Good morning nairalanders, this seems to be a pressing issue and can decide the status/continuity of a my relationship with my gf as we speak. Its almost a year relationship, approximately 10months now.

What happened: My girl had her monthly flow (menstruation) from 26th of last month and ended 31st of July, that is last month. she visited and we had a little fun, but during the process, i noticed she was a little bit opened as opposed to our previous encounter. so i stopped and attributed it her menstrual flow, insisting her flow caused the little expansion and that it will get back to normal after some hours or days.

Now, she visited yesterday been 3rd of August and when we were about having sex she showed kind of a little bit resistance/reluctance but due to the temperature of the mood she concurred and when i entered it was so roomy and quite wider than usual that i didn't felt anything but she made a screamy noise ( i supposed she was forming it). Immediately i removed my gun and asked her what happened and she said nothing.

I asked her what happened that her V...was more opened that before and insisted if she met someone else or ......she said no and that she had done nothing, and probably her V...opened by itself and maybe it will go back to normal..........

So i need an experienced and well taught advice on this issue because .......breaking up is the next action on my mind......because i care for my life,career and future a lot........

A Fuçking rêtard is what u are op.

U have been having sex with her no complains and now just because of a issue like that u wanna break up, u never really loved her, break up with her nah, then move to the next girl cook up another reason break up and continue like that..

The lord is your strength.

if she was smart,she would have cried and lied she masturbates with items like cucumber e.t.c... Most ladies out there see other men, since they are approached on maybe daily basis and could fall for one or more players also out there.

No thats not the issue, because i love her...but its about trust and caution. One has to be careful because a healthy and trustworthy relationship can lead to marriage...so if such is not corrected it can become an issue later....

nothing way person no go read for Nairaland

lol

From experience, she had sex with another dude

Thank u Vivian for opening my eyez


my advice to u op, is to increase ur fūcking rate with her to 2times a day, that's 2 x7 = 14 times a week for one month


because I see her passing the pucci permanently to another nigga soon

ladies and gentlemen, another brethren has carry soak away

Funny story, wet in we no go see for this life?
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