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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by decub: 6:39am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

This got me " I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego." But I think @thorpido has said all that I would have said!
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by joshrare(m): 6:42am On Sep 23, 2017
[quote author=jennyluv090 post=60687788]Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!![/quote

I'm sure your hubby is passing through a thing or two...but I know you are not satisfied with his sexual ability which of course has nothing to do with conception scientifically.. my dear peace is important in a home and as it seem now the sex is freaking you out... I will strongly recommend kedi health care's revive for him...thank me later

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 6:42am On Sep 23, 2017
Jenny Welcome to .com Add me on Whatsapp with 08103739506 Let's Talk
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Asebaba1(m): 6:44am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

It might be stress and your timing for sex, if he is tired after work make it early in the morning, secondly encourage him as if that 30seconds satisfies you, he will perform better, thirdly try and be on top or learn different styled that you can do it better and somehow make sure you take you bath before going to bed, use better perfume, constant sex improves man's performance.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bigpicture001: 6:46am On Sep 23, 2017
.....mayb you guyz have made d gravest mistake yet second only to genotype, hiv test..." the rhesus factors test" ig you guyz have had a child delivered without compatibility of both of you's rhesus factor..then the chances of a second delivery is 20%...just pray it's not this problem
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by vic155: 6:47am On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...

You are stewpid for telling this to a married woman.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Dmeji4444(m): 6:48am On Sep 23, 2017
Kimkardashain:
your husband is seeing another woman.
dip deeper ma'am

Home destroyer.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Ninethmare: 6:50am On Sep 23, 2017
vic155:

You are stewpid for telling this to a married woman.
You are more stupid to quote me
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Skmoda360(m): 6:58am On Sep 23, 2017
Kimkardashain:
your husband is seeing another woman. dip deeper ma'am
you be omo ale jati jati, without no question mark talking without no prove.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by billyG(m): 7:00am On Sep 23, 2017
dnt blame him some men get tired,weak & sleepy during nightfall but are strong during d day.sexx also obeys law of diminishing return.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by YelloweWest: 7:04am On Sep 23, 2017
I wonder what will happen if a man says his wife can't stand sex with him for more than 30....

What will be your advise?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by FvckShiT(m): 7:04am On Sep 23, 2017
chronnister:

You don't need a prophet to tell you this
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I know you know it
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You wondering how I know it too
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It's kinda easy to spot with this comment
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But you wouldn't know
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You tot you've hidden it well
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Well the day you know your Stupidity is visible, will be the day you become smart
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But that day won't come you were born stupid and you will die Stupid


fúçkíñg tell that to yo pale pathetic pops

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Olusola147(m): 7:05am On Sep 23, 2017
muller101:
Look for a way and rape him
lol.....this one weak me��
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by YelloweWest: 7:06am On Sep 23, 2017
Skmoda360:

you be omo ale jati jati, without no question mark talking without no prove.
If it was a woman won't u say she is having an affair?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by passendi: 7:07am On Sep 23, 2017
He has diabetes that is too much sugar in his blood
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by melayemi: 7:07am On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...

Nigga you pathetic

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by emelda86(f): 7:08am On Sep 23, 2017
U guys need to talk,,,tell him in a way he won't
See it as an insult.... secondly have u heard of kunu aya? Its made up of dabino, ofio & coconut blend it together give him to drink u can drink it also then come back & thank me later.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bigsmoke2(m): 7:08am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
lace his drink with viagra an watch him turn into a sex crazed monster, , na u go beg for mercy last grin grin grin but I don't know though so you won't say I ruined your marriage

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by cheyi(m): 7:08am On Sep 23, 2017
Secretly mix flex herbal tea into his tea provided he doesn't have high blood pressure .if he initiates sex in 12hrs,know that he is not cheating,but if he doesn't, he sure has a mistress somewhere..
Continue with the flex tea everyday for him. He will be running after you.

My advise..

Ensure you dress sexy at home too. Stop tying wrapper ..wear bump shot,tone up ur skin a bit if you are not using a good cream,put on sexy night gowns.. Don't move back to the room except he tells you.respect his privacy..

I have successfully managed something similar in the past.. Im married too..

My number- oh eight oh nine nine nine nine five two four eight..... You have your own faults too...
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Skmoda360(m): 7:10am On Sep 23, 2017
YelloweWest:
If it was a woman won't u say she is having an affair?
Nah, i don't play blame game without no prove.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Sodia(m): 7:11am On Sep 23, 2017
all this sex shit tire me.. well m off to www.safaxnet.com.ng kindly check out its my blog,, thanks.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 7:11am On Sep 23, 2017
blackie01:


So women don't deserve sexual satisfaction? A woman who doesn't have orgasm from her man will always give you attitude.

Are you a woman ?


Let the woman talk for themselves....do what men are meant to do...women deserve sexual satisfaction but without money your sexual satisfaction isn't worth it


Take it from an older dude that have seen it

Don't brag of lasting 30 minutes on Toto
Brag of having lasting money in your account


That's what women wants and prefer
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Validated: 7:12am On Sep 23, 2017
I know you have read all the advices above, but I have just three to offer:
1. Most women lose their senses of sexual appeal immediately they get married, worst after they put to birth. They forget how they took care of themselves when they were courting their spouses. Some lack basic hygiene. If this is your case, change! Always take a good bath and make sure your underneath is well maintained, get yourself good rollon for your armpit snd posssibly a good fragrance. Do not go to your husband 'dirty', he will just pity you with a 30 seconds sex.
2. Insist on sleeping in the same room with him. Again, cultivate the habit of eating together. Most women serve their husbands food and just walk away. No girl does that to men they are after. You are already married, so what is it you cannot share? At dinner.share your frustration with him, not with fighting gesture, but as a loving wife. Tell him you desire him. Be outspoken, afterall he is your husband. Ask him fir his honest advice on how you appear to be failing him. Based on your story, this issues started after your child birth, so deal with it together. To me he dies not have a oersonsl problem, but he has with you and thinks you know what is the issue.
3. You tried by initiating sex and he gives you just 30 seconds. Please, beyond initiating it, try and put him in the mood for longtime sex. Have you ever tried generating the pre-intimacy? Do you touch his sensitive parts? A girl somewhere may be giving your husband 'mouth action' while you are competing by laying like a log of wood!What would you expect? Please, sorry am being hard on you but it is a wake up call on you. Hold your husband, kiss him, make him ejaculate outside of you fiirst put him on for a long lasting love making. Penetration should follow naturally. If you are still the church girl type, please, upgrade. Even your phone has not remained the same all along. Mount him and give him real fucking. He is your husband.

Please if this fails, then see a doctor!!!

Best of luck daring!!!
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by aputel: 7:12am On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...

Chai!!! Bad guy . Remember in everything you do Diaris God o, all this leg you are sharing, diaris God o
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Krixon: 7:13am On Sep 23, 2017
that comment is very wrong. You nor try...
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by 1daboi: 7:13am On Sep 23, 2017
AuroraB:
Tell him NEVER to blame you to massage a non-existent ego. If he as much as cough your name to people, go ballistic on his stewpeed behind angry
What nonsense undecided
are u married ma'am ?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Skmoda360(m): 7:13am On Sep 23, 2017
UDOKABESTLUV:
Jenny Welcome to .com Add me on Whatsapp with 08103739506 Let's Talk
you wanna do her hubby job shey?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 7:13am On Sep 23, 2017
sisisioge:



He was lying...they are mostly mouthy sloobs

Don't mind him...he made a fool if himself ...maybe he wants to impress us....is he living off a woman. That will want him to last time minutes...time that I would use to think better thing


10 mins is too much seff for a round ..am I acting porn
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Validated: 7:14am On Sep 23, 2017
I know you have read all the advices above, but I have just three to offer:
1. Most women lose their senses of sexual appeal immediately they get married, worst after they put to birth. They forget how they took care of themselves when they were courting their spouses. Some lack basic hygiene. If this is your case, change! Always take a good bath and make sure your underneath is well maintained, get yourself good roll on for your armpit snd posssibly a good fragrance. Do not go to your husband 'dirty', he will just pity you with a 30 seconds sex.
2. Insist on sleeping in the same room with him. Again, cultivate the habit of eating together. Most women serve their husbands food and just walk away. No girl does that to men they are after. You are already married, so what is it you cannot share? At dinner.share your frustration with him, not with fighting gesture, but as a loving wife. Tell him you desire him. Be outspoken, afterall he is your husband. Ask him for his honest advice on how you appear to be failing him. Based on your story, this issues started after your child birth, so deal with it together. To me he does not have a personsl problem, but he has with you and thinks you know what is the issue.
3. You tried by initiating sex and he gives you just 30 seconds. Please, beyond initiating it, try and put him in the mood for long lasting sex. Have you ever tried generating the pre-intimacy? Do you touch his sensitive parts? A girl somewhere may be giving your husband 'mouth action' while you are competing by laying like a log of wood! What would you expect? Sorry am being hard on you but it is a wake up call on you. Hold your husband, kiss him, make him ejaculate outside of you first put him on for a long lasting love making. Penetration should follow naturally. If you are still the church girl type, please, upgrade. Even your phone has not remained the same all along. Mount him and give him real fucking. He is your husband.

Please if these fail, then see a doctor!!!

Best of luck darling!!!
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by nobodysmanrob(m): 7:16am On Sep 23, 2017
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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Chukabiz1961(m): 7:17am On Sep 23, 2017
Are you the sloven type? if yes, try as much as possible to be clean. He will definitely come back to you.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Kimkardashain(f): 7:21am On Sep 23, 2017
Skmoda360:

you be omo ale jati jati, without no question mark talking without no prove.
i dnt understand yoruba. but if he's having quick ejaculation as others are claiming. y nt tell ur wife. two heads are beta dan one you knw?
wats d need of keeping it a secret. and y blame ur wife of nt been able to gve birth to anoda baby.
the options are there. well unless the woman aint telling the truth.


and pls nxt time u wanna quote me. pls i beg u, speak english.

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