OrdercityWeb:


Answer the questions now. Hahahahahah
Why are you avoiding answering them
Are condoms 100% safe? Yoi didn't answer that. You purposely evaded it.hahahahaha.
So what are you doing by using condoms?
Is it not avoiding unwanted pregnancies which is a responsibility of your action. Are you then reaponsible?
Answer the questioms na

OrdercityWeb:


Don't let me disturb your "sexual compatibility " testing brain too much as you can't even stand it.

OrdercityWeb:

Lol
Wrong analogy. "Shit eating" as nothing to do with this.

Answer this question. In relation to his comment.

joeeee240:



[s]HAHAHA YOU ARE MAD O. YOU ARE NOT GETTING THE POINT O. STD AND PREGNANCIES ARE RISKS WHICH ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT TO ME AS THEY ARE TO YOU BECAUSE WHAT I STAND TO GAIN AND BECAUSE THE RISKS ARE HIGHLY REDUCED. AVOIDING THE CONSEQUENCES OF MY ACTIONS? I HAVE BEEN SMART ENOUGH OF TO SHOW YOU OUR DISCONNECT AND THIS QUESTION PROVES IT. YOU CALL IT A CONSEQUENCE MAKING IT LOOK LIKE I'M DOING SOMETHING WRONG WHICH YOU'RE STILL TRYING TO MAKE A GUILT THING. I ON THE OTHER HAND SEE IT AS A VERY GOOD THING AND WHAT YOU CALL CONSEQUENCES I HAVE CALLED RISKS. SO YES I MUST AVOID RISKS

THIS IS ANOTHER FALLACY YOU'RE MAKING. IT'S VERY IMPORTANT. SO THE FACT THAT IT CAN BE COPED WITH ONLY IN INSTANCES OF PHYSICAL DISADVANTAGES AND THE REASON FOR THE COPING IS BECAUSE THE PERSON HAS NO CHOICE SO THIS SHOULD NOT EVEN BE BROUGHT UP. SO BECAUSE SOMETHING AS IMPORTANT CAN BE COPED WITH YOU SHOULD REMOVE IT. SO BECAUSE YOU FEEL IT'S NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IT SHOULD BE IGNORED. A TYRE IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF A CAR BUT REMOVE TYRES AND LET ME SEE HOW YOU'LL MOVE AND THIS ANALOGY BETRAYS THE IMPORTANCE OF SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY. WHICH IS AMONG THE TOP 2 . SOMEONE CAN COPE WITHOUT 2 HANDS. PLEASE BEFORE YOU SLEEP TELL GOD TO REMOVE YOUR HANDS SINCE YOU CAN "COPE" WITHOUT THEM. YOU CLEARLY DON'T HAVE SENSE O I SWEAR. WHAT TYPE OF FOOLISH ARGUMENT ARE YOU MAKING? AND FOR YOUR INFORMATION THERE'S NO DECIDING FACTOR BUT FACTORS.



READ PROPERLY I DIDN'T SAY THAT'S WHAT YOU SAID. I SAID IT'S OF LESS IMPORTANCE TO YOU WHICH YOU HAVE CLEARLY AND FOOLISHLY STATED.


THE DOCTOR ISSUE IS NOT ABOUT IT'S LOGIC BUT THE REASONING BEHIND IT. IN YOUR FOOLISH BRAIN REPLACE THAT JUMP OF A PLANE WITH A MORE LOGICAL ONE ,THE MESSAGE AND MEANING DOES NOT CHANGE. GOD YOU ARE DAFT I MUST TELL YOU. SO YOUR PROBLEM NOW IS NOT THE MESSAGE PASSED BUT THE ANALOGY ARE YOU HIGH?

THIS YOUR STD QUESTION HAS BEEN ANSWERED BUT YOUR FOOLISHNESS WON'T LET YOU SEE THE ANSWER. THOSE THINGS YOU CALLED ARE RISKS O WHICH ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT AS THE BENEFITS AND WHICH HAVE BEEN GREATLY REDUCED. ABOUT SLEEPING WITH EVERYONE, GO AND READ MY PREVIOUS POSTS, I CAN'T KEEP REPEATING THE SAME THING TO AN EMPTY SKULL :[/s]-\

joeeee240:


IT'S THE PERFECT ANALOGY CUZ BOTH GUYS ARE DOING STUPID THINGS

joeeee240:


NOW YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SAY. YOU FOR ASK ANOTHER STUPID QUESTION NA

joeeee240:


[s]
JESUS!! ! MY GOD! THERE ARE TWO ACTIONS
PROTECTED SEX AND UNPROTECTED SEX. UNWANTED PREGNANCY IS A RESPONSIBILITY OF UNPROTECTED SEX. I'M AVOIDING UNWANTED PREGNANCIES AND STD BY HAVING PROTECTED SEX BECAUSE MY HEALTH IS MY RESPONSIBILITY. SO ACCORDING TO YOUR FOOLISHNESS, I'M RESPONSIBLE. JUSG TAKE A LOOK AT YOURSELF AND TELL ME IF YOU'RE NOT MAD LOL.. ..CHAI!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA NAIRALAND IS FINISHED. CONDOMS ARE NOT 100% SAFE BUT ABEG HOW IS THIS PROVING THAT WE SHOULD LEAVE SEX TILL MARRIAGE? [/s]

OrdercityWeb:

[s]You just keep avoiding my questions and keep giving analogy that doesn't relate to the point of discuss. Anyone can form an analogy to prove anything but the point is it should connect or relate to the point of discuss.
...
Now. Answer these questions, i am asking you for the sixth time now :
Are condoms 100% safe?
Why are you using condoms if you can't be responsible for the result of your action?
Since you know you can contact STDs and she could get pregnant. Does that not mean you are avoiding the result of your actions?
Are you going to sleep with everyone you meet to deyermine "sexual compatibility "?
At what age do you start to check for "sexual compatibility ". Should it be when you're ready to marry?
Since sexual compatibility ca change after marriage is it the most important factor?
..
I'll appreciate it if you answer these questions directly. Thanks! [/s]

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

Esepayan:



U should go out more rather than be in bed with ur girl all the time

OrdercityWeb:

Yet again you avoided the questions. Are condoms 100% safe? Yes or No.
Since you know that the result of sex before marriage is that yoi could contact STDs or pregnancy doesn't that make you irresponsible by engaging in it?
If there were no condoms what would you do?
Answer the questions directly. Thanks!

OrdercityWeb:

Yet again you avoided the questions. Are condoms 100% safe? Yes or No.
Since you know that the result of sex before marriage is that yoi could contact STDs or pregnancy doesn't that make you irresponsible by engaging in it?
If there were no condoms what would you do?
Answer the questions directly. Thanks!

OrdercityWeb:

Lol.. you have not answered the ones i gave you so i don't want to bother your "sexual compatibility " testing brain too much.
So don't think you're free

joeeee240:



YOU CLEARLY ARE DAFT BECAUSE IF YOU WANT DIRECT QUESTIONS THEN YOU'RE NOT A TRUE CHRISTIAN. YOUR JESUS SPOKE 100% IN PARABLES AND METAPHORS SO DON'T TELL ME TO ANSWER DIRECTLY. SMART PEOPLE GET THEIR ANSWERS EITHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY. EVERY ANALOGY THERE RELATES PERFECTLY AND FOR YOU TO SAY IT'S NOT IN LINE WITH THIS ARGUMENT PROVES HOW STUPID YOU ARE. IF YOU CAN'T DECIPHER WHAT I MEAN FROM THOSE ANALOGIES THEN I WAS RIGHT TO SAY I DON'T ENGAGE IN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS WITH APES CUZ YOU ARE FAR FROM INTELLIGENT YOU CLEARLY DON'T KNOW WHAT AN ANALOGY IS OR THE PURPOSE OF IT. READ WHAT I TOLD YOU AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND IT, IF YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND IT THEN YOU'RE FOOLISH AND ALL THIS IS OVER!

Lol
I never mentioned "Jjesus" in my discussions. Did i?
Hahahahaha.
You are not answering my questions. These are not the questions that require indirect answers. Just answer them the way they are asked.
No need to merrygoround and evade the point.
Is that clear Joeeee240

OrdercityWeb:

"Stupid" is subjective to him not your call. Eating shiit is not a subjective "stupidity ". It is accepeted as stupidity.
Oya say anothet one

joeeee240:

I'VE ANSWERED YOUR FOOLISH QUESTION. READ IT AGAIN
SO WHAT IF YOUR PARTNER YOU WANT TO MARRY HAS STD?

RETIREDMUMU:


can that solve the issue bro

joeeee240:


IT'S MY CALL AND IT'S STUPID. THEY'RE BOTH STUPID. MAYBE NOT EQUALLY STUPID BUT. CERTAINLY BOTH STUPID

joeeee240:


THIS YOUR QUESTIONS ARE THE DUMBEST I'VE SEEN .

OrdercityWeb:

Lol
I never mentioned "Jjesus" in my discussions. Did i?
Hahahahaha.
You are not answering my questions. These are not the questions that require indirect answers. Just answer them the way they are asked.
No need to merrygoround and evade the point.
Is that clear Joeeee240

Esepayan:


Self righteous maggot

OrdercityWeb:

But if they're "dumb". Why are you avoiding answering them?

OrdercityWeb:

How would the patner get the STD if you both never had sex before marriage with yourselves or anyone?
I can see you're very smart.hahahahaha

joeeee240:


[s]TRUST ME IF YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THE BIBLE AFTER READING THE GOSPLE AND REVELATION YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THIS. IT'S NOT ABOUT JESUS SWEETIE USE YOUR HEAD. IT'S ABOUT YOU BEING ABLE TO UNDERSTAND ALL HIS PARABLES. YOUR QUESTIONS ARE JUST LIKE THAT OF THE PHARISEES WHICH CAN ALSO REQUIRE AN INDIRECT QUESTION IT'S AN ANALOGY, YOU GET THE MEANING OR YOU DON'T[/s]

OrdercityWeb:

Lol.
Yes its your call. But it's still a subjective call.
Oya say another one.
They are being wise by not "using" girls in the name of "sexual compatibility " when they know they are not even ready to marry anytime soon.
Oya say another one.

joeeee240:


SO YOU'RE SAYING A VIRGIN SHOULD MARRY A VIRGIN? AND WHAT OF THOSE GOTTEN FROM OUTSIDE SEX?

You see this is your problem. It is called STI (SEXUALLY transmissted infections)
I know you're very smart enough to have known that. Right?
Hahahahahahaha

OrdercityWeb:

Answer the question na
Did i say that I'm "rightheous anywhere? Hahahahag

joeeee240:


[s]
THAT'S WHY I SAID NOT EQUALLY STUPID BUT BOTH STUPID

THEY'RE NOT USING GIRLS TO TEST SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY. YOU FIND SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY AFTER A FEW OR MANY GIRLS. DON'T MIX IT UP[/s]

pcguru1:


I was curious because ideally NL should change the font to plain one, must be a system font or something, was just curious.

OrdercityWeb:

What as Jjesus got to do with this conversation?
What as parables and all that you're mentioning as to do with this disscssion?
...
Now you mentioned Jjesus and parables
Do you know Jjesus spoke directly to his disciples and spoke in parables to the people because they "hear but do not understand "(foolish)?
So are you directly saying you're incapable of answering a question directly? Hahahahah

Esepayan:


Condom is very safe and humans must have sex so forget religion or whatever we all love sex
Just in nigeria people are so religious and self righteous and like to pretend
Its like asking if u wear seatbelts u wont die when there is an accident
Condom reduces chances of std

OrdercityWeb:

You see this is your problem. It is called STI (SEXUALLY transmissted infections)
I know you're very smart enough to have known that. Right?
Hahahahahahaha