fox, I pity her situation as i cant blame.

So I had to quickly put up a message in a rush I did not even review it properly, I just hope it gets to her

Thanks for the feedback