rosalieene:


Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

Temmyladey074:
NO
I CAN'T NO
I CAN'T

freeman95:



U must be very obese lol

As everything about u is food even your profile

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Am looking for an igbo wife

Kenturkey048:
my guy no jonze abeg..make nobody deciev u with that love that matters thing..marriage on its own na institution wey consist of so many factors..love get only 15% to play other factors take up the rest 85%..money na d main love stimulant....

rosalieene:


so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill.

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs*

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

DouglasH92:


I'm not saying a man should be a millionaire before getting married, but he should at least be able to be financially stable enough to provide adequately for himself and his family. 35,000 a month is too small to cater for a single person let alone his wife and children.

Mariinee:
I'm not about to teach anything. It's because you have a baby sha. A grown up child would have been easier to manage.
But what about your wife?

Mariinee:
I'm not about to teach anything. It's because you have a baby sha. A grown up child would have been easier to manage.
But what about your wife?

islandmoon:


see, when you are already in poverty, its very hard to come out without a helping hand, 5 Naira for sending SMS can make you appear foolish!

rosalieene:


lol kinda true sha

money money money.

Mariinee:
Why is 35K too small to cater for a person who isn't interested in living a lavish life?
And he doesn't have to make a family immediately.

Kenturkey048:
with little enuf money to meet up the little essentials of live....the marriage go sweet like toxic and sugar...I go with love ..I also go with money...love and money very necessary in marriage

rosalieene:


SMH for you

don't you know I am the president of the nigerian virgins association


if you want to get word from my mouth, tell them say you no See Me.

islandmoon:


how much is a kilo of meat now? or eating meat is living lavish? how much is bean , rice to talk about basic!!

refiner:


Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing ...ladies be wise!

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

danniyal:
How many ladies are earning N35000 in Nigeria ?what if men decide not to marry ladies who earn less than 35k. A man has 2 hands, 2 legs & 2 eyes and you same. You expect a man to carry all your responsibilities and put on his head . you as d woman , can u carry all d responsibilities of a man and put on your head. 35k times 2 is 70k. Why can't you b thinking of contributing your own quota. Lazy women on social media. Common recharge card a man has to buy for you. Everything man... I tire for your lives

WeNoGoDie:


My question to all those ladies saying No will be, supposing they marry a man earning half a million per month and he per chance goes bankrupt or meets a misfortune that wipes his finances like accident that cripples him, what next?.... . that moment he can't even offer 10k monthly.

falconey:





Bloody moron_ visit the northern part of the country and see how people comfortably live with below 20k I'd school there. I don't have time for baseless arguments, I've got to work now.

omoharry:
true talk

omoharry:
and do you like the way they live up north? do they look healthy as compared to the children of the average class and upper class there..why bring your children into the world of hardship especially in Nigeria.If you were talking about marrying some with a lower income outside this country where all the system are functioning very well, such as good medical insurance, affordable food, free public school and so on..i will understand..but not in Nigeria where ordinary ten thousand Naira cannot even cover a child pampers and food without feeling the pinch..Pls let us be realistic..if they so love each other very much they can marry and plan their life very well...that will mean there wont be any kids till the both of them can afford like a 100-200k combined just to be modest.

omoharry:
and do you like the way they live up north? do they look healthy as compared to the children of the average class and upper class there..why bring your children into the world of hardship especially in Nigeria.If you were talking about marrying some with a lower income outside this country where all the system are functioning very well, such as good medical insurance, affordable food, free public school and so on..i will understand..but not in Nigeria where ordinary ten thousand Naira cannot even cover a child pampers and food without feeling the pinch..Pls let us be realistic..if they so love each other very much they can marry and plan their life very well...that will mean there wont be any kids till the both of them can afford like a 100-200k combined just to be modest.

vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

rosalieene:
How many guys buy this school of thought

Nma27:
Good luck with that.