I'm 27 and my girlfriend
is 24. We've been dating
for 2 years now, and just
moved in together 2
months ago. We have
had periods where we
have had a lot of sex, but
here recently it is just
about 1-3 times a week,
usually on the lower
side. The thing that really
depresses me is that my
girlfriend masturbates
on a regular basis, but
says she is not in the
mood to have sex with
me. She tries to
keep it private, but I
generally know when
she's done it. I just don't
understand how she can
feel sexual enough to
masturbate, but not want
to have sex with her b/f.
Please, any help would
be appreciated, this is
really hurting our
relationship, which sucks
because everything else
is great between us.

Guy you have a potential lesbian on your hand. MY BROTHER YOU BETTER PICK RACE

She Fancy Cucumber To Ur Dick. Guy To Be Sincere U Cant Satisfy Her That Is Why Ur Sex Life Is Declining. Pls Kindly Get Ur Sex Equation Right Or U'l Lose Her

She's feeling bored with you so take her out, monitor her calls too. also check if she's over protective of her phone and let her communicate d problems with you. could be she's trying to keep her pussy tight for d new boyfriend she just met or has being seeing.

den dump her

Kooldon:
She Fancy Cucumber To Ur Dick. Guy To Be Sincere U Cant Satisfy Her That Is Why Ur Sex Life Is Declining. Pls Kindly Get Ur Sex Equation Right Or U'l Lose Her

Can a man satisfy a woman in anything? big no

IamKashyBaby:


Uumm...

Maybe u don't give her what she really wants...some women prefer to masturbate than having a sex with their partner simply bcoz they can't reached CLIMAX ...

what does she really want that I can not give her

Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

In other words, you guys have been fornicating?

Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

thanks madam I will not take it as an Insult, but a good advice from you, may be sucking her pussy and make her cum before sex will be good, thanks a lot.

Lucifer1419:
thanks madam I will not take it as an Insult, but a good advice from you, may be sucking her pussy and make her cum before sex will be good, thanks a lot.

Not just that. Try to learn about her body.

The breast, her neck, behind her ears, her navel, there's a lot to explore. You have to learn about her body. Do things that will make her beg for pentratative sex. Like that the sex will be very pleasurable.

Lucifer1419:
thanks madam I will not take it as an Insult, but a good advice from you, may be sucking her pussy and make her cum before sex will be good, thanks a lot.

u want to insert ur tongue inside where blood and urine comes out
SMH

Rokia2:


Not just that. Try to learn about her body.

The breast, her neck, behind her ears, her navel, there's a lot to explore. You have to learn about her body. Do things that will make her beg for pentratative sex. Like that the sex will be very pleasurable.

god bless your advice I appreciate it alot

Onijagidijagan:

Can a man satisfy a woman in anything? big no

Very well. if you havnt experienced dt before, ask those that had.

Lucifer1419:
god bless your advice I appreciate it alot

You're welcome.

Also make sure to check everything is fine as in she's ain't angry with you. Cuz sometimes when we're angry we don't want sex. Cause we have to put our heart in the sex especially when we are in love.

So make sure everything is ok outside then the bedroom will be fire.

Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

Well the truth is , this is way better off than her finding solace in another guy out there who is ready to take her to the climax zone ..

So this is the solution , don't try to beat yourself up about the whole issue , hence challenge her .. Follow these steps ...

[/b]First[b] , have a light discussion with her , try to engage her in the activities she likes doing and also be as proactive as ever when taking this step..

She begins to open up to you , all you just need to do is just listen , even if she says you aren't doing it well , don't say " its a lie , Sade always comes back for more " , the major goal is for her to open up ..

Second, this is the part where you have gained her trust , what you need to practice now is what we call , pure intimacy - intimacy isn't about penetrating or having sex ... Just make all this romantic touches , try to explore her body , spend a lot of time kissing , smooching . . what ever you do , don't penetrate just yet ...

Third, communicate with her on what she enjoys most , look at her body language , there is a particular demeanor a lady gives off when she is enjoying it and wants you to continue , I am not talking about fake moans of sort , but you would know by her eye sight, hand placement why you are penetrating ... Then that way you would be able to satisfy her ... Ask her questions like " Do I go slower or faster , " Are u tired , does it hurt you , do you want me to continue
Etc...

Note:

The major thing you need to know is ,try to embrace the act she is into first , before you try to stop it , unless she would conceal it from you ...you stop bad habits by making new ones ... The key to stopping this masturbation is communication and you must apply whatever she says to your next round ...

Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

Odiegwu oo!!!


Our parents no even sabi this sexual skills

Probably her fingers reach places ur dick just couldnt reach.

Kai!!!

to be candid

the babe future husband don suffer oh.

imagine...steady nackin for 2months, to think u even have the gut to complain say d babe no nack u again...nawa oh...

chairman put a ring on her finger and stop choppin another man's food for free jhur...rubbish.

yoruba people will say 'die to ninu nkan onikan" pardon me if no i get the spelling biko.

Hmmmm dat means if a gal begs 4 penetrative sex, u hv done it ryt. Wow! So I hv bin doing it ryt since without me knowing it. No wonder each tym she tries to cum 4 mor bt I will tell her dat am tire of confessing same sin. FORNICATION IS BAD!!! #HOLY COMMUNION KEEPS ME 4RM COMMITTING FORNICATION#
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Rokia2:


Not just that. Try to learn about her body.

The breast, her neck, behind her ears, her navel, there's a lot to explore. You have to learn about her body. Do things that will make her beg for pentratative sex. Like that the sex will be very pleasurable.

Lucifer1419:
what does she really want that I can not give her

An orgasm maybe . Or she's trying to keep it tight, maybe you aren't showing signs of settling down soon, or maybe the excessive sex got her bored. I might be wrong on all 3 counts, what do I know?

Possible she doesn't reach that peak with you.
She probably found out about masturbation and got addicted cos of the 100% assured orgasm...

Just saying though

Possible she doesn't reach that peak with you.
She probably found out about masturbation and got addicted cos of the 100% assured orgasm.

Going by ur story.
You guys use to hv a lot of sex b4.
With time it decline from 1-3 times a week.
And as time goes on, she now claim not being in d mood yet she masturbate.
You see ehh! all dis point to d fact that u're not good enough on bed.
She get more satisfaction doing it alone that's d simple reason.

make money,
when you have money, satisfying a woman would be the least of your worries

Lucifer1419:
I'm 27 and my girlfriend
is 24. We've been dating
for 2 years now, and just
moved in together 2
months ago. We have
had periods where we
have had a lot of sex, but
here recently it is just
about 1-3 times a week,
usually on the lower
side. The thing that really
depresses me is that my
girlfriend masturbates
on a regular basis, but
says she is not in the
mood to have sex with
me. She tries to
keep it private, but I
generally know when
she's done it. I just don't
understand how she can
feel sexual enough to
masturbate, but not want
to have sex with her b/f.
Please, any help would
be appreciated, this is
really hurting our
relationship, which sucks
because everything else
is great between us.

ogba enutan

Why can't you buy her a cucumber To use in her?? Lmaoooo.... You insert... Plenty times.. Bring it out... Put it in your mouth.. Chew am... And watch her reaction.. If she no worship you, come back here and wag your limpopo

Rokia2:
Many men just don't know how to fu::ck a woman well.
So many are so clueless. Some even watch porn for clues imagine just imagine.

Maybe you suck and don't know how to properly handle her body. Now with masturbation she knows what to touch and how to touch herself to get the pleasure she wants cause she knows her body.

Shame on you. As a lover you should know and study her body well to know what gets her off.

You have to be attentive, selfless and a good communicator to please a woman in bed. Many men don't get that. They only care about cumming. They cum and the sex is over. The affect of watching too much porn. When you think the woman is only there to satisfy you and her own satisfaction is not important. A good guy in bed likes his woman to cum first before him........though sometimes it's beyond your control but such nigga have mastered the act of prolonging their own ejaculation. Many women takes longer to cum. You can't make her cum in 10 minutes or even 30 minutes.


You have to learn to last long and not just to last long and give her painful sex. But to give her mind blowing sex. Don't just fu:ck her non stop. Bleep her pause and do something that will drive her crazy. Now this depends on what your babe likes and what gets her off. Again communication very important. While fu:::cling her make sure you touch and tease places that drive her crazy.

Nothing I hate more then a selfish lover in bed. Niggas that only care about cumming and that's it. God forbid I will be gone with the wind. A good guy that wants to take his time to learn about my body, the right spot to hit my biggest turn on what drives me crazy, how to get me off, and a master in pre-intimacy. And pre-intimacy don't have to start in the bedroom......we can start way before the act. Now that's a good lover.

hmmmm

27? and you aee still talking about girl frnd your mate don born finish o. your village people are using your destiny to play bet9ja you didnt know