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Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by malificent(f): 5:33pm On Aug 12, 2017
I'm in the midst of two arguing parties, nairalanders please drop your opinions.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by falconey(m): 5:34pm On Aug 12, 2017

Yes, he paid for it didn't he? The only you'll cut without his consent are pubic hair and armpit's.

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Miracle4Sure: 5:36pm On Aug 12, 2017
Capital Y E S
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Requiem18(m): 5:38pm On Aug 12, 2017
Eh?.... No.... Except if he is paying for it at least.... He should know how much and stuff like that

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Amarabae(f): 5:39pm On Aug 12, 2017
Should a married man seek his wife consent before he shave his beards?

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by blackylola(m): 5:42pm On Aug 12, 2017
Is the husband still actively alive
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by falconey(m): 5:44pm On Aug 12, 2017
Requiem18:
Eh?.... No.... Except if he is paying for it at least.... He should know how much and stuff like that


Know how much? Fixing cost varies by the service provider's pricing method while cutting's is pretty much fixed and easy to presume. moreover the husband should know he does that often.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Lalas247(f): 5:45pm On Aug 12, 2017
Nothing wrong in asking your husbands OPINION
But the ans is invalid if she wants to go ahead she should regardless ..

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:48pm On Aug 12, 2017
Are u seriously arguing about this? But if u must know,The Answer is Capital YES. All these things are embedded in one bn submissive to the husband.

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Requiem18(m): 5:50pm On Aug 12, 2017
What if the woman is working and earning her cash? She won't ask for permission then now
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by LordOfNaira: 5:52pm On Aug 12, 2017
malificent:
I'm in the midst of two arguing parties, nairalanders please drop your opinions.

No, she doesn't have to seek permission to cut her hair. But she needs to inform her husband of her decision to cut her hair.

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 5:52pm On Aug 12, 2017
Should a married man ask his wife's permission before plaiting his hair?
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by luminouz(m): 6:07pm On Aug 12, 2017
Amarabae:
Should a married man seek his wife consent before he shave his beards?
Nice one!!!
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by muller101(m): 6:12pm On Aug 12, 2017
Op be specific pls. Which hair are u referring to. The one above or the one below.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Afilearn: 6:16pm On Aug 12, 2017
5 Things I Do When My Husband is Not by My Side

An average woman will like to feel that she is always the focus and at least grabs her husband’s attention.

When a woman is at home with her love, the best thing she cherishes most is him staying beside her come what may.

Nothing is sweet like having a wonderful husband by your side, a woman feels.

However, it is possible you marry a man that is not always available by your side. When this issue befalls you, do not think it happens to you alone.

The relationship that has gotten to the point of complete marriage needs not turn asunder because of little issue that is mendable. Like some will complain that their husbands are not romantic.

I agree that many men are not romantic. It is the one thing, which might come naturally to a couple of people. To find a romantic husband may seem hard. Instead of seeking one, while not build one yourself.

Through your attitude and characters, you can teach your man to be by your side without chaos.

Right from the time I married my husband, I know he is that kind that does not like staying beside me and even at home. However, I did not mind, because he has other characteristics that most men do not have.

So, don’t give yourself undue problem when your husband is not right beside you, do these instead:

1. Always Message Him

During our dating years, I hardly let him sleep without continuously communicating with him via SMS.

I noticed when I talk him, he replies and wants me to brief him on how my day’s used.

I let him know without feeling that he care less. Every communication we make, I noticed he became more glued to me.

At first, I got tired, but the moment I saw this idea paid, I kept doing it, till he made it a point of duty always to call me.

2. Send Him Love Poems

I have made it a point of duty to show my love I care so much by sending him love poems revealing how happy I am staying with her.

Till now, if he is somewhere working, I make sure I send him reminders depicting how firm my love for him is.

Well, as time goes on, he decided to be sending the same. Today, the poem is that rope that bridges our gaps.

3. Send Him Love Quotes

I send love quotes a lot because I realized some men do feel their wives do not care the same way we feel the same. Due to this, I have taken it as a point of duty to send Inspirational Love Quotes, especially during a quarrel.

My husband enjoys my love quotes, and I do not think I can stop getting her concentration without sending love quotes he can deny a smile

4. Call Him On Social Issues

Times without number, I call my husband on social issues, especially on Facebook discussions of people to get his views.

While I am doing, he becomes more glued to me, and often time I create a chance for us to discuss what others are discussing even though he is not aware.

5. Give Him Details Of My Movement

Be honest with your husband; you will need to be great communicators and work at it daily so that you may love and be loved, how you have always wished to be loved.

When my husband is not available, I try to communicate him, detailing what I have seen and whom I have discussed with me. When I branch at the market, I do let him now and tell him of new products I should be buying any moment.

When I buy him new products, I will not let it be long before I Let him know. This is not saying I am talkative, but I want to create reasons for him to long for home.

During our discussion, he longs for home and comes back immediately to finish our talk.

You need to be sincere with your husband and learn to change their ways with your attitude. If you wish to enjoy your distant men, create reasons for him to come home.
Read more on www.lovequote.com.ng

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by EmpressEnnie(f): 6:17pm On Aug 12, 2017
I do not think t is necessary.but if i find mysef in such a situation,i'll ask for his opinion and go ahead to cut it off whether he likes it or not.@ least ayaf tell him and its my hair.i can do away with it as i wish

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by blackylola(m): 6:22pm On Aug 12, 2017
EmpressEnnie:
I do not think t is necessary.but if i find mysef in such a situation,i'll ask for his opinion and go ahead to cut it off whether he likes it or not.@ least ayaf tell him and its my hair.i can do away with it as i wish
hmmm evening children
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by EmpressEnnie(f): 6:24pm On Aug 12, 2017
blackylola:
hmmm evening children
hahaha..lol omo irole aye

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Aug 12, 2017
Yes na.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by naijaboiy: 6:54pm On Aug 12, 2017
Lol..should this even be a topic?

If your woman wants to do anything concerning her hair she'd definitely Tell you. Not because she's asking for your permission but simply because you're her man and she loves you and would like to know what you think when she goes on lowcut.

It's not about submission. She has already made a decision. You can't be acting like a jerk instructing her on whether to cut it or not. The best you can do is give her your opinion on how you'll feel about the new look.

And as a man you'll want to be tactical about that trust me. wink

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by ikp120(m): 7:30pm On Aug 12, 2017
I marry you and you suddenly go shave off your hair without my knowledge? Shìt just got real mehn. angry

Akarabista, you are terminated. angry angry

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Aug 12, 2017
Yes! D beauty of a woman is her hair. Husband may not like if she cuts it
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by holatin(m): 7:35pm On Aug 12, 2017
Yes same way for breast work and pussy work.

if you change one thing he secretly love, then you are stylishly pushing him out to Fish

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by gentlegenius(m): 7:37pm On Aug 12, 2017
malificent:
I'm in the midst of two arguing parties, nairalanders please drop your opinions.
Even an unmarried lady needs to take permission from her boyfriend before cutting her hair else she shouldn't complain when her bf start chasing other ladies with full hairs.
As a guy, I don't really like keeping beards but since I met my present girlfriend, I stopped shaving off my beards because she likes it a lot. I even asked her for permission to reduce my afro hair and she said I should leave it like that and I obeyed cos she always obeys my own instructions as regards her body.
Relationship is the prelude of marriage, so whatever we want in marriage should start from our relationships.

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Aug 12, 2017
It's very necessary. Some men don't like their wives on low-cut, so it's best you've both come to an agreement before going to shave off your hair. This isn't about doing what you like but about doing what you'd both like.

Of recent I was told that before a lady gets a hair cut in the salon, a permission letter written and signed by the husband is required before barbers go on to do their job. Just heard of this last week n was shocked. Reason being, barbers get arrested by angry husbands for cutting their wife's hair.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by gentlegenius(m): 7:48pm On Aug 12, 2017
naijaboiy:
Lol..should this even be a topic?

If your woman wants to do anything concerning her hair she'd definitely Tell you. Not because she's asking for your permission but simply because you're her man and she loves you and would like to know what you think when she goes on lowcut.

It's not about submission. She has already made a decision. You can't be acting like a jerk instructing her on whether to cut it or not. The best you can do is give her your opinion on how you'll feel about the new look.

And as a man you'll want to be tactical about that trust me. wink
Are you a Christian? Do you read the Bible at all?
Haven't you heard the bible saying that a woman should always submit to her man? Didn't the same Bible also say that a woman's body belongs to her husband and a man's body belongs to his wife? So even the hairs on my wife's body belongs to me, therefore, WHY will she shave it off without taking permission from me?
As a matter of fact, I don't shave off my beards if my woman doesn't permit me, not because she controls me but because my body and everything on it belongs to her.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by greatgod2012(f): 8:29pm On Aug 12, 2017
@op, it depends on the type of husband we're talking about here!

If he's the type of husband that cares about you and your outlooks, who always admire your beauty and all that, then, you owe him a duty not to only tell him but also follow his suggestions on how to keep your hair.


But, if on the other hand, he's the type of husband who'll not even notice that you now have low cut even after a month of cutting your hair, then, I can say it's not necessary telling him because telling him or not is not gonna change anything!


Personal opinion though!

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Earthquake1: 8:41pm On Aug 12, 2017
It's her hair duh...? She no b property abeg.

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by naijaboiy: 8:57pm On Aug 12, 2017
gentlegenius:

Are you a Christian? Do you read the Bible at all?
Haven't you heard the bible saying that a woman should always submit to her man? Didn't the same Bible also say that a woman's body belongs to her husband and a man's body belongs to his wife? So even the hairs on my wife's body belongs to me, therefore, WHY will she shave it off without taking permission from me?
As a matter of fact, I don't shave off my beards if my woman doesn't permit me, not because she controls me but because my body and everything on it belongs to her.
All these ones you're typing is your own belief.

What I typed up there is mine, I don't have time arguing upandan sir. undecided
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by naijaboiy: 8:59pm On Aug 12, 2017
Benita27:
It's very necessary. Some men don't like their wives on low-cut, so it's best you've both come to an agreement before going to shave off your hair. This isn't about doing what you like but about doing what you'd both like.

Of recent I was told that before a lady gets a hair cut in the salon, a permission letter written and signed by the husband is required before barbers go on to do their job. Just heard of this last week n was shocked. Reason being, barbers get arrested by angry husbands for cutting their wife's hair.
Lool..are you trying to be sarcastic? grin

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Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 12, 2017
naijaboiy:

Lool..are you trying to be sarcastic? grin
Not pun-intended. I was told by a co-worker who went to cut her hair but the barber refused. Mind you, she's not married yet but advanced. Now, the barber felt she was lying and insisted she comes with her boyfriend or Fiance 'cause he can't risk being arrested. I don't know if it's only happening down here.
Re: Should A Married Woman Seek Her Husband's Consent Before She Cuts Her Hair???? by naijaboiy: 9:17pm On Aug 12, 2017
Benita27:
Not pun-intended. I was told by a co-worker who went to cut her hair but the barber refused. Mind you, she's not married yet but advanced. Now, the barber felt she was lying and insisted she comes with her boyfriend or Fiance 'cause he can't risk being arrested. I don't know if it's only happening down here.
Hahaha...I never knew my woman had to take permission from me in a written form before she cuts her hair.

I don't understand that part of marriage.

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