Hmm mm. I can't just Imagine a man catching his wife with only 2 call recordings and he wants a divorce . I just read a post on nairaland now. So what Wud you have done if you now caught her naked with another man just like I caught my husband with another woman naked oooo

And some men are here shouting send her away. Just because of recordings. I don't know why we women are always at the receiving end for any little mistakes.

Fine she flirt with a guy on phone which I don't support cos she is married. And some men are here supporting him to chase her out were as.,this same people were here telling me to forgive my husband. SO SO SAD

to even add insult upon my injury., my in laws came and was begging me to forgive their son. Whereas they chase my husband elder brothers wife away because the husband saw some flirt messages on her whatapp.

You know what guys.,i just ask them to forgive their daughter in law too if they want me to forgive their son because their son sins are more than that of their daughter in law..

That is life for you. What they cud not take, they want me to accept

The matter is still on ooooo. My husband is so apologetic but I still don't want anything to do with him for now, so that he can learn his lessons and stay faithful

Maybe time will heal my wound

Thanks you all for ur messages

This your tori get K-leg.

If you caught him with a woman, it is logical to say women are hypocrites too. Except, of course, ƴou caught him with a ɗonkey.

"You don't want anything to do with him"

Fine.


What should we do then?

What do you want?

What are you saying.. You want to start comparing your marriage to another person's own? My dear don't let that be the beginning of your marriage downfall you better face your marriage squarely and make the best out of it. Forgiving your husband was your choice, some other ladies might not. So which ever face your marriage and don't put the thread line of your marriage in someone else's own fate.

Thank God I mentioned it that day .

Are you the wife...?

The man may have other reasons but the recordings just added the needs spices!!!


let him do with his marriage whatever he feels...

A honestwife may be the promiscuous one.

Mologi:
Are you the wife...?

The man may have other reasons but the recordings just added the needs spices!!!


let him do with his marriage whatever he feels...

A honestwife may be the promiscuous one.

Why Wud I be the wife. In as much as I do not support what the wife did. But divorce is too harsh in this type of situation. Shud I have divorce my husband because I caught him Redhead. U guys Wud have scolded me more.

Babes, you will forgive him. You will lay with him again. You will live under the same roof again. You probably will have more kids together again. You will live old with him so long as he doesn't want to divorce you at any point of your lives together. He will cheat again. You will accept it as your faith. ... Awwww, that's what will happen. Abi you wanna wager that with me?

Yeah, unfair world

Oh, by the way, could you get something big outta him now that he's remorseful? Something material...let him pay as much as he could manage Pele

Wives this days claiming equal right with their husband. God bless our mothers. No wonder we are having a jaga jaga society.
When my husband cheat I will cheat too, I just laugh when I hear this crap...I blame them, when guys too will be over pampering them, claiming to be oyinbo.

The fact still remains, when you give woman too much liberty they tend to abuse it.

Thunder fire any woman that will follow me drag power or 50/50 right. 80/20 or you go to Bombay

Madam I know it's hard but you have to eventually forgive him and make your marriage work. At least do it for your kids (if you have any).

Mind you, if you go away another woman is on queue and will happily and sharply take your place. I can't say the same for you.

Sad as it sounds but it's a man's world.

Just so you know, your husband is a di.Ck

madridguy:
Wives this days claiming equal right with their husband. God bless our mothers. No wonder we are having a jaga jaga society.
When my husband cheat I will cheat too, I just laugh when I hear this crap...I blame them, when guys too will be over pampering them, claiming to be oyinbo.

The fact still remains, when you give woman too much liberty they tend to abuse it.

Thunder fire any woman that will follow me drag power or 50/50 right. 80/20 or you go to Bombay

I just day look you

WELCOME TO NAIRALAND.

I hope you've bought red pant and bra too?

Hope ayam safe

MhizzAJ:


I just day look you

You want to send your wife packing cos she was flirting.You were caught pants down with another woman and you are asking for forgiveness. Isn't this hypocisy?
So,cheating is now a headship thingy?
#UnaWehDone
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P.S.The marriage bed should be undefiled.
If you are tied of eating egusi soup with beef,then spice it up by using snail,ice fish or stockfish.Don't go looking for ogbono or ewedu to eat.

sisisioge:
Babes, you will forgive him. You will lay with him again. You will live under the same roof again. You probably will have more kids together again. You will live old with him so long as he doesn't want to divorce you at any point of your lives together. He will cheat again. You will accept it as your faith. ... Awwww, that's what will happen. Abi you wanna wager that with me?

Yeah, unfair world

Oh, by the way, could you get something big outta him now that he's remorseful? Something material...let him pay as much as he could manage Pele

you re so funny my dear sister. That is life o, we will still forgive them. That is how God created we women

men re hypocrites,including ur father.....

Honestwife don't mind them
It's their way, hypocrites

Janeyinspires:
You want to send your wife packing cos she was flirting.You were caught pants down with another woman and you are asking for forgiveness. Isn't this hypocisy?
So,cheating is now a headship thingy?
#UnaWehDone
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P.S.The marriage bed should be undefiled.
If you are tied of eating egusi soup with beef,then spice it up by using snail,ice fish or stockfish.Don't go looking for ogbono or ewedu to eat.

U don't get it

Am referring to a post I saw just now we're the guy said he want to chase the wife out because he saw recordings on her phone and I mentioned that men are hypocrite because of the advice they gave the guy.

@OP

Citing the caption of your thread heading, I wonder when your small-minded husband in particular and father and brother(s) in general become a standard for all men. Come on, not all men are irresponsible like those in your life.

#Notallmenarehypocrite

honestwife:


U don't get it

Am referring to a post I saw just now we're the guy said he want to chase the wife out because he saw recordings on her phone and I mentioned that men are hypocrite because of the advice they gave the guy.

I read both posts.It's for those advicing the guy to chase the flirting wife while asking that the guy who cheated should be forgiven.

Janeyinspires:



I read both posts.It's for those advicing the guy to chase the flirting wife while asking that the guy who cheated should be forgiven.

Abi my sister and they will come here to say it's a mens world as if we re nothing. SMH for them

LordIsaac:
If you caught him with a woman, it is logical to say women are hypocrites too. Except, of course, ƴou caught him with a ɗonkey.

yes because she took her marriage vow with the woman

PaperLace:
WELCOME TO NAIRALAND.

I hope you've bought red pant and bra too?

Men are hypocrites

Sorry dear, its been a man's world since when man dey use sand brush teeth!

honestwife:

U guys Wud have scolded me more.

That is what we are doing!!!

That's the hypocrisy of the patriarchal Nigerian society for you.

@Honestwife, It's a man's world.

LordKO:
@OP

Citing the caption of your thread heading, I wonder when your small-minded husband in particular and father and brother(s) in general become a standard for all men. Come on, not all men are irresponsible like those in your life.

#Notallmenarehypocrite

100% TRUTH .

That's just the way it is...things will never be the same, here in Nigeria or Africa.
The husband is always a "saint" who only fell into temptation and "sinned" while the woman is out of grace to even make a mistake cos she has to be the dutiful wife, obedient and must not complain cos that's what loyal wives do....

What a pity.