trublvr:
If a woman cares for you, she will seek ways to make an impact and add value to your life.
Iron sharpeneth iron.
Whether you marry her or not, she should be able to point to at least one thing she did in your life as a proof that she knew you.
Marriage is not a reward for dating or a consolation prize for long term loyalty.

Adaumunocha:
Lol... .. So what's ur input to the post?

Daddybright1986:


Naugty girl

Maxvasia:
Well to me its easy. The guy must have at aleast once during or before dating began, heard stuff like "when do u plan settling down" , and marriage related stuff. Also u see posts by her saying "congrats Eseosa. She is now a Mrs" .Especially before she says a yes to dating. Those amongst others are infallible signs. Its all about the values one holds which is manifested in the stuff she talk about and adores

jezuzboi:
Guys!!! Someone posted this on Facebook and it got to me. Now I’m looking for tips on HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN A WOMAN WHO WANTS YOU AND A WOMAN WHO WANTS MARRIAGE. Any ideas

YelloweWest:
It's too early for a stupid thread to hit front page nah!

A girl who want to marry u does not want u

What idiot comes up with this sort of shìt??

jezuzboi:

What about a girls who's
CLINGY,
JEALOUS,
SPEAKS WELL OF YOU BUT SPEAKS ILL OF OTHERS,
DOESN'T SEEM TO MIND YOUR MISBEHAVIOR, EVEN WHEN SHE'S NOT THE KINDA GIRL WHO LETS THING SLIDE EASILY

yet,

Doesn't share in ur passion,
Can't bring herself to do the things u primarily yearn for,
Lacks understanding of who u are and doesn't seem to bother finding out, yet gives u her own difinition and works with that difinition

Only seems to center on things that concern u both but scarcely puts interest in what seems to be more of ur thing than hers. I don't even know how to analyze again sef.

But ultimately, she envisions a future with u and her idea of actualizing that future is giving u the impression that she loves and cares, but is unable to give u what u want and unable to receive what u have to offer being that both of u are like a square peck in a round whole.

She has noticed this, just like the guy. But unlike the guy, she still pushes on. The big question now is WHY?

jezuzboi:

Can you please specify the age range that fall into this class (@ bolded)?

rlauncher:


You are naïve.

rlauncher:


You are naïve.

Danielmoore:


why do you ladies now make it look as if sex is only favourable for men

michael142:


A girl who wants you will be cheating on you with other guys. But a girl who wants marriage will be faithful

jezuzboi:

Faithfulness should be a virtue/lifestyle, not a marriage-securing undertaking...

A girl who's only faithful when she wants to marry isn't legit. Faithfulness ought to have been her way of life right from the onset.

So a girl messes around in relationships and gets faithful when she wants to settle down, and I'm supposed to clap for her?

All Naija babes of today are hoes

Not me!!!

jezuzboi:

It'll amaze u to know that not all girls reason this way. There are girls who just want to marry, that's all. They don't really care who they're getting married to. It could probably have something to to with the saying about the preferable and the available

How can u explain the fact that a girl keeps condoning a guy's trash when she's obviously not the kinda girl who does that? She knows he's not into her but she keeps pushing her way into his life and even pretends to be his ideal woman when the guy has told her in various ways that she isn't?

She says she can't share a guy with another girl, yet she doesn't seem to mind his other affair. All she tries to do is impose herself on the man and even tries to impose some of her responsibilities on him?

I just can't narrate it all. Maybe I'll share a link to the thread that has that whole story...

lenghtinny:
The funny thing is that they don't really care about marriage...
What matters to them is the paparazzi on the wedding day, what happens after that is not so important to them...

jezuzboi:

I can understand the part about a girl who wants commitment. But about the MARRIAGE FREAKS, they may do all those things just to get a proposal. It could all be pretence. What then happens when they hit the jackpot (marry)? Won't that be a catastrophe for the unfortunate man?