I hope I won't turn down the people that are really in need!
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My name Is ? and because of what I faced while growing I was able to Earn little to compliment the 3k my mum do give me monthly as an undergraduate..and let me remind you that I am really Nice..I am compassionate..and anytime anybody is in any problem I do feel the problem like it's mine!

The issue right now is that it seems people around me. School friends,Mates,everybody around me just discovered it because they are sucking me DRIED daily! With their usual financial needs...and them claiming life and death with the needs!

Like daily .daily! And I am not rich at all..it's just that I can have 0.0k just to give my last "K" to help someone with them promising to pay back! And now I am seriously HURT! because I no longer trust people words!

Since March a gal has been owing me 15k
A guy since June is owing me 5k (For his school fees)
My friend is owing me 4k since July(I borrowed him when he claimed he is not having cash and that he would be giving me back the second day)
A gal Begged me to borrow her 2k to get a form in a ushering agency and that she would pay back since!

This past weeks...the request has skyrocketed! Just yesterday I borrowed 4k out to 2diff guys!!

The issue now is that MOST don't pay back!! I am hurt because I am always broke and I only help just because I don't like someone being Helpless!

Lol..and I can't ask them for my money because I am shy when it comes to money matters!

Run

My brother, are u a Microfinance bank or ATM?

You're not serious,how can you be shy to ask for your money...hunger never comes knocking

Your ability to differentiate and maintain balance between gullibility and compassion will automatically solve your problem.

Walai if bank employ u





Just come back here and give me ur address

LivinaPatrick:
You're not serious,how can you be shy to ask for your money...hunger never comes knocking

my sister don't blame him.....na so pieces personality b o

Pele ti ee oooo

Pele o eleyinjuanu! Sit down there dey lament until they suck you dry. Why will they pay back? Because everyone sees you as a philanthropist. Pls, can I also get 5k from you?

Born2conquer:
I hope I won't turn down the people that are really in need!
_
My name Is ? and because of what I faced while growing I was able to Earn little to compliment the 3k my mum do give me monthly as an undergraduate..and let me remind you that I am really Nice..I am compassionate..and anytime anybody is in any problem I do feel the problem like it's mine!

The issue right now is that it seems people around me. School friends,Mates,everybody around me just discovered it because they are sucking me DRIED daily! With their usual financial needs...and them claiming life and death with the needs!

Like daily .daily! And I am not rich at all..it's just that I can have 0.0k just to give my last "K" to help someone with them promising to pay back! And now I am seriously HURT! because I no longer trust people words!

Since March a gal has been owing me 15k
A guy since June is owing me 5k (For his school fees)
My friend is owing me 4k since July(I borrowed him when he claimed he is not having cash and that he would be giving me back the second day)
A gal Begged me to borrow her 2k to get a form in a ushering agency and that she would pay back since!

This past weeks...the request has skyrocketed! Just yesterday I borrowed 4k out to 2diff guys!!

The issue now is that MOST don't pay back!! I am hurt because I am always broke and I only help just because I don't like someone being Helpless!

Lol..and I can't ask them for my money because I am shy when it comes to money matters!

Stop borrowing pipu money simple. When they come asking, tell them your funds are tied in investments

see this father Christmas where is your location so that i can come and receive my own share of the money..I don't mind trekking. ..

Learn how to say no sometimes.... Humans sometimes dnt deserve a cheerful giver

Born2conquer:
I hope I won't turn down the people that are really in need!
_
My name Is ? and because of what I faced while growing I was able to Earn little to compliment the 3k my mum do give me monthly as an undergraduate..and let me remind you that I am really Nice..I am compassionate..and anytime anybody is in any problem I do feel the problem like it's mine!

The issue right now is that it seems people around me. School friends,Mates,everybody around me just discovered it because they are sucking me DRIED daily! With their usual financial needs...and them claiming life and death with the needs!

Like daily .daily! And I am not rich at all..it's just that I can have 0.0k just to give my last "K" to help someone with them promising to pay back! And now I am seriously HURT! because I no longer trust people words!

Since March a gal has been owing me 15k
A guy since June is owing me 5k (For his school fees)
My friend is owing me 4k since July(I borrowed him when he claimed he is not having cash and that he would be giving me back the second day)
A gal Begged me to borrow her 2k to get a form in a ushering agency and that she would pay back since!

This past weeks...the request has skyrocketed! Just yesterday I borrowed 4k out to 2diff guys!!

The issue now is that MOST don't pay back!! I am hurt because I am always broke and I only help just because I don't like someone being Helpless!

Lol..and I can't ask them for my money because I am shy when it comes to money matters!

Op, Coman borrow me money... I'll pay

when next another person comes to borrow from u. give him or her the list of people owing u and the amount, tell them that whenever any of them pays back you will loan them. it works for me. Be wise next time with your little funds. people are not smiling and the town is dry.

serenegroup:
when next another person comes to borrow from u. give him or her the list of people owing u and the amount, tell them that whenever any of them pays back you will loan them. it works for me. Be wise next time with your little funds. people are not smiling and the town is dry.

Thanks boss..I think I will try this

Learnstuffs:
My brother, are u a Microfinance bank or ATM?

Hmmm

Seriously..it's time I start acting tough

LivinaPatrick:
You're not serious,how can you be shy to ask for your money...hunger never comes knocking

1)I do think about the friendship and relationship

Like I know,going the tough way to claim the money will means the end of the friendship..that's why I am always Giving the Dudes chances maybe they will change and pay back

LordKO:

Your ability to differentiate and maintain balance between gullibility and compassion will automatically solve your problem.

1)A guy was crying seriously sometimes that I am the only one he could turn to because the school fees portal would be closing today and that his money would be coming from home in few weeks time..

I turned him down..buy he kept asking till I gave him part "5" ...till today...the guy hardly pick my call sef

olaleks007:
Walai if bank employ u





Just come back here and give me ur address

I seriously Wont work In a bank..I get moved easily

tayo60:
Pele o eleyinjuanu! Sit down there dey lament until they suck you dry. Why will they pay back? Because everyone sees you as a philanthropist. Pls, can I also get 5k from you?

Hmmm..I seriously will start turning a blind eye now

The funniest thing is that WHEN I NEED HELP ...I DON'T SEE PEOPLE TO HELP ME!!

there was a time I misplaced my Scientific calculator...I trekked the whole hostels..rooms... nobody could spare his for Me..not even the ones I've helped!

People don't render me help when I'm in need..but I am always too quick to assist

KreativGenius:



Stop borrowing pipu money simple. When they come asking, tell them your funds are tied in investments

Thanks Brother

chazebose:
Learn how to say no sometimes.... Humans sometimes dnt deserve a cheerful giver

They seriously don't!

A stupid gal was narrating how she used my money to undergo a surgery blahblah...that can she come over to pay me in kinds?

I rejected it... people ain't appreciative

I understand you OP. You're just like my younger bro. He's always ready to help even when not comfortable with his self then he would later start complaining the people he helps don't help him in return. Just try to use wisdom next time. What I do is that, if I have and you ask or wants to borrow from me and I see you can pay me, I'll give you half of what you want to borrow so I won't have my self to be blame later on

LOL beggars man.

When it comes to money, I don't 'borrow' what I know I cannot dash.
By the time that money is leaving my hand, then it means I have decided that it is dash.
If the money comes back to me, then I see it as a pleasant surprise. If it doesn't, then that person knows that they can't come to beg me for anything else later in the future.

You have to ask yourself simply: Can I afford to dash this person this money (you're not working yourself, so likely no)? If the answer is no, Just tell them "sorry wish I could help but I can't". Simple. You don't owe anyone any explanation past that. Don't start using your own mouth to swear for yourself by creating negative stories as to why you can't dash borrow them the money.

True talk at @2bulfagain

One padi asked me to borrow him a 100$ btc another said 50$ btc. Am I bill gates son ?

You can also learn the power of manipulation ... If you know how people forget the dead you won't hesitate to stop pleasing people

#Bokel

Google the difference between FRIENDS and ASSOCIATE

Born2conquer:

1)I do think about the friendship and relationship

Like I know,going the tough way to claim the money will means the end of the friendship..that's why I am always Giving the Dudes chances maybe they will change and pay back

nah! They won't change...it seems you don't know some people can be parasitic

Are you a bank? Why are you borrow everybody money?

I think the problem is that you don't know how to say NO and that will destroy you if you are not careful