potbelly:
1.So the lady that "stays with you" is she a close or distant relative? And what is she doing in your house if she's none of the aforementioned... And what's is she to you and your family sir? Help clarify sir...

2. Your daughter was offered water, did she even bother to say thank you? But her response was don't give me water like a dog... What do you define that as sir?

sexy74:

Thanks for your observation.
I never called her a maid neither was my daughter rude to her, you just jumped into conclusion that she is a maid and my daughter was rude.
Dont assume what you dont know or sure of.

sexy74:

She believes dogs drink water from a bowl and she should not be drinking from a bowl when she has her cup
Sincerely u will not feel bad but still explain it to her that water can be drank from a bowl if that's all you have as at that time.
yes I did the explanation that you can drink water from any where as long as it is what you have.

potbelly:
You should be more bothered about the way your daughter talked to the maid...

oyb:


It is a lie!! Is this not ishi of unwavering discipline?!?! Give the girl suplex for starters !!

The girls attitude is what she learnt from the op. The op has no respect or regard for Mary, and the child has picked this up. End of.

legalgoon:
Lord help Nigerians. They're the most delirious and judgemental folks on the planet. No one even answered the problem the thread was opened to resolve. Everybody just immediately turned to domestic counsellor. Well done all of you as una sabi pass.

Btw, the man has explained the relationship politely and the girl was merely inquisitive as most kids are and the edginess is nothing unexpected. You guys need exposure.

Peace.

sexy74:

Thanks for asking a very good question and also thank you for your observations, now the little girl in question is 3 years , the girl staying with me put the water for her in a little bowl they use in feeding little kids and not in a cup which she uses. We have a dog that licks (laps) ( what I learnt today) from a bowl.
what made me pay more attention to them was when she kept on insisting that dogs dont drink water but lick (lap) it.

bot101:


People sef, the guy owes you no explanation. Stop being a sissy. Anyways, you can now eat the explanation to your fill.

potbelly:
You should be more bothered about the way your daughter talked to the maid...

Ishilove:

I am not that mean

jaszplus12:
in correct English you say "lap"
dogs lap and not lick water or any liquid as long as its in a bowl...
but of course if your feeding a puppy with a bottle the puppy then drinks it.
funny that most people say "I licked an orange "
the correct thing to say is "I ate an orange"
there's a lot more....

oyb:


And she backs it up with another slap

last35:
I haven't come across a more useless post, op is dumb!

Mynd44:

Lets flip the script. If your daughter had told you "why are you giving me water like a dog?" will you find it offensive to you?

Mynd44:

Lets flip the script. If your daughter had told you "why are you giving me water like a dog?" will you find it offensive to you?

legalgoon:
Lord help Nigerians. They're the most delirious and judgemental folks on the planet. No one even answered the problem the thread was opened to resolve. Everybody just immediately turned to domestic counsellor. Well done all of you as una sabi pass.

Btw, the man has explained the relationship politely and the girl was merely inquisitive as most kids are and the edginess is nothing unexpected. You guys need exposure.
Really?

Peace.

last35:
I haven't come across a more useless post, op is dumb!

Mynd44:

Let's be straigh here, your daughter was rude. It does not matter if Chisom is a maid or a nanny, rude is rude and I am bothered that you did not see the need to tell her to be a lil more polite to people.

You should teach your ward basic "please and thank you" also to be polite when requesting for thing. She could have requested for a cup and it is well but "am I a dog"? That escalated too quickly.

Also bothering is that children don't just come up with this thing, someone has been deneaning to Chisom in front of her and she js learning fast. Watch your daughter.


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