Ladies, here are some things you need to stop in your relationship. It may seem difficult but you have to try.

Stop feeling lucky to have a boyfriend when he is lucky to have you.

Stop thinking he is your whole world when you have the whole world in front of you.

Stop thinking he would save you,the power to save yourself is within you.

Stop thinking that you have nothing else to offer but your body,God also gave you a brain.

Stop thinking he would change for you, if he does not meet upto your standard,then do not go into a relationship with him at all.

Stop changing yourself because of him,he would not change because of you.

Stop saying “Yes” all the time because you are scared of loosing him. Have a mind of your own. Sometimes,saying “NO” may actually keep him.

Stop snooping around him. What you find might not interest you.

Stop acting like his wife,if he requires such attention,he should make it official.

Stop trying to possess him. He is a subject and not an object.

Stop settling for the side chick position. You are way more than that. Unless ofcourse he is your side guy.

Stop thinking he is the answer to your financial breakthrough,go out there and make some bucks for yourself,afterall,you are not handicapped.

Stop thinking you cannot not live without him. You lived before he came,you can live again after he is gone.

Stop thinking he is not cheating or would never cheat,you would be hurt when he disappoints you. Always be prepared for the worst.

Stop being confused if he loves you or not. If he did,you would not be confused.

Stop saying you want to break up when you do not mean it. You might just get what you did not bargain for.

Stop being faithful after you have been cheated on severally,he does not deserve the loyalty anymore.

Stop trying when he has let go,you deserve better.

Stop being scared of loosing him,something better is on the way.

Am out.....

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