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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by RZArecta(m): 7:49pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me


Stoop to conquer bro, call, collect your property then dine with a very long spoon cool

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by akoredebadru(m): 7:49pm On Aug 24, 2017
nawaooo pls who owns d aos?
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by patoski39(m): 7:50pm On Aug 24, 2017
motun2017:
as i read dz story now. fear just catch me. really? sister?
.. me too
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by helovesme(f): 7:52pm On Aug 24, 2017
Omron

She might have destroyed the certificates and photo album or thrown them somewhere that's not traceable. If not, she would have returned them by now.

For her to have gone to the extent of destroying your wife and baby's dresses, then she has destroyed those certificates.

I will suggest you keep off totally from that your sister. She has got deep seated mental issues.

Calling her won't make her return certificates that she has burnt to ashes.

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by goshen26: 7:52pm On Aug 24, 2017
Hmm

Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by IDKadiri: 7:52pm On Aug 24, 2017
TRUE TALK, JUST DO ALL YOU CAN TO APPEASE HER SO SHE CAN RELEASE YOUR WIFE'S DOCUMENTS. AFTER THAT IS DONE I SUGGEST YOU LOCK UP AND STOP CALLING HER.. LET HER BE THEN BE THE ONE TO CALL YOU WHENEVER SHE WANTS. I RECALL YOU STORY MAN, SAD ONE.

sybarite7:
I CLEARLY REMEMBER THIS TOPIC.
MY ADVICE IS ,YOU SHOULD CALL YOUR SISTER AND APOLOGIZE AND PROBABLY BROKER PEACE ,SO THAT YOU CAN GET YOUR STUFFS BACK...
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by eyinjuege: 7:52pm On Aug 24, 2017
I'm sorry to tell you young man, but all your valuables and documents have been destroyed.

She doesn't have them again, and even if she apologises, cannot return what she's burnt already.

My advice is for you to avoid her. She will be the death of yourself or any of your children one day. Run away from her. She is the devil's master
Try and get duplicates of those things destroyed, let your wife go to her school and see what can be done regarding her certificates, maybe they can do a statement for her or something. Wedding pics, go to your photographer, and see what can be duplicated.
I hope you've moved out of the family house to your own place? I know it's not your mother's fault, but she did fail to protect your family from her mad daughter.

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 7:53pm On Aug 24, 2017
[quote author=omron post=59778611][/quote]


The problem with our sisters is they don't know how to treat last borns even when they become of age. My brother, find money, God will help you, take your wife far away...She beating your wife is an insult to your family's image...she battered your family's image before your wife...Leave her, let the Lord deal with her in his own way...I read the first thread when you raised this concern, i'm sorry about this occurrences. I pray the Lord heals your wife of the trauma and God give you both a reason to smile..I'm also a last born too, and get treated badly, many times i swallow the poor treatment..Like you, i moved far from them and only appear once in a while this way, you gain respect..Don't forget, familiarity is a breeding ground for disrespect, cut your unhindered access to yourself and maintain a low key...God will help you.

The day she tore those clothes is the day she destroyed herself, if she doesn't apologize, and even if she apologizes, she should expect trouble...you just move far when the trouble comes hunting for her..

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by san316(m): 7:53pm On Aug 24, 2017
She's your elder sister, call her if you believe she is remorseful.






Take it as an opportunity to deal with her!!! As a man. Get close and take something valuable from her. Use it as ransom for your wife's certificate.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by muller101(m): 7:53pm On Aug 24, 2017
Tell ur wife to beat her black and blue

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by wakaman: 7:54pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me



Brov!
Call her! Don't flog the past issue, ask for certificate and all, never ask anyone to apologise! Forgive but don't forget, free your blood. Better for you and all.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by twilliamx: 7:54pm On Aug 24, 2017
Leave your family house
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 24, 2017
I remember this story very well..


Bros just call her bro..

And watch how she will beg u.. For the sake of your belongings with her..
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by favourmic(m): 7:56pm On Aug 24, 2017
How can my elder sister beat my wife? Forget it i swear down evil we enter that day...... may be your wife disrespect her
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by joyjoomla(m): 7:56pm On Aug 24, 2017
Please call her., not because you are weak or don't know what is right but for you to just have your way and get your wife certificate back. Just pretend and act like a foolish man to get what you want.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by winkmart: 7:56pm On Aug 24, 2017
Don't you people have elders in your family? What if there is no phone in the world
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by YelloweWest: 7:57pm On Aug 24, 2017
freecocoa:
OP I don't know about you o, but if my sibling tore my baby's clothes while we were quarreling or whatever, I'll never forgive them, quote me anywhere.
She beat up his wife that's even worse!
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by bubsykay: 7:57pm On Aug 24, 2017
I believe the major problem here is the fact that you are living in your father's house. Your sister had the boldness to get into your room to do whatever she did because its her father's house, just the same way its yours. She will definitely come back to do worse because you cant stop her from coming. until you stop living there with your wife and son. She will respect you more when you stand up to your responsibilities as a man that you are............
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Bambela(m): 7:59pm On Aug 24, 2017
pato405:
Dude, I recollect this story and I'm shocked you are still at daggers drawn with this troublesome sister of yours.

My advise: NEVER succumb to oppression! else you'll kill the man in you.

She ought to call you, NOT the other way round. I'm just wondering, if you call first, what exactly will be your line of discourse? " I called to plead with you to kindly apologize to me" undecided or Please beg me na? I Don't get it. angry Is there no man in you at all.

If at all you have any reason to call, an sms will do giving her a STRONG ULTIMATUM to release the certificate she is confiscating on/before (state deadline) else you'll involve the police. Some of the women we have around us nowadays, if you don't sternly handle their insolence, you'll have yourself to blame. The moment they see you as a sissy, they'll have no regard or respect for you and turn you into a vegetable.

Let your wife take up the issue of seized certificate with her and give her ALL the support you can - except if she wants us to believe that she doesn't need her certificates anymore. If possible, visit a police station, tender your grievance with evidences (since all effort to resolve it amicably through the family way has been thwarted). I remember you took pictures, present them as evidences. You may not lock her up (just based on family values/sentiments - but I think she deserves to be locked up if you ask me, even if it's just for a day or 2). You really need to drill some fear into this sister of yours.

I appreciate every gentle man, but sometimes people take gentility for cowardice. I'll always advise is that, for such people who take quietness for weakness, teach them a lesson that for every coin, there are two sides - you can be a gentle man and at the same time, blow hot when the need arises - Not until this point is proven, they will not restrain their craze when they meet you o!
Your advice is evil and against morality. this is family and there is no roof without leakage. Though you sound strong, I know you can not take such decision in your family. Such seed in family is too bad because it will affects generations upon generations. refrain from such advice.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by eyinjuege: 7:59pm On Aug 24, 2017
muller101:
Tell ur wife to beat her black and blue

Hehehehehe....

You never jam.

Abi she will beat the wife green and yellow?

By the time she finishes with the Ops wife, even us on NL won't know whether to send her to Igbobi or UCH cheesy

Such people are better avoided. They are destroyers, she can stab anyone at anytime.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by freecocoa(f): 8:00pm On Aug 24, 2017
YelloweWest:

She beat up his wife that's even worse!
Not to me o, cos I don't know what may have transpired between both women, but what does she have against the innocent baby? That for me, is the height of it.

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by peacemara54(m): 8:01pm On Aug 24, 2017
This doesnt sound well
Check my signature if you need
Pure honey
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by cr7rooney10(m): 8:02pm On Aug 24, 2017
Y ar living with u sister and u ar a family man
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by LordOfNaira: 8:02pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me



That sister of yours must have anger issues. She must have destroyed the documents you are asking her to return. I don't really know what to write. I have lived long enough in Africa to know that every family has people they look up to as elders. Why can't you try seeking out the eldest or most highly regarded man or woman in your family and ask for their counsel.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by MCzubby247(m): 8:02pm On Aug 24, 2017
pato405:
Dude, I recollect this story and I'm shocked you are still at daggers drawn with this troublesome sister of yours.

My advise: NEVER succumb to oppression! else you'll kill the man in you.

She ought to call you, NOT the other way round. I'm just wondering, if you call first, what exactly will be your line of discourse? " I called to plead with you to kindly apologize to me" undecided or Please beg me na? I Don't get it. angry Is there no man in you at all.

If at all you have any reason to call, an sms will do giving her a STRONG ULTIMATUM to release the certificate she is confiscating on/before (state deadline) else you'll involve the police. Some of the women we have around us nowadays, if you don't sternly handle their insolence, you'll have yourself to blame. The moment they see you as a sissy, they'll have no regard or respect for you and turn you into a vegetable.

Let your wife take up the issue of seized certificate with her and give her ALL the support you can - except if she wants us to believe that she doesn't need her certificates anymore. If possible, visit a police station, tender your grievance with evidences (since all effort to resolve it amicably through the family way has been thwarted). I remember you took pictures, present them as evidences. You may not lock her up (just based on family values/sentiments - but I think she deserves to be locked up if you ask me, even if it's just for a day or 2). You really need to drill some fear into this sister of yours.

I appreciate every gentle man, but sometimes people take gentility for cowardice. I'll always advise is that, for such people who take quietness for weakness, teach them a lesson that for every coin, there are two sides - you can be a gentle man and at the same time, blow hot when the need arises - Not until this point is proven, they will not restrain their craze when they meet you o!
Well said,
Man with wisdom, I like men in suit who understands Tue street as well.

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by fannybaby(f): 8:03pm On Aug 24, 2017
things some women go through all in the name of marriage cheesy cheesy cheesy

staying in their husband's family house cheesy cheesy
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by eyinjuege: 8:03pm On Aug 24, 2017
YelloweWest:

She beat up his wife that's even worse!

Thats not worse o.
Let's even assume the wife and her had an issue together so it's a case of 2 fighting.
What is the innocent baby's own in this matter? Her nephew o!.
That kind of person can kill even the baby without remorse, just to punish her brother and his wife

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by okenwaa(m): 8:03pm On Aug 24, 2017
Make ur sis go marry joor.......she no go like dey her husband house too


Dey chop anoda woman food.

Family comes 1st and d@'s ur immediate nuclear family.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by tellwisdom: 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2017
Foolish boi...Even my most respected sister can't look at my face to scold me let alone seize my belongings; and im the last born of my family. She had done all she could to tame me but na lie...I pass them all and i proved it.

Woman carry your documents and shouted at you and you came here seeking advise. woman for that matter. Foolish boi wey never reach marry carry woman put for house dey succk her breasst. How will you even have sense when all you do is press your wife's breast and yansh every morning before work?? ... sense fall on u angry

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Wis1(m): 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2017
Don't call her, just let her be! She is forgetting the fact that she's a woman and her husband brother or sister can do the same to her. As for the certificate pls don't take it likely, go to the police and report the issue. The certificate is very important.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Slayer2: 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2017
I will commit murder if anyone touches my wife for no reason.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Eketem: 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2017
See my problem with Nigerians just complain complain and be pus-sy footing.

Clear criminal matter you people are putting sentiments.

She beat your wife stole her certificates instead of reporting to police for assault and theft you are begging three months later and waiting for who will blink first.

Make una continue

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