missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
,,,something they do every possible thing have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
something they do every possible thing to have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

kay29000:
Of course there will always be double standards. I remember a couple of years ago, I was in my room, nursing a hangover from the night before, and my friend's female friend came into the room. I opened my eyes and was shocked to see her standing there. I had seen her for the first time a few hours before then when my friend asked me to help her turn on the TV/DSTV in the parlor as he was leaving the flat.

So, there she was in my room, asking me if I am okay and all that. I told her I had a little too much too drink last night and needed to sleep it off, then she asked if she could lie down beside me on the bed. I thought I wasn't hearing well, but I sha nodded. She lay down beside me, and I turned around to continue my sleep. A few minutes later, she tapped me, I turned around, and she slowly kissed me. I didn't want to embarrass her, so I played along...long story short, we had sex.

If it was the other way around, the female in the equation would have shouted rape. Because, really, that was like rape to me.

NwaAmaikpe:


Onyeka Nwelue : "A Powerful Lady Asked Me For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan and I refused"

Me :

ivolt:


No females don't get away with a lot of things,
it is the coward male who refuse to report that gave them such
license.

If no woman ever reported a male rapist, the rapist will get away
with it. Same thing applies to a man who refuses to report a female rapist
but is quick to bring it up to gain sympathy or delegitimize campaign against
sexual violence.

Society can never progress when victims hide under their bed while throwing
occasional stones outside.

gypsey:
yes! It was Rape! You should have reported it. And see how people and police would have laughed at you

kay29000:


Exactly! Police would have chased me out of their station with laughter.

gypsey:
but if it was the other way round?

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

rufychuks:
The only women to have commented here actually see nothing wrong with this! Real double standards.

missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
something they do every possible thing to have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

kay29000:


I would have been locked up.

gypsey:
And that's the unfair and misogynistic world a man have to live in. Apparently we enjoy been raped because that's what we like.

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

lenghtinny:

The reason they hide is because of the attitude of the general public towards these kind of incidents, in other words stigmatization...

Imagine you going to the police station to report this offence, what do you think will be the reaction of the average policemen at the counter will be?

I remember earlier this year, two girls raped a boy in South Africa and recorded it on video. People were mocking the poor boy while others wished they were in his shoes (even on Nairaland).
Anytime male rape cases happens in Zimbabwe, you see males asking how much is the ticket to Zimbabwe.

This is due to the fact the society has painted sex as a big favor from the female folks to the male folks. So technically, A female cannot rape you according to them but when it comes to females, they start screaming consent.

Rape is generally viewed as forceful sex by a male against a female victim. So it's kind of awkward seeing a female rapist against a male victim.
Trust me the kind of stigmatization a male victim suffers is way more than that of a female victim.[/color]

missyadorable:
How can a man complain about being offered sex?
something they always want
something they do every possible thing to have?

A man complaining of molestation with sex is a mad man.....

Period

kay29000:
Of course there will always be double standards. I remember a couple of years ago, I was in my room, nursing a hangover from the night before, and my friend's female friend came into the room. I opened my eyes and was shocked to see her standing there. I had seen her for the first time a few hours before then when my friend asked me to help her turn on the TV/DSTV in the parlor as he was leaving the flat.

So, there she was in my room, asking me if I am okay and all that. I told her I had a little too much to drink last night and needed to sleep it off, then she asked if she could lie down beside me on the bed. I thought I wasn't hearing well, but I sha nodded. She lay down beside me, and I turned around to continue my sleep. A few minutes later, she tapped me, I turned around, and she slowly kissed me. I didn't want to embarrass her, so I played along...long story short, we had sex.

If it was the other way around, the female in the equation would have shouted rape. Because, really, that was like rape to me.

biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread