rayralph:


I clearly understand your point of view!!!

The irony is just that they earn that amount as salary BUT it is important to note that most of them have side hustles which is a contributing factor as to why they are not usually punctual at work.

segunojo866:
what concerns me with God and his stupid carpenter son Jesus Christ. Am an atheist

omoharry:
really?

segunojo866:
ignorance, firstly am average i can proudly say i earn over an100,000 monthly and am not suffering. Secondly what concerns me with God and his stupid carpenter son Jesus Christ. Am an atheist

castro316:


The funny part is that you don't even know the guy you are insulting like this. How do you know he is earning less than N35k. Look at how you are so quick to lay insults on someone? For the fact that you are independent doesn't make you mature from your rantings. That's why I don't like dating some girls biko kwanu. Nothing will happen to you if you had ignored him or counter his argument. That's my contribution 

DouglasH92:


You keep casting aspersions at me but you are obviously the one who those aspersions rightly describe. The only slowpoke here is you and you aren't just a slowpoke you are an ignorant and mediocre minded one. This question is not excluded to people who live in Northern Nigeria and when you give answers you shouldn't couch your answer in a Northern Nigerian context. We are talking generally, based on the economic situation of Nigeria and based on the kind of needs people in general have, irrespective of where they live and I say it again: 35,000 a month can't give anyone in Nigeria a comfortable lifestyle. 35,000 a month can't afford many needs a couple would have, talkless of their children.

You have lived in northern Nigeria and I've lived on the Island. It's clear we both have different perspectives on how we view comfortable living. But for godsake, there is more to life than living on breadcrumbs and managing in low standard environments. Open up your mind, aim for better and better will come to you. A man who earns 35000 a month should aim to better his life not aim for marriage. And you should stop making excuses for such an unwise man.

Of course you have work to do - Like going to another thread to post your ignorant comments. No wonder you are making excuses for financially mediocre lifestyles. When all you do from morning till night is comment on Nairaland. How can someone like you break free from your poverty mentality and financially inadequate lifestyle?

omoharry:
Thanks. what he said to me was pretty annoying. noted though.

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

35 is small man, go to winners chapel during shiloh and you will have mercy on some ladies, 40 and yet unmarried

castro316:


May Holy Spirit fall on you.

segunojo866:
spirits don't exist

castro316:

1. Then those who believe in spirituality, are they confused?
2. The Holy Spirit exists my brother
They do not exist in the 3 dimension space which you can see feel or touch but. Their effect can. Be manifested in 3d. That's if you understand what I just said

segunojo866:
spirits don't exist

segunojo866:
confused man. The atheist voice

castro316:
You know what I discovered about atheists. They are only good at trying to win arguments and dishing out insults. Your insults will not change the truth or change the sun from rising from the east

segunojo866:
May Jesus Christ suck your dick dry. The atheist voice

castro316:
May Jesus Christ visit you one day.

segunojo866:
I don't want a carpenter to visit my home. The atheist voice

castro316:

I pray that you will be apostle paul. After all he did he proclaimed Jesus the rest of his life. After God touched nebucadnezzr he confessed that God is the greatest

segunojo866:
it's irrational and also not logical to have this ideology of a supernatural force in the sky. So pathetic. The atheist voice

Nwaoma198:
Not thinking about anything broh

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

Lalas247:

lol it's true sha
Cause the way they are mentioning Brazilian hair
Like it's the hubby's duty to provide all that
Sad times

PrickGetSize:

Those things are what they tell you to make marriage look like treasure island, but they're all lies.

Marriage provides no immunity to STIs/STDs as I've seen and read married men and women dying of HIV.

Parenting has nothing to do with marriage. Take care of and make good provisions for your children and they'll grow like normal kids. Children need love and care, not papa and mama. Davido and Olamide are not married but their kids are not lacking.

Marriage is a scam!

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Evaberry:
...

It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

Coolgent:

My salary as of today Tuesday 05-09-2017 is 35k
* am married with one kid
* we are living in two bedroom flat
* am driving 2005 accord
* am currently building 3 bedrooms flat
* am taking care of my elderly parents

All i can say is dont depend on your salary alone the poorest people are salary earners no one among the world Millionaires/Billionaires is salary earner.
Hustle, Hustle & Hustle legitimately.

Burgerlomo:


Na peeps like una dey breed somebody like Evans

Nwaoma198:
Is Evans not better than you?

Burgerlomo:


Trust me we are not in the same category because I earn every damn penny of my money in a legitimate ways, so therefore the motherfucker son of a gun can never be better than me in any way.