ayettymama:

THEN WHAT IS SHE DOIN THEN

chaaaaale ooo  

she popped to england and started with the wrong crew!!

where did she meet your friend?? south east??

see what my relatives are doin wit thier money!!!

if i find her i go beat her well well!!

sagluva:

i'm not trying to buy anybody's love. i did alot of those out of the kindness of my heart. in reality i'm naturally a giver even  with my family and friends. my boyfriend didnt ask me for anything. I did it because he told me that growing up he never received gifts just money so i wanted to make him feel happy thats all. i am not silly either if i feel liek your not treating me the way i want to at the moment, i wont keep doing things fOR U. NOBODY WILL EVER TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME. I have a good judge of character but ofcourse guys are fools and they do silly things, even though i know he loves me very much, i found out he randomly talks to some chicks on facebook so i decided i wont be doing anything for him. got him nothing on valentines day.
I dont think its wrong to give. i would only say its wrong if the person demands it. in a relationship, it should be 50?50

Pataki:

Now you are talking like a proper mama. Where in London are you from? East London?

It is not about mixing with the wrong crew. She found a man she loves and he loves her too. Even before he knew this was a lady with exceeding cash inflow.

So you are saying you cannot spend lavishly on a guy?

sagluva:

@ Pweety4me yea i think he really appreciates it because he always brings up how grateful he is. he never asked for the gifts. this post wasnt really to ask people to judge whether my boyfriend is using me or not, just wanted to see if its bad to spend on a guy in general

ayettymama:

fl i do see what u mean

but that is diff
casual gift buying is diff

buying your man a car, expensive wristwatch or payin his rent

is im sorri to say tryna buy his love

unless your selling them  

i find it disgusting when men scrub off women

*shivers at the thought*

sagluva:

My boyfriend didnt even know i had alot of money when he met me.  He's not broke. he is a college student so he cant afford to buy me half the stuff i buy him. it doesnt mean he doesnt buy me gifts. he does but they arent in the same price range but it doesnt matter to me because i think tis the thought that counts not the amount. A guy  can buy u alot of expensive things and still not  treat u right. it goes both ways. Why is it that women feel that when a man spends alot on them, the man loves him but if a girl does it, the guy is using her? a guy can also spend alot on u coz he wants intimacy

ayettymama:

let me tell u this

every woman- esp fashionable women like me

like to buy things for thier men

we all want to do it
watches lates silver cufflinks its something we love to do
but u have to wait for the right time to do it

ie when your married!!!!

theres nothing wrong with looking after your man

but not foolishly and not b4 your married!!

because

eni afe la mo, aoo meni to feni

u dont no what the guy is doin with u, u have no way of assesing whether hes using you, a responsible man should never take expensive things from u!!!

its not right!!- lets not get carried away by the proportion of broke men in london andbe sensible with our cash pls

recently someone inno got bumped out of £7000 thats not childs money

@poster u are not God u cannot be expert at judging character

be sensible with your money let the man lavish u! theres a reason for that custom!

ayettymama:

yes pataki u are bless

Pataki:

ayettymama:

are u his papa??

abi he no get papa??

fl exchange the word sweet for foolish

idc if she has the money a man isnt what she should be spending it on!!

look at it this way

if u gave your daughter alot of money would u want her to
A-spend it on sweets

B- spend it on a man

or C spend it on herself??

sagluva:

how come i cant qoute on here? i dont see the qoute button on my page
@fl gators i am 19 and he is 22

ayettymama:

jokes abeg

u neva answered my q's
this girl does she go to one of the top uni;s

or one of the yeye ones??

chic2pimp:

And what's this bull about a real man not accepting it?

chic2pimp:

There is absolutely nothing wrong in spending on your Man(especially if he deserves it).
In Naija they might but where I stay this kinda stuff happens all the time.
Men spend on women so why shouldn't women spend on men.
And what's this bull about a real man not accepting it?

Pataki:

Are you trying to source her out? Me mates and I, do not talk to yeye girls whatsoever.

She goes to a top Uni, lives in the West-endz of London in her own flat. Or is she your sister?