tosyne2much:
It's easy here for people to say that the guy is not wroth it if he gets disappointed after her confession.

That kind of deceit is a very dangerous one and every sane guy will want to retrace his step. You used virginity to scam a guy into marriage and you now want to make a confession when the wedding date has been fixed and she thinks it will be easy for such a guy to embrace a lady. Things don't happen the way people thing

Well, it depends on the kind of heart the guy has sha.. Most guys will breakup and find another girl

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

luminouz:

Lmaoooooo!!!!
U should know me by now.....ion do e-fights!!!
Which secret nitori olorun?? What's d big deal about being a virgin!!!! D important thing is datshe is decent D guy already wants to marry her... Why in hell would she now tell him say an uncle once bleeped her?
What's past is past!!! She should look to d future naaaa!!!!
Religion has really milked some people of their God given sense

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

sinaj:
I dnt think u read her post

1StopRudeness:


Took advantage, of a fifteen year old?? ..I have a 16yearold yahoo boy codedly driving around his infinity fx35 at the next street.

A minor with full grown tits and back side will kill, steal, commit arson, and other hard crimes and will be allowed to go on trial even possibly punished..why don't they say they are to young, they don't know what they are doing
.but when it's sexx, just to off pant and do the thing...someone will start blaming the adult for rape saying he or she took advantage...I understand what statutory rape is but some countries don't care about such shitss anymore..cos they know these so called minors are the ones calling for it...
95percent of the time it isn't rape....dats why I was asking the OP cos it seems like she was trying to paint a picture that the sexx she had wasn't her consent cos she was young...


some state in united state have reduced statutory rape age from 17yrs 11months to almost 15yrs since in those state 15-16yrs are allowed to drive.

Cedarseeds:
I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again.[/b[b]] He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

Lomprico2:
Tell him if it will gives u peace. If you think you might loose him if u do, then keep shut and live happily ever after. Afterall its not the type of lie that will damage anything.
90% of couples today marry as non virgins and countless lie before, during and after wedding oat.

To me its no biggie

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

KreativGenius:



Tosin, it's way beyond the hymen issue. How can the guy entrust his decisions, his life to such an individual. Also guys, once a lady accepts a proposal, sexual intercourse is permitted. I can prove from ancient Jewish traditions, i wonder why guys wait till wedding for proposal. The guy will feel duped, and won't be able to trust her for life. It's a different thing if he knew she wasn't a virgin, that's different matter entirely, this one is a dupe, a fraudster, a liar, a murder, she doesn't deserve that marriage

The magnitude of that lie is way too much bro.. Even if the guy goes on with the wedding, he will always reminisce about such a thing

Imagine, she come still put something to inside the kitty-cat make the thing be like brand new just to scam the brother

Just imagine say she tell the guy that kind thing

1StopRudeness:


Took advantage, of a fifteen year old?? ..I have a 16yearold yahoo boy codedly driving around his infinity fx35 at the next street.

A minor with full grown tits and back side will kill, steal, commit arson, and other hard crimes and will be allowed to go on trial even possibly punished..why don't they say they are to young, they don't know what they are doing
.but when it's sexx, just to off pant and do the thing...someone will start blaming the adult for rape saying he or she took advantage...I understand what statutory rape is but some countries don't care about such shitss anymore..cos they know these so called minors are the ones calling for it...
95percent of the time it isn't rape....dats why I was asking the OP cos it seems like she was trying to paint a picture that the sexx she had wasn't her consent cos she was young...


some state in united state have reduced statutory rape age from 17yrs 11months to almost 15yrs since in those state 15-16yrs are allowed to drive.

kennypedia:
Since God didn't expose you who are you to challenge him, ask for forgiveness and be faithful and loyal to your spouse

tosyne2much:
The magnitude of that lie is way too much bro.. Even if the guy goes on with the wedding, he will always reminisce about such a thing

Imagine, she come still put something to inside the kitty-cat make the thing be like brand new just to scam the brother

Just imagine say she tell the guy that kind thing

Cedarseeds:
Please help I had to create a new account for this.

When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.

I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.

The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with?

1StopRudeness:


Took advantage, of a fifteen year old?? ..I have a 16yearold yahoo boy codedly driving around his infinity fx35 at the next street.

A minor with full grown tits and back side will kill, steal, commit arson, and other hard crimes and will be allowed to go on trial even possibly punished..why don't they say they are to young, they don't know what they are doing
.but when it's sexx, just to off pant and do the thing...someone will start blaming the adult for rape saying he or she took advantage...I understand what statutory rape is but some countries don't care about such shitss anymore..cos they know these so called minors are the ones calling for it...
95percent of the time it isn't rape....dats why I was asking the OP cos it seems like she was trying to paint a picture that the sexx she had wasn't her consent cos she was young...


some state in united state have reduced statutory rape age from 17yrs 11months to almost 15yrs since in those state 15-16yrs are allowed to drive.