rebirthforgoody:






Dear not everyone ok.if I accepted to marry you then I accepted to take the child as my child too.nothing I repeat nothing will make me treat him different.my children will also know him or her as my first child.

It is written in the scripture that a child born by another woman will do you no good.
Talk is cheap so you can say what you like.
Think before you talk

hartson:
easier say than done.you think is easy as you are stressing it here. You haven't been or seen extreme situation before.
Is written in the scripture that a child born by another woman will do you no good.
Talk is cheap so you can say what you like anyhow.
Think before you talk

That is me for you.if I can't accept the child then I can't marry you too.

Justeenaleo:

I am female.

I don't and I won't have much patience for someone who is capable of over pampering an SS2 student.

That's d situation I am. I close at work @5pm instead of getting home latest 6pm I hangout alone till 9:30pm before thinking of heading home. I need a girlfriend not for sex but for good moments.

989900:


I get your point (I've dated enough single mothers to last 3 lifetimes), but ur wife that you have all kids together with would do worse than that in some cases.
Women with attitude will always be women with attitude, regardless (I could say the same for men too).
There is no hard and fast rule about some things in life . . . . evaluation in choosing works better than stereotype.

BTW, every single case/situation has its own unique issues.
I've seen men leave their spouses they both have all their kids with pack up and leave, I've seen women do same too.

ATEOTD, life ain't math, we're all just trying to make the best out of our unique situations.

Even with your experience, there are still many single mothers out there if you absolutely have to pick one, that you will pick ahead of them single ladies without kids.

Nothing is set in stone.

Wow! who are you please?

Why not, I am a single dad too

No way...i cannot go and come and fit it.
It's the child/children that will bear the brunt

I am a single dad too,

HERSLEY:
not always

Hello hope ure still here