Just want Your opinions cos I dunno if my love life is on a normal trail

Yea I've had a couple of breakups tho but mostly online dates and the dudes that approach me physically I'm scared of daTing them or letting myself fall in love with them. . so logically I can say I've never been in love. . and it's getting to me in a way

I really want to know what it feels like to be in love and to be loved in return but so far i am scared of trying
IS THIS NORMAL?

Yeap
You are not alone sis

Love is a wonderful thing.

Fall in love maybe when you will get heartbroken or maybe not.

But they are somethings you can't run away from.


Single guys full NL too but be wise when you are falling making sure you fall for the right guy else you'll fall for a guy that will use and abandon you.

Its Not Normal o... Check My Signature. Thank Me Later

You're scared of being in love and getting into a relationship? You've not started learning yet. Life is all about taking risks, and learning from past experiences.

DeadRat:
Its Not Normal o... Check My Signature. Thank Me Later

Mr Deadrat how will a love story help? it's fiction to me

i don't know what wrong with girl

like dey don't know what they want

if a guy is nice and loving dey will soon cheat on him and finally get tired of him..


another bad guy dat treat dem like shit surprisingly, dey will be flocking around him





back to ur story......

love is a chance these time
u might meet bad one that want only ur body

and other cLINGy,OBBESSED,NICE one dat really loves you and still u will soon get tired of him

You just haven't met that person, scared or not, you will fall. Probs is if they don't love you the same just pray you can handle it.

No, its not normal, take life the way you see it, fall in love, get heartbroken, fall in love again but this time not too much, it makes you stronger emotionally. I have been heartbroken before but it didn't stop me from falling in love again.

Its normal dear with the rate at which people hurt others in the name of love

L3G3ND:

Mr Deadrat how will a love story help? it's fiction to me

yea true. But There Is Reality In Every Fiction

Sabrina18:
No, its not normal, take life the way you see it, fall in love, get heartbroken, fall in love again but this time not too much, it makes you stronger emotionally. I have been heartbroken before but it didn't stop me from falling in love again.

I beg to disagree oooo

It's just like you're saying one should always be negative minded in relationship, hence, soldier go, soldier come mindset

What's luv?

Nope, I guess

whatever you do with the love you should be mindful of

A girl getting scared of falling in love in Nigeria??

Not possible.!!

tosyne2much:
[i] I beg to disagree oooo


It's just like you're saying one should always be negative minded in relationship, therefore, soldier go, soldier come

I'm not saying you should be negative minded, but when your relationship ends, you just have to move on and yes its solder go, solder come, barrack still dey, am the barrack, I wont put my life on hold for anybody, call me egocentric, I don't care. I'd rather move on with my life than wallow in heartbreak.

generalbush:
A girl getting scared of falling in love in Nigeria??

Not possible.!!

and why is that?

L3G3ND:


and why is that?

Don't ask me. I won't grant you an answer.

Sabrina18:
I'm not saying you should be negative minded, but when your relationship ends, you just have to move on and yes its solder go, solder come, barrack still dey, am the barrack, I wont put my life on hold for anybody, call me egocentric, I don't care. I'd rather move on with my life than wallow in heartbreak.

It takes time to heal from breakups, hence, the phobia of getting into another one


I think that's the bone of contention here which the thread centers on

Thats the only thing that made me cry like

generalbush:


Don't ask me. I won't grant you an answer.

won't be wrong to assume that you just wasted your data posting something you can't give an answer to. . anyways it's fine

tosyne2much:
It takes time to heal from breakups, hence, the phobia of getting into another one


I think that's the bone of contention here which the thread centers on

I've not even had a real breakup that I can say I felt hurt by it..

makydebbie:
You're scared of being in love and getting into a relationship? You've not started learning yet. Life is all about taking risks, and learning from past experiences.

counselor Debbie numero uni!!! I hope you know some heartbreaks can last for almost a life time. lol

leathalbeast:
counselor Debbie numero uni!!! I hope you know some heartbreaks can last for almost a life time. lol

I know, but is sulking the best option instead of moving on?

tosyne2much:
It takes time to heal from breakups, hence, the phobia of getting into another one


I think that's the bone of contention here which the thread centers on

I don't like to dwell in the past and ex is in the past. Just one month is what I need to heal from heartbreak, if someone is not good enough for you or feels you are not good enough for them, why still love them? its just to move on.

Also am not emotional, I take life the way I see it, life is unfair yet I like to play a fair game.

L3G3ND:

I've not even had a real breakup that I can say I felt hurt by it..

Don't worry, sooner or later you will have such experience

It's not a curse or something, it's something virtually every man will experience at least once in his lifetime Though, you can be lucky sha

Sabrina18:
I don't like to dwell in the past and ex is in the past. Just one month is what I need to heal from heartbreak, if someone is not good enough for you or feels you are not good enough for them, why still love them? its just to move on.

Also am not emotional, I take life the way I see it, life is unfair yet I like to play a fair game.

Okay I grab

Skillful01
Been a long time

makydebbie:
I know, but is sulking the best option instead of moving on?

well no, that's why I think in a relationship, the brain's gotta do most of the job while the heart takes a back sit.

leathalbeast:
well no, that's why I think in a relationship, the brain's gotta do most of the job while the heart takes a back sit.

Unfortunately, the brain stops working when you fall in love.