Hello Nairalanders,

I have been dating this lady for like 4years. She is Ok and good looking. She is faithful as of then in which I went to school for 2years and came back to her. For the past 2months now, I found out she is having an affair with another guy. I confronted her and she told me the truth. I decided to quit the relationship but she pleaded with her elder sisters to forgive her in which I did and I told her that as she claimed the incident was a mistake, I want her to put an end to any form of communication between her and the side guy and she accepted. Unfortunately, this my babe and the guy are still communicating. I told my girl of recent that seeing the guy calls on her phone make me feel unhappy and consider myself weak on how everything happen under my nose. I told her if she can't stop the guy completely, I will quit or rather give her sometime to sort herself out and possibly decide what she really want but she refused and saying she can't stay without me. Obviously, I love her so much but my happiness is very important to me. Presently, she is the only babe I have and am ready to stay single for now at least for the sake of my happiness. Please, I need you guys contribution as I am presently fed up and confuse. Thanks.

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Give her time to round up with the side-guy.

A cheat will always be a cheat.

I dont know why you forgave her the first time, but if you would disrespect you and keep cheating, then what could happen when you guys get married. Dont give her another chance, because she will do worse and be able to cover her tracks the next time.

You sound too weak. Be d man in ur relationship, its either she drop the guy or you move on. No two ways about it.

3 things u need to do.

1. propose 2 her and go and meet her parents

2. start preparing for the wedding , plan and involve her

3. take her 2 your pastor or on your own, 40 a week of intense prayer and fasting to make sure she is d one

izaray:
You sound too weak. Be d man in ur relationship, its either she drop the guy or you move on. No two ways about it.

Tnx alot. I appreciate

Realfitbody:
I dont know why you forgave her the first time, but if you would disrespect you and keep cheating, then what could happen when you guys get married. Dont give her another chance, because she will do worse and be able to cover her tracks the next time.

Yea.. I did dat because I cued to her words that it might be a mistake n I dont want a quick judge from people to say am just waiting 4 an opportunity to come.

what was this your headline again my gf is giving me tough time




your babe has only 1 side guy and your crying what we that date olosho in innocent girl dressing

Op you be Anebira

DOUBLEWAHALA:
what was this your headline again my gf is giving me tough time




your babe has only 1 side guy and your crying what we that date olosho in innocent girl dressing

oh! come on, I will have love to be rough but it cant just suit my trait. when I see some no dulling guys, I do respect them. so can't just really double dating but if I catch my bae doing it, it gonna pain mennh. Dat is my point here.

EzeEbira:
Op you be Anebira

Brotherly.... I am oooo Etemeya da.

4 years and she is acting dis way? She sed she cnt stay wtout u, Wat den is d side guy doing wt her? She has jst made her choice, let her go.

IAMSASHY:

Wat is that girl....

OhiOfIhima:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been dating this lady for like 4years. She is Ok and good looking. She is faithful as of then in which I went to school for 2years and came back to her. For the past 2months now, I found out she is having an affair with another guy. I confronted her and she told me the truth. I decided to quit the relationship but she pleaded with her elder sisters to forgive her in which I did and I told her that as she claimed the incident was a mistake, I want her to put an end to any form of communication between her and the side guy and she accepted. Unfortunately, this my babe and the guy are still communicating. I told my girl of recent that seeing the guy calls on her phone make me feel unhappy and consider myself weak on how everything happen under my nose. I told her if she can't stop the guy completely, I will quit or rather give her sometime to sort herself out and possibly decide what she really want but she refused and saying she can't stay without me. Obviously, I love her so much but my happiness is very important to me. Presently, she is the only babe I have and am ready to stay single for now at least for the sake of my happiness. Please, I need you guys contribution as I am presently fed up and confuse. Thanks.

No wonder! Woman wrapper...

Stillthebest:



No wonder! Woman wrapper...

Monitoring spirit... Keep digging until u find sometin that will swallow you.

OhiOfIhima:


Monitoring spirit... Keep digging until u find sometin that will swallow you.

Yes... because I saw incoherence and lack of simple understanding in your writings. That prompted me to dig you more. I can't be swallowed by you 1million times. Know your banter boy!

if u given a used pant u won't agree to wear it, but u guys find it OK sharing ladies among urseves. As if it's not d best to marry a virgin. ppl like u who admire used ladies are d reason why many women are into oloshoismm and gross indecency

Weakling.

She might see you as been indecisive. To her, you can't leave her.



Surprise her. I hate been the second fiddle.






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