obi4eze:
I don't agree with the sex part

tosyne2much:
And here goes Toks again

obi4eze:
I don't agree with the sex part

Toks2008:


Wish I could do away with this crazy passion for freelance writing.Let me call seen or mynd44 to see this and decide.

Benita27:
You can never be fulfilled...relationship wise, if you find yourself in such a relationship. Going by what you've stated here, the parties involved would be emotionally unavailable 'cause your relationship is transactional which makes it pure business for those involved. It's human nature to want to love and be loved. Imagine yourself in a relationship the lady/guy in question doesn't have an atom of feelings for you, it's best to have a one night stand than getting entangled in such affairs. On this note, I totally disagree with this write-up 'cause it didn't make sense to me.

Toks2008:


And who love and feeling Don epp? Go to yaba left and see the result.

Benita27:
If e no help you, e help others. Marriage/relationship of convenience is one based on agreement rather than mutual feeling(love). Do you really understand what's like to be confined in a room with someone that all your relationship is about is documented and must be agreed upon?.

This reminds me of Christian Grey's agreement with Anastasia Steel #Fiftyshadesofgrey.

alexialin:
Nope! It doesn't make sense.

An intimate relationship between a man and a woman is not a business transaction, one carries out with any customer who strolls in your office and shows interest on what you are selling.

It's more delicate than you imagine.

Your write up is unrealistic in real life.

Toks2008:


Maybe you need to read again before making comments. There is nothing like marriage of convenience here.

R0ckefeller:
all those one are story just say you are looking for baby daddy or mama

Benita27:
Your points pointed towards that. No love involved, purely transactional to avoid losses. You want a win-win situation for those involved but life itself isn't fair which makes your assumption impracticable. I understood what you wrote abso-fùcking-lutely.

Toks2008:


Unfortunately ladies keep reading this with emotions attached. What is up there is the ideal way most ladies want their relationship to be cos at the end, they still get a partner like treatment.

With all the sermons in the world,baby mamas are on the rise,divorce is the order of the day so why all the stress...?

Toks2008:


And I still ask you. with all these sermons about real love....why do we still have breakups on the increase? could there be something unrealistic about it?

alexialin:





So because baby mamas are on the rise and some people tend to divorce instead of working on their marriage.
Does not mean we should throw in the trowel and live our private lives like its every day business. Soldier come, soldier go

You may tend to follow the society and where it's menace is pushing you towards.

For me? I ain't following such route at all.

I still have faith I will. Marry well and live long , prosperous and happy with my partner, even if everyone is divorcing.

For me, I can't date a baby daddy, how much more take him serious. And I know there are some men out there, who cannot be with baby mama no matter what.

It's all about choices for yourself, as an individual.

Even in US wey divorce yaapa! And baby mama's and daddy's everywhere there.

Rappers still dey marry, the rich still marries and also the poor and average. They follow it through to the end, hoping they will have a Happy home and be with their loved ones till death do them part.

Some. People still have hope and faith they will get it right, even when majority are failing.

For me, I don't give up. And as a human being, u can't afford to give up to the pressures of society. Hell no!

Benita27:
My dear, real love exist, and poo happens.

Toks2008:


I agree with you but my point is clear but unfortunately it is difficult to see in the write up.

Treat your affair more like a partnership thing and you will get the best out of it.

Every divorcee be it a man or woman had hoped at a time to be married till death so this is not about wishful thoughts but reality on ground.

Treat your affair like a partnership deal and you will experience a better romance...that is the message

Toks2008:


Kilode? it's partnership so you can't just order as you do in the usual love affair.

Toks2008:


The easiest way to get a baby mama is to lead a lady on...promise her love,take her to your family then do introduction and make her pregnant then give her stories why the marriage should wait....

So the point is that this so called love talks is for rookies who want to be decieved.Its better to think straight so that you can know what you are getting into.