Nwaoma198:
400k every month okay, Remove ur tithe,house rent,Utility bills, money for ur parents and siblings and tell how much is left before I will come with you

9jayes:

All those bills have been paid in advance

Nwaoma198:
Story I can marry a man 35k salary earner but one thing I understand in marriage is planning and management.

DouglasH92:


Rubbish. If your man was intelligent, he wouldn't propose to you with his current financial state.

We aren't talking about dating, we are talking about marriage. How long would you have to manage his 35,000 salary before he attains his ambitious goals? What kind of house can he afford with such money? Let's face it, you both would be living a penurious and poverty stricken lifestyle. Most of your needs wouldn't be met. How about children? Would you wait till he becomes financially successful before you have children?

Please be honest and realistic and stop trying to sound like you are a "nice" lady.

refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

9jayes:

All those bills have been paid in advance

Nwaoma198:
Story I can marry a man 35k salary earner but one thing I understand in marriage is planning and management.

9jayes:

Babe come with me

9jayes:

I gat money babe

refiner:

Then ur mom must not be a nigerian...or else she is a hoe too..

Nwaoma198:

refiner:

Then ur mom must not be a nigerian...or else she is a hoe too..

9jayes:

Don't be shy

Nwaoma198:
Shy about what?

falconey:




Our gateman and private driver earn less with families and they are living.

secondly, seems you are outdated , the standard has changed a bit, anyone could be a primary provider now.

rosalieene:

Epic reply

9jayes:

Lets make it work, I can smell twins in you

falconey:




My mum is not of this generation, nothing like "hoes" during her time. I was told it was a taboo then and curse will be upon any single girl who hoe. To round it up my dad met her a flower.

vivie01:


Oga, why are you taking medicine for another person's headache? A question was asked, I answered, I didnt speak for you, i speak for myself. If you are not okay with it or you are so myopic in your thinking towards issues of life, you know what to do - skip or jump pass.
Dont quote my mention again o.

DouglasH92:


What kind of life are they living though? Is it a lifestyle you'd wish for your sister?

In every relationship, the man is the leader and hence has the responsibility as the breadwinner.. Forget all this western neo feminist nonsense. Let's face the reality we experience in Nigeria. In Nigeria, every woman expects their husbands to be able to provide for them and their family. No woman would be happy being the one feeding and providing for the family especially as a new wife. No woman would respect a man who she provides for. It's terribly emasculating. Why marry when you know you can't provide for your family? Why marry when you know you will be surrendering responsibility to your wife? And what kind of mumu woman marries such a man anyways?

Nwaoma198:
Just twins I want 6 once

rosalieene:

SMH

Is that a narrative or are you vexed about how I exposed ur tricks used in deceiving naive girls

You better repent bcoz I have come to realize that pervs and guys who derive pleasure in sleeping with everything on skirt don't live long.

rosalieene:

That still doesn't give you the right to call anyone a hoe.

Ur mom was met a flower, so, will ur wife also meet you as a flower too?

If you are not innocent, then don't judge others.

rosalieene:

That still doesn't give you the right to call anyone a hoe.

Ur mom was met a flower, so, will ur wife also meet you as a flower too?

If you are not innocent, then don't judge others.

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

cc Refiner sekxy bibijay123 queencalipso lalasticlala

falconey:




Save me time for your jibby jabbers, clouded by misguided impression. This isn't a marriage seminar.

You must be the dumbest man on earth if you think everyone believe in the concept of money is equivalent to good living. Not everyone wish to be rich. We derive happiness from different conducts.

You need to explore and read more, stop postulating basic knowledge like it's rocket science.

SalomonKane:
The reply from this set of ladies show how shallow they are and also show why many of them will end up being unmarried at 40.

falconey:




You are becoming extremely nice , do you have any intention of contesting for miss nairaland? be it as it may.

I call it as I see it, Just because I am a hypocrite doesn't make my notion void. Besides much emphasis is placed on a girl's flower cus it forms part of her value to the world.