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My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by massinola(m): 4:36pm On Oct 04, 2017
A young lady who found herself between the devil and the deep blue sea after her father threatened her for wanting to get married to a Christian man from Edo, has shared her story exclusively with NAIJ.com.

The Muslim lady identified simply as Adeola from Ilorin, Kwara state, who stated the odds and how far she has come to get to this point in her life also confessed to being raised in a polygamous home with her mother being the first wife.

Being the last child of her mother who had three children for her husband, Adeola whose father has other children from his other wives, considers herself to be a product of divorce as her mother single handedly raised her and her siblings. Her father neglected them while they lived with him and he did not bother to look out for them when they were no longer within his reach.

Being born into a Muslim family is starting to affect her chances of settling down according to her. She stopped practicing the religion the moment she left her father. She revealed she mingled with some Muslim guys before she started mixing with the Christians. Not being able to derive any satisfaction from the Muslim men around her made her find her present fiancé.

Read the full text below:
“Am a young lady who hails from ilorin,Kwara state.I was born into a Muslim and polygamous home,my mum is the first wife and we are just 3 in her hands and am the last born but my Father has children from other wives, Am in my early 20's, am a product of divorce Of marriage over 15yrs now and am set for my marriage as well.”
“I lived with my mother, she was the one who trained my elder brother and I from primary to secondary and even tertiary, my father doesn't show us any fatherly care even when we were still living with him,his mother and his other wives,thanks to his mother who was our grandmother, before my mum came from Lagos to take us ,he doesn't call us but few years now, he called maybe once in a year, its almost 6years that have seen him last.”
“Now been born into a Muslim family is now an hindrance in my settling down and this is the religion which I personally don't practice again as i used to since i left my hometown (my father's house)1999/2000.At times, when we got to Lagos,my brother and I do go to Nasfat,and also I do follow my friends to churches,I have been into relationships which I have just only 2 Muslim guys, the first one was married when I discovered I have to let go of him because he didn't tell me that he was married with kids, the second one was in an hurry to get married and we hardly see then due to distance and since then have been in relationship with Christians, but now, am ready to settle down with my fiance who is a Christian that hails from Uredo Local Government in Edo State, we have been together now for almost 2years ,my mum, brother and sister knows my fiance, but my elder sister do tell me and my elder brother not to bring Christian for her and my mum advised my fiance and I to be practicing Islamic religion because of my father which we didn't take serious.”
“My fiancé and I have been to 2/3 places both Christian and muslim to pray and check if we are good for each other, they were all saying,we are perfect match. The recent sallah,Sept 1st,2017 ,I took my fiance to one of my Uncle's place(my father's immediate brother) who is the chief Imam of his community, he also checked(using his own Islamic method) if me and my fiancé are perfect match, he also said we are good but the only problem is the religion aspect.”
“That if i should marry him now,I will become a Christian, that I still have to take my fiance to Ilorin since my father is still alive but before getting home he had called my dad to tell him, immediately we got home that night, I received my father's call yelling at me, saying different things, the worst of it all, he said I WILL REGRET IT,IF I SHOULD MARRY A CHRISTIAN, he called my elder sister and my elder brother also my mum, saying that same thing, now everyone is afraid of him because he is someone who doesn't care what happened, even if I die, he doesn't care because he has other children to look up to, and my fiance find it so difficult to change or convert to Muslim, he said his mum won't be happy besides he doesn't like the religion and we don't want to separate or go our different ways ,we find it so difficult to do, even me, I have a Muslim man who is ready to marry me but I don't love him.”

Adeola’s father has threatened her saying she would regret it if she goes ahead with the Christian man. This left the young lady in a fix as she does not know what to do again.
“Am confused ,don't know what to do, should I leave the man I love because of my father, what if I marry a Muslim and i see no peace there, or what if I marry the Christian and become one who is under Christ and with faith and prayer hoping no bad will befall on me. I need an advise from my fellow Nigerians.”

(Source: Facebook/Hollory Ardeola)

Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by temblor1(m): 4:41pm On Oct 04, 2017
As a christian, i wont advise you to do so.

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Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by madridguy(m): 4:42pm On Oct 04, 2017
Smh
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by IFNOTGOD(m): 4:45pm On Oct 04, 2017
TO ME prayer answers all things
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by selfmadeOLX(m): 4:49pm On Oct 04, 2017
Oya goan marry your father then undecided grin
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by SuperSuave3: 4:57pm On Oct 04, 2017
Ilorin pipu undecided
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by tartar9(m): 4:58pm On Oct 04, 2017
k
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by MhizzAJ(f): 5:52pm On Oct 04, 2017
The problems that religion will cause eh
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by Amberon11: 6:35pm On Oct 04, 2017
How is religion at fault here? Some of you just talk without thinking. This is the fault of her father.

When iPhones and Samsungs were exploding did you blame it on science?

MhizzAJ:
The problems that religion will cause eh

Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by GoodMuyis(m): 6:43pm On Oct 04, 2017
Ilorin again, Bukola Why
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by MhizzAJ(f): 7:07pm On Oct 04, 2017
Amberon11:
How is religion at fault here? Some of you just talk without thinking. This is the fault of her father.

When iPhones and Samsungs were exploding did you blame it on science?

The one that thinks before talking undecided

The Father is only threatening her daughter simply because the guy is a Christian...if he was a muslim guy...d father would ve agreed.

Everything still boils down to religion
Why re u even comparing science to religion
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by Martinez19(m): 7:24pm On Oct 04, 2017
Later now some people like butterflylion, felixomor and Oladeegbu will be asking me why do I bother even when I don't believe. Thunder fire them.

Cc. Dalaman, adepeter2027, hopefulLandlord, catfishbilly
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by felixomor: 7:28pm On Oct 04, 2017
Martinez19:
Later now some people like butterflylion, felixomor and Oladeegbu will be asking me why do I bother even when I don't believe. Thunder fire them.

Cc. Dalaman, adepeter2027, hopefulLandlord, catfishbilly

Sharrap.
The person talking here, your keyboard rant wont even kill a fly near her.

Stop justifying your Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by hopefulLandlord: 7:28pm On Oct 04, 2017
Martinez19:
Later now some people like butterfl.ylion, felixo.mor and Olade.egbu will be asking me why do I bother even when I don't believe. Thunder fire them.

Cc. Dalama.n, adepeter.2027, hopefulLan.dlord, catfishb.illy

you owe no one any explanation of why you bother bro

if they're sad about it, let them talk to their imaginary friend to make you stop

Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by hopefulLandlord: 7:30pm On Oct 04, 2017
Amberon11:
How is religion at fault here? Some of you just talk without thinking. This is the fault of her father.

When iPhones and Samsungs were exploding did you blame it on science?

This is a blatant case of psychological projection

You don't think before talking so you accuse people of same baselessly

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Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by hopefulLandlord: 7:32pm On Oct 04, 2017
MhizzAJ:

The one that thinks before talking undecided

The Father is only threatening her daughter simply because the guy is a Christian...if he was a muslim guy...d father would ve agreed.

Everything still boils down to religion
Why re u even comparing science to religion

I doubt Aberon read OP at all, probably just saw your post and flew off the handle
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by bloodofthelamb(m): 7:46pm On Oct 04, 2017
hopefulLandlord:


you owe no one any explanation of why you bother bro

if they're sad about it, let them talk to their imaginary friend to make you stop
I RATHER PRAY FOR YOU TO BE ENLIGHTENED TO BEHOLD CHRIST JESUS OUR SAVIOUR.
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by hopefulLandlord: 7:49pm On Oct 04, 2017
bloodofthelamb:
I RATHER PRAY FOR YOU TO BE ENLIGHTENED TO BEHOLD CHRIST JESUS OUR SAVIOUR.
go ahead, pray the prayer
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by obinna58(m): 7:58pm On Oct 04, 2017
Religion has eaten deep in people's brain, when the cerebral cortex is gone things like this would definitely starting happening grin
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by adepeter2027(m): 8:00pm On Oct 04, 2017
Religion battle sef
Causing problems even before the invention of God.
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by adepeter2027(m): 8:02pm On Oct 04, 2017
Amberon11:
How is religion at fault here? Some of you just talk without thinking. This is the fault of her father.

When iPhones and Samsungs were exploding did you blame it on science?

Your case is spiritual
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by adepeter2027(m): 8:05pm On Oct 04, 2017
Martinez19:
Later now some people like butterfl-ylion, felixo-mor and Oladee-gbu will be asking me why do I bother even when I don't believe. Thunder fire them.

Cc. Dalam-an, adepeter2-027, hopefulLandl+ord, catfishb-illy
So you take them serious?

Just free them
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by MhizzAJ(f): 8:16pm On Oct 04, 2017
hopefulLandlord:


I doubt Aberon read OP at all, probably just saw your post and flew off the handle


That's what he knows how to do best..He should keep flying off the handle...
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by Daeylar(f): 8:22pm On Oct 04, 2017
hopefulLandlord:


you owe no one any explanation of why you bother bro

if they're sad about it, let them talk to their imaginary friend to make you stop

Lol, this meme is mean grin
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by Blackfire(m): 8:23pm On Oct 04, 2017
Confusion, but it is not that hard
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by bloodofthelamb(m): 8:25pm On Oct 04, 2017
hopefulLandlord:
go ahead, pray the prayer
MY BLESSED HEAVENLY FATHER! IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS I DECLARE THAT YOU hopefulLandlord IS ENLIGHTENED IN YOUR MIND TO BEHOLD AND KNOW CHRIST THE LIVING WORD...AMEN...THANK YOU GOD FOR IT IS DONE! TO YOU BE ALL THE GLORY NOW AND FOREVER AMEN!
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by hopefulLandlord: 8:30pm On Oct 04, 2017
bloodofthelamb:
MY BLESSED HEAVENLY FATHER! IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS I DECLARE THAT YOU hopefulLandlord IS ENLIGHTENED IN YOUR MIND TO BEHOLD AND KNOW CHRIST THE LIVING WORD...AMEN...THANK YOU GOD FOR IT IS DONE! TO YOU BE ALL THE GLORY NOW AND FOREVER AMEN!
since you said "It is done", why am I still an atheist? why did your prayer fail?
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by adepeter2027(m): 8:31pm On Oct 04, 2017
bloodofthelamb:
MY BLESSED HEAVENLY FATHER! IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS I DECLARE THAT YOU hopefulLandlord IS ENLIGHTENED IN YOUR MIND TO BEHOLD AND KNOW CHRIST THE LIVING WORD...AMEN...THANK YOU GOD FOR IT IS DONE! TO YOU BE ALL THE GLORY NOW AND FOREVER AMEN!

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Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by bloodofthelamb(m): 8:49pm On Oct 04, 2017
hopefulLandlord:

since you said "It is done", why am I still an atheist? why did your prayer fail?
WAIT FOR IT...IN MY KINGDOM WE CALLETH THINGS THAT BE NOT AS THOUGH THEY WERE TO MAKE IT BE...LIKE PAUL YOU WILL BE CONVERTED TO THE GLORY OF GOD.
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by hopefulLandlord: 8:54pm On Oct 04, 2017
bloodofthelamb:
WAIT FOR IT...IN MY KINGDOM WE CALLETH THINGS THAT BE NOT AS THOUGH THEY WERE TO MAKE IT BE...LIKE PAUL YOU WILL BE CONVERTED TO THE GLORY OF GOD.

so your prayer has no time stamp, lol
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by Martinez19(m): 9:00pm On Oct 04, 2017
hopefulLandlord:


so your prayer has no time stamp, lol
just like prayer for miracles, his prayer has no timeline. It's always "someday it will happen.." as long as it is in the region of ambiguity, christians will profess miracles. There can never be a timeline.
Re: My Father Said I Would Regret It If I Dare Marry A Christian - Muslim Lady Cries by bloodofthelamb(m): 9:16pm On Oct 04, 2017
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