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See Five (5) Things To Do Before Or After If You Are Victim Of Incest. by chatinent: 11:46am On Oct 17, 2017
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Incest is sexual relation between people closely related, and formidable, be it immediate relatives, step relatives, adopted relatives, or blood relatives.
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In most countries, if not all, incest is taboo. Religiously, it is a sin in all religion.

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Here are few things that could help you if you are a victim of incest.
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(you may also want to read five things to do before or after if you are a victim of rape.)
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1. Whom to confide in. To whom do you uncover this secret to? It seems embarrassing doesn't it? Well, if you trust nobody, it's fine you feel that way. Was it an older person? A brother, sister, or step-siblings? Was it an uncle or aunt? Probably, a grand parent or step-parent? Well, confide in an immediate parent; a father of a mother, or, ain immediate brother or sister you trust. Explain all that transpired within the nook and cranny of the story.
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2. Re-adjust your dressing. Most sexual assault cases may be to wearing clothes that are revealing. A step sibling may develop an urge to dine among the roses behind the cloth. You may see it as dressing 'casual' at home. Maybe, a blouse without a bra, a pair of leggings or knickers without pants which -- for the males -- keeping a noise-making church bell dangling (is it choir time? sad ), and for the females, advertises loaves of (...), you can imagine. Even at home, watch your dress codes.
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3. Understand everyone. Try to discover that attitudinal human behind every member of the family, knowing who is who, and who can do what who can do.
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4. Still be your gender. Not because she is your sister, should you UnCloth amid her, or likewise to the feminine counterpart. Most ladies (women) care less when they UnCloth in front of a younger sibling, it is, indeed, wrong.
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5. If victimized. The burden might be the weight of a bungalow, why not need help to carry it? I bet, your religious leader may also be an aid to your becoming relieved. Some worthy friends too, may come around to make you feel secure. If you think not reporting it is the best solution, then you solved it wrongly. It cheapens you. You need report it if it was done without your consent.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=487&st=0&#entry949
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Cc: lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano

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