Flashh:
Wanted to take one serious, but she misbehaved. So, old things are passed away.

AverageAnnie:
I'm scared already,,very soon he'll be going for service.. My prayer is that God will cover his eyes and heart...

paulstrings:
During our University days, we've acquired the Love of our Life at one point. He/She must be someone you planned to settle with after school. Oh, the Joy, the Romance and the Memories. That level of relationship is always something serious.

But then NYSC Happened.

The Camping is the crux of the whole matter.

21 days of meeting new people, having fun, a different environment and schedule.

There is this air of freedom and sense of adventure.

You begin to form alliances, acquaintances, and friendships to survive.

These networks will help you survive the 21 "horrible" days.

Disaster will always be lurking around the corner. You just like this guy/girl so much, and you can’t get them out of your mind because you get to see them every day for the next 21 days. You see them at the parade grounds, hostels, kitchen, seminar halls and variety classes. The attraction becomes something of a greater magnitude

You finally decide to take action and you know, this cliché

“Whatever happens in Moscow, stays in Moscow”.

there’s always something about connecting in such circumstances.

The Intimidation in our service camps is so high. Takes a lot of strength and willpower to resist such temptations. You will want to fight the urge to try someone new.

The Vegas of your dreams.

My Camp was interesting, Corpers went as far as organizing a party tagged "Night of Fornication". They printed flyers and shared around. {The camp director heard about it and gave us a hot moralizing sermon on the campgrounds the following morning. Youthful Exuberance!! She chided, even though a majority of us didn't know what went down the previous night.

Well, consider the fact that most people who attended the event were in a relationship or semi-relationship. And “things” must have happened that day. That was just an instance.

I heard stories of married corpers having extramarital affairs in camps. This might even go on to continue all through the service year.

My Advice to Corpers and partners are as follows

* Get prepared before they are being posted out to their service states. Discuss it
* Keep a constant communication. Give Him/her all the attention they deserve
* Make sure you part in high spirits. don't allow a fight before they leave.
* Try to visit if you can

Well, Humans are unpredictable beings. Let’s hope we can trust our partners to stay faithful and true during their NYSC days. For any healthy relationship, there must be trust, loyalty, and commitment.” Being in a foreign place and away from your love can definitely be tough but you can pull through. Besides, it has its own advantages, like

* The Absence makes the heart grow fonder
* Bringing romance to your relationship
* Falling in love with yourself and discovering new things about yourself

My sympathies go out to the insecure ones {Shrugs}. I personally don’t think they’ll survive the absence of their partners. They will go on to have a high degree of paranoia.

Please, tell us ... Did your relationship survive past the gruesome NYSC test?

Source: http://lifeafternysc.com/did-your-relationship-survive-after-nysc/

BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc

ChiefPiiko:
Never dated then

KingSango:



NYSC has the useless policy of posting troopers out their home state to create one Nigeria. Well is propinquity more important than passion for one's own state and culture? Troopers are far away from home, amongst another people, losing ties with their child love back home. Sometimes troopers are attacked or not supported by ethnic groups not in support of their changes. There is the loss of passion seeing the work troopers have done because they are not fixing home but someone else's home. Think how much passion and furor would be generated if the troopers and the community shared the same culture? Troopers seeing the changes to their own city would be more excited to fix its problems. Communities who are familiar with the troopers, because they know their family and share the same ethnicity would see them as heroes. This trooper placement out of state of their origin needs to be one of the things brought up during restructuring.


Ase

Love Sango

Michelle55:
Never had one.. all my heart was set on leaving the camp even though the orientation camp was one of the best camp to be. secondly I was missing home like kilode so there's no room to entertain any form of relationship.

IditaBoy:


Dude, you wrote jamb, tests/exams & then a dissertation with this type of grammar and graduated. How?

wintersnow:



Just Imagine.... Only 3 weeks you're missing home already... When you get married lives in another state, how are you gonna cope?

Michelle55:
to be sincere I have no idea how I'm gonna do that but I believe when I get to that stage in my life, I'll scale through.

wintersnow:


Lol...I guess you're the last child?
Did you school in your state?

Michelle55:
yes I did. I'm not the last. I'm the first and only. I guess being around my family has made it difficult for me to stay faraway.

wintersnow:


Awww i understand... You're really attached to them, buh seriously you've gotta start learning how to stay apart form em for a while, definitely it would hurt... Buh they'll be fine..trust me

Michelle55:
tell us your Nysc experience. did yours survived after the Nysc?

IditaBoy:


Dude, you wrote jamb, tests/exams & then a dissertation with this type of grammar and graduated. How?

osothermal:
By God's grace after 2 years plus post service, we are tying the nut on the 16th of December 2017 . it wasn't easy though but God has made it possible

BigSarah:
I'm in 300lvl still no relationship. The question should be were you in a relationship before Nysc

Bibi294:
Mine is six month post nysc and it's still flourishing...

wintersnow:


Lolz I'll be going this November Batch B stream 1.. Mine didn't even survive when we were together in the same state.. ...

Beedude:
Didn't date any corps member. Need to save my allawee for life after nysc. Thank God i did.