Evaberry:
You're just looking for attention

OrdercityWeb:

[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]

b0rn2fuck:
i have Bleep over 100 girls but i still settle with one which i have Bleep over 300 times and another over 80 times, the truth is you have never truly love them, once you found love and not lust, the sex become a secondary, i have to reduce the over 100 as i don't want to say double of it as your topic reach front. am now a good living person

biblegirl:
na wa o.abeg can we discuss something else in this country.guy run to God , romance ur bible n padlock that thing between ur legs till u re married n see d miracle that will await u on ur wedding night.

pcguru1:


sometimes has to do with Economic power, if the guy is ugly but paid up obviously you know the rest, then when it comes to settling down security is a more stronger choice than looks.

joeeee240:



YOU ARE MISSING THE POINT ON GUILT. YOU ARE NOW TALKING ABOUT CONSCIENCE AND THE SUBCONSCIOUS. THAT IS NOT MY POINT. IT'S NOT GUILT BECAUSE THERE'S NO SENSE OF "WRONG DOING" .THAT IS HE HAS SUBCONSCIOUSLY AND CONSCIOUSLY ACCEPTED THAT THERE'S NO ELEMENT OF WRONG DOING. ANOTHER POINT I WANT TO CORRECT YOU ON, OUR INNATE AND NATURAL DESIRES ARE OF A SEXUAL NATURE. IT IS HOWEVER "THE SOCIETY" INCLUDING RELIGION THAT HAS TRIED TO MAKE IT LOOK WRONG.


SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS STILL IMPORTANT .I SAID 4 OR 5 BECAUSE I DIDN'T WANT TO GIVE A PROBABILITY OF 4.6 OR 4.7 IN LIGHT OF ALL THOSE PROBLEMS, HAPPENING DURING MARRIAGE, THEY'LL HAVE TO COPE. BUT THIS YOUR ARGUMENT HAS TURNED FALLACIOUS BECAUSE WE ARE LOOKING AT ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL

OrdercityWeb:

What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]

Livefreeordieha:
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RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

kelzgie:

that's for you to know that sex ain't for the unmarried.. couples love each other more after sex... the reverse is the case for pimps

geunik:
The African mentality believe that girls must abstain from sex before marriage. Guys that feel that way consider girls to be loose once they had her and feel hatred for her. This hatred increase if it was just too easy.

OrdercityWeb:
Honestly you save yourself alot of stress when you abstain from sex b4 marriage.
Things like:
Guilt
Unwanted pregnancies
STDs
Lack of commitment
Possibility of cheating when married.
And many more. Youths learn to stay away from sex b4 marriage.
I have said my own

OrdercityWeb:

Lol you're a funny person. You successfully avoided my questions @the bolded portions. Lol can you remove the place of the conscience in the subject of guilt? Lol i see you don't want to go there.
You didn't want to give a probability? Lol
Probability comes in Mr when you're making predictions or speculations. So there is a possibility of you sleeping with more than 10 people just to find out "sexual compatibility" which can still be according to your words "COPE" with in the event of a disability in marriage.
You have successfully admitted it is not very important like oxygen that cannot be done without.
I have more questions but let me stop here and let you attend to the bolded portions that you succesfully evaded.

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

joeeee240:



CHAI. I JUST KNEW IT. YOU ARE NOT SMART. NOBODY IS REMOVING CONSCIENCE AND GUILT HERE. ONE THING WE CAN ALL AGREE ON IS THAT GUILT INVOLVES WRONG DOING. NOW WHAT I'M SAYING IS THAT, THERE'S NO WRONG DOING THAT HE FEELS HAS BEEN DONE. THE POINT IS THAT IT IS NOT WRONG DOING. HIS CASE IS A PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT AND NOT THAT OF GUILT.
YOU OBVIOUSLY ARE NOT EVEN SMART FOR THIS OTHER ONE ON PROBABILITY. SO I SHOULD SAY YOU MUST HAVE AT LEAST 4.6 OR 4.7 PARTNERS THAT'S I JUST SAID 4 OR 5

LASTLY STOP MAKING FALLACIES, THE ISSUE OF COPING COMES INTO PLAY IN TERMS OF PHYSICAL DISADVANTAGES AND AS YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE ALL THINGS ARE NOT EQUAL.
STICK WITH THE ISSUE NA IT'S LIKE SAYING HUMANS HAVE 2 EARS AND BECAUSE YOU WATCH A MEDICAL CHANNEL WHERE A BABY IS BORN WITH 3, YOU NOW BRING THAT INTO THE ARGUMENT

OrdercityWeb:

What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]

Rozaytee:
U truly need serious help...go and see a professional therapist

Randy91:


ROTFL

Rozaytee:
u never sleep

youngerikina40:
Bros u ave future nah

Ur mate are dere making it, u dey dere dey talk about kpash

kolaranking1:
Just the way you hate the porn ya watching after masturbating

OrdercityWeb:

Lol! You successfully evaded my questions again and cherry picked on a non-issue (conscience and guilt ) which you and i know they are in separable.
I repeat please answer these questions directly @the bloded portions.
You didn't want to give a probability? Lol
Probability comes in Mr when you're making predictions or speculations. So there is a possibility of you sleeping with more than 10 people just to find out "sexual compatibility" which can still be according to your words "COPE" with in the event of a disability in marriage.
You have successfully admitted it is not very important like oxygen that cannot be done without.
Lol! Fallacious? Why can't we look at things been "unequal", because there is a possibility of that right? i will appreciate it if you stop being evasive and answer the questions. Don't let's derail the discuss. Stick to the questions and the point I've raised. Thanks
I have more questions but let me stop here and let you attend to the bolded portions that you succesfully evaded.