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Why You Should Get Married by Nairalandsss(m): 3:33am On Aug 21, 2017
You are one of those people who think that marriage is a useless step in life.You think that life can be good minus marriage too.Then maybe you need to be aware of some good reasons as to why people get married. You are looking at substantial arguments to tell you that marriage is not that bad, after all. Here are some reasons that you should get married.

Reasons that why you should get married are:

1.You have a stable sex life: When you get married, you get the license to have sex with your husband whenever you want. You don’t have to feel guilty or ashamed about it, because both of you are in a happy, healthy relationship together, and having sex regularly is a part of it. Plus, with one loyal partner, there is no risk of STDs, as would be the case if you were single and having sexual encounters with various people.

2.You face low mortality risk: It has been proven by scientific research that married people are likely to have a longer life, as compared to single people. So if you love your life and want to lead a longer one, then marriage will affect your longevity directly. When you try and study this logic properly, you realize that marriage is the focal point to better health and wellness; as a result of which, people end up living longer.

3.You get lifelong companionship: Everyone likes to have that one stable friend to depend on for everything. With marriage, your husband becomes that stable friend for you. Irrespective of whatever good or bad happens in your life, he will be just a call away for you. And he too will never be able to move away from this position, because the bond of marriage will make him liable to be there for you, even if it means rescuing you from a road accident urgently, or leaving work to come wipe your tears when you’re in some problem.

4.Your standard of life improves: With marriage, your chances of moving out of a poor neighborhood to a better one increase. Moreover, since there are incomes of two people (you and your husband’s), focusing on one household, obviously your spending power and quality of life become better. Your husband too will take extra steps to get you good things because he will consider it to be his moral duty and responsibility.

.You get a new family: Marriage will make your husband’s family, your family. This means that you get a lot of new relationships to look at and enjoy. You enjoy the bliss of a bigger family, with more people to share your joys with. Festivals and occasions become more enjoyable, and there are more people who are concerned about your well being on a whole.

6.Your friend circle expands: When you are single, you can only do a limited amount of activities with your single friends. Your married friends would be interested in some other activities. However, when you get married, you can do the same activities as your other married friends. You can go on couple gatherings and trips. Plus, your husband’s friends will also become your friends, and so will their spouses, thereby expanding your friend circle. You get a more active social life, with great friends to look forward to.

7.You’re safe and secure for life: Marriage also makes you pretty safe and secure for your life. Your husband will make sure that there are some savings for you, even if he passes away. Moreover, you have him around in the same house, and so you don’t need to be scared about living alone. Plus, your parents are happy that you have a secure future, with a stable partner to take care of you.

8.It enriches you as a person: Marriage has the ability to make a person mature, smart and responsible. You also become more sensitive, understanding and supportive. In other words, you start to become a better person, who handles problems in a responsible way, and not immaturely. This is great for one’s overall personal growth.

9.Your chances of being successful in life are higher: With so many good things that marriage does to you, there is great mental peace and satisfaction that you attain. It’s because of this mental wellness, that you’re able to focus better on your work. Your concentration and efficiency increases, thereby helping you to get promotions at work. This way, your chances of being successful in life are pretty high. In fact, there have been several studies, which have proven that married professionals are more likely to perform better than single ones.

10.It gives a meaning to your life: Traditionally, marriage is a bond of commitment, and once you step into this phase of life, this relationship will add a new meaning to your life altogether. You know you are committed to someone, and that brings about a lot of changes in the way you deal with your partner, as well as your life. The tag of marriage brings about some discipline in your head, with some boundaries, and a list of dos and don’ts, which you are not likely to respect when you are not married to your partner.

These are the reasons why you should get married.



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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Divay22(f): 3:37am On Aug 21, 2017
Goan sleep o OP cheesy
Lemme just park my car here wink

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by HeWrites(m): 3:41am On Aug 21, 2017
Divay22:
Goan sleep o OP cheesy
Alai nikan say grin

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Divay22(f): 3:44am On Aug 21, 2017
HeWrites:

Alai nikan say grin
angry

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by HeWrites(m): 3:51am On Aug 21, 2017
Re: Why You Should Get Married by muller101(m): 7:27am On Aug 21, 2017
The very day u start thinking of getting married. That's the day Common sense is about to leave your body.

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Lalas247(f): 7:33am On Aug 21, 2017
You have a point Op
But
All those things can be achieved without signing the dotted line

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by MyNewJackeT: 7:56am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
You have a point Op
But
All those things can be achieved without signing the dotted line

So you expect to earn all this without signing anything??
Re: Why You Should Get Married by Nobody: 8:00am On Aug 21, 2017
Hmmmm! Okay! Let me go and look for wife
Re: Why You Should Get Married by slayking(m): 8:04am On Aug 21, 2017
Very valid , only if I can get married and still keep my freedom. cheesy

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by heisenbergheise(m): 11:27am On Aug 21, 2017
Ok
Re: Why You Should Get Married by baby124: 11:29am On Aug 21, 2017
Lol. Not necessarily true. Marriage also does not work for everyone.

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Nobody: 11:29am On Aug 21, 2017
Why you should not get married..

You can watch whatever TV channel you like, without arguments. 

There are fewer important birthdays and no anniversaries to accidentally forget. 

You can throw your dirty socks on the floor where they belong. 

There is no fight for remote control ownership. 

You don't have to buy Valentines/birthday/Mother's day cards. 

You always know exactly how much is in your checking account. 

There are no unexplainable moods to contend with. 

You have much more freedom to choose. 

You never have to say where you've been or what you've been doing. 

You don't have to worry about what sort of food to buy and you can eat whatever you want, whenever you choose. 

You can listen to your favorite tunes in the house or in the car and no one fiddles with the station or complains about your taste in music. 

You don't have to pretend that you're interested in what happened to your spouse at work today. 

There is a lot less drama in your life! 

You don't have to listen to your spouse pant every time their favorite actor or musician comes on the television. 

When you're single you get to hold the actual credit card and not just the bill.

Team single cool
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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Nobody: 11:29am On Aug 21, 2017
Op, come force me marry na. grin grin
Re: Why You Should Get Married by digoster(m): 11:29am On Aug 21, 2017
Get money and get married.
Finish

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Jeezuzpick(m): 11:29am On Aug 21, 2017
Somebody will soon come up with "Why you should stay single".

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by babyfaceafrica: 11:30am On Aug 21, 2017
I disagree

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by lycan2: 11:30am On Aug 21, 2017
all this for where, with the men and women of our generation mttchheewwwwwww

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by sekem: 11:30am On Aug 21, 2017
Not enough reason

Expect my response: Why You Should Never Get Married As A Man

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Oyindidi(f): 11:30am On Aug 21, 2017
shocked

Think again writer, there are many sex starved women out there. Single are more likely to get laid more than married couples. Marriage can be anything so think twice before you take a leap.

All this online theories can't save your marriage when you're faced with reality. Enter into marriage with a open mind.

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Siddeek: 11:31am On Aug 21, 2017
I need to get married asap
But my little income always discouraged me.

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Buharison: 11:31am On Aug 21, 2017
Because buhari has come back
Sai baba
Sai buhari
Re: Why You Should Get Married by Abudu2000(m): 11:31am On Aug 21, 2017
Nn
Re: Why You Should Get Married by Nobody: 11:31am On Aug 21, 2017
This post is senseless in painful proportions! Enriches you, stable sex life, low risk of STDs blah blah blah....

End up with someone whose community came together to curse and you will hate this thing called Marriage.

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by cocoberry(f): 11:31am On Aug 21, 2017
grin
Re: Why You Should Get Married by Nobody: 11:32am On Aug 21, 2017
Abeg I confuse I nor know what to write. Who get that pic when two guys dey smoke weed

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by deepwater(f): 11:32am On Aug 21, 2017
For this buhari economy??

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by korrikon: 11:32am On Aug 21, 2017
Not interested

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by exlogx(m): 11:33am On Aug 21, 2017
Nairalandsss:


2.You face low mortality risk: It has been proven by scientific research that married people are likely to have a longer life, as compared to single people. So if you love your life and want to lead a longer one, then marriage will affect your longevity directly. When you try and study this logic properly, you realize that marriage is the focal point to better health and wellness; as a result of which, people end up living longer.


Maybe for women but it think its the opposite for men.

ever wondered why Women live longer than men?

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 21, 2017
Loooool esp @no 2.
Like seriously, all those points can be achieved without marriage, many of them are even better achieved outside cos these days, getting a level headed partner is as difficult as touching your left elbow with your left hand.
Marriage is a phase of life, for those who want to go into it.

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Re: Why You Should Get Married by MrHighSea: 11:35am On Aug 21, 2017
Do u mind having Patience ozorkwo and Aki n Pawpaw kind of MIL and kids in ur mind @op

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